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writes: Hi,I was just wondering if anyone had heard of this before, or could offer me some advice. I have a sex problem. I find it really difficult to orgasm, unless I am on top of my boyf, or doggy style. However whenever I do get close to orgasm my vaginal muscles contract so much they push his penis (which is rather large) out every time, which then stops the rhythm, pleasure and then no orgasm for me. Both of us are getting a bit frustrated, as i'd love to have an orgasm, and he really wants to give me one as well. Whats happening?
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Well it's happened a few times to me and believe me i know how frustrating it is, so i'm going to tell you what i have done! It works for me! You say he is rather big so it should work!
When you feel you are drawing near to your orgasm, let him know and once you have told him he must go as deep but as gentle as possible, the deapth will keep the pressure and the gentleness will keep him inside while you are contracting and the more you contract the more steady he needs to hold himself!
If you are on top then sit hard! Don't move up and down to much and try and make it small movements!
If it works let me know, if not let me know and we can see if we can try find out another option!
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