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reader, tkay1032  +, writes (8 March 2007):
tkay1032 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok I am wondering if saving our realtionship is worth the time. If something is bothering me I can't talk to him cus he just gets mad and yells.I got upset with him today and called him to tell him since we both have sunday off I would like to have a long heart to heart and he insisted in talking while we were both still mad he ended up yelling and hanging up the phone which made me mad and I called back and left a pretty mean voice mail. I have 2 kids that love him so much and my son called him to ask him something and he ignored that call as well. I know he prolly thinks it's me calling but it still is not right. I wouldn't call him now anyway I am still to mad. Should I just beak it off now or try to fix this? I love him and want to be with him forever but not like this.Why can't he ever talk about things.
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reader, tkay1032 +, writes (25 February 2007):
tkay1032 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot much better. I don't know if we are drifting apart or if it is just his job. How can loving sommeone so much hurt so much? Even when he has time alone with me he finds other things to do. Should I just give up? I don't know what to do. I am afraid to talk to him cuz I don't want to argue. What should I do??
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reader, tkay1032 +, writes (10 February 2007):
tkay1032 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he asked me to marry him and I said yes. Still have the same prob but I am hoping we can over come it. Like when we get upset with one another he will forget it the next day and I still want to talk about it. I am still upset sometimes. Shoul I just let it go and let it bottle up inside?
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reader, tkay1032 +, writes (17 January 2007):
tkay1032 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks and answer to one of your questions is he asked me to marry him and it took a lot of talking to get me to say ok. I was the one scared. I have told him how I feel and it is ok for a month or two but then it starts again. I hope he knows how much I love him and that he can tell me anything on his mind and we will work through whatever it may be. After all it might be something minor. thanks again for your answers:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): I know exactly what you mean. My bloke is just the same, one day all over me like a rash and the next i hardly see him or he is a bit grumpy. Just laugh them days of as his male PMT!! We are just the same, i know i am, i just want my own space some days and others i want to be curled up beside him. Just put it down to humans! There is nothing wrong.
Take care
xx
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Well this is a real difficult question to answer without knowing the guy! You seem to be pretty serious about each other if you've already planned to be married. Was this a mutual decision or did he ask you? Have you set a date? I ask this as he might just be nervous of what's up ahead! Anyway it's probably nothing but my advice would be to communicate what you're feeling to him. Best to get over this issue now before you live "happily ever after". After a romantic dinner sit and share a big secret with him about yourself and see if he opens up and then when you're both feeling very close tell him exactly how you feel and that it worries or hurts you... Hope this helps. Good luck and maybe congratulations...
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Hi there, well I think most women can identify with what you say. Just as us females blow hot and cold at particular time sof the month so can men. They cant be nice and sweet all the time. Other influences can affect how they feel and its no refelction on their feelings for you. I wouldnt take it personally, My partner can be the same. One minute he's loving and attentive and another time he can be snappy and grumpy with a couldnt care less attitude. I call it his 'Victor Meldrew' moments. I would just act normal when he's like this and try not to let it affect you too much unless of course he starts being like that all the time then you have a right to ask what the matter is. Hope this helps.x
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