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writes: HiI have a female friend who I regard as a close friend. We met when we were in USA working at the same place on a student exchange program during summer 2006. (We are from the UK) We talked all the time about univeristy, movies etc.) We have not seen each other since September 2006 but talk almost everynight on MSN messenger. We have a lot in common for e.g we both have a passion for stage musicals (something I find very difficult to find in people my own age). The jist of it, I really like this girl but have no idea if she feels the same way or even if shes seeing anyone? I want to ask her out but do not want to make her uncomfortable and I don't want to loose her friendship. Please help. I've never had a g/f, how can I find out if she's interested in me or not. J
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): Go for it. Just ask her out on a date. Go for a drink and get to know each other slowly. If she doesn't have feelings for you she either won't want to meet you or won't go for a second date. But what do you have to lose?
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reader, ingotblue  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Just ease the conversations towards relationships, be honest with her.
Tell her about the fact that you havent really found any one that shared the same interests, that you havent really wanted to spend any time with as such.
Maybe arrange to meet up as friends you might find that your feelings are just holiday based.
If not then it is a great opportunity to see how she reacts when you offer to go and see her.
you might be able to feel your way around the answer that she gives.
Or alternatively just say to her I have feelings for you I would like ot know how you feel, but I do not want to loose you as a friend, Honesty is usually the best policy.
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