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writes: I've been seeing this guy now for almost four months and at first I was really into him. Now I feel like I'm going off him but I don't know why. I know I have problems with commitment but I really thought it would be different this time. I just don't know what to do. Should I stay and risk ending up feeling so suffocated that I'll run again or should I go now before I hurt him even though I may get over this feeling? I just don't understand why I feel like this. Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 It could just be that your relationship isnt meant to be. If its gone off the boil after four months it probably isn't but to be sure give yourself some space for a few days to think it out.
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reader, gail crossland +, writes (16 January 2007):
 try having a little time apart and see how you feel about each iother nce you have not seen each other for a week or few days. it will make your mind up for you. it can only go 2 ways. it will make you relalise how you feel about him and make you want to be with him or you will not miss him when you are apart and you can move on. also try telling him how you feel see if that helps. with regards to your commitment worries maybe you are scared to commit, a lot of people are too scared as they may have been hurt it the past or just feel its too soo. either way good look to you
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