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writes: Hey people!! I love my bf alot but im actually attracted to his best friend (who is going out with MY Best friend) more then i am to him.My boyfriend never seems to want to properly kiss me. I never kiss him properly cos he doesnt seem to want to, hes forever kissing me on the back of the head and on my cheek but never on the lips.When me and my boyfriend spend time together we have a great time, but im not actually pretty, im actually horrendously ugly in my opinion, and although my mates say im pretty im always insecure about how i look and how i act. Im always constantly worried about if i smudged my eyeliner or mascara, or if my foundation is showing or i have makeup lines, or if my foundation has rubbed off or anything like that, then i catch sight of myself in a mirror and go home cos i dont like it.I frequently catch people staring in the streets and it just makes me feel sick i didnt think i was that ugly. AH a new problem has arisen in me. I looked in the mirror today and thought i was ok, and people actually commented on how amazing i looked. Whats happening?Help me with these problems :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): well maybe he doesn't know how to kiss or is shy about whether you would enjoy the kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): ok u seem very young, when we're young theres always things we dont like about ourselves but our bodies are ever changing until at least our early 20's so i wouldnt worry, despite that, no one is ever ugly. too much attention is payed on looks and not humanity these days.
the fact he doesnt kiss you maybe becuse hes picked up on the fact you think your ugly? do you avoid eye contact?shy away a little? maybe hes scared to go in for a kiss, not all men know what to do,especially if hes still a young guy.
secondly, maybe hes picked up on the fact you fancy his BEST MATE!! what are you thinking? if you fancy someone else is it really fair to be with your bf? we all have crushes on people in our lives but we cant let every crush effect our lives or we'll never have a life..try to work on your relationship with your bf..talk with him..theres no relationship without honesty.
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reader, Tabz-Loves-You  +, writes (17 January 2007):
Um.... i noticed that you think your ugly?? STOP RITTE THERE! Think positive about yourself dont let what other people think get in your way thats not cool. And he does kiss you but some boys dont wanna make the first move or they dont wanna jump steps maybe he has a system? Try talkin it over... alrite!
love this mistery gurl
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