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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Can someone explain this cheater to me?
Q. Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...
A. 30 July 2010: This isn't a bit hypocritical. It's a hell of a hell of a lot hypocritical. And then, I agree with quiet-echo (psst, hiya!).... (read in full...)
Why does it seem that when a relationship is nearing the end men tend to say things that make it seem like they would die if you broke up with them?
Q. There has been some tension in my relationship with my boyfriend a, we have been disagreeing a lot lately about various things, so much so that I have considered ending the relationship. I care about him deeply, but I don’t think things will work ...
A. 28 July 2010: I'm with strongfp in "When a guy really likes a girl, he really means it", and with Jmtmj in "Desperate times call for desperate measures". Have you thought that perhaps he is in real pain to know the relationship is ending?... (read in full...)
How can I move on, when I miss him so much?
Q. i know its not love, but why do i miss him so much, we broke up over 1 months ago but i cant stop thinking about him, we had a clean break, no contact with each other... I miss him so much i cry myself to sleep most nights thinking about the ...
A. 28 July 2010: Make a rational decision to move on, and it will happen. You will cry and feel sad and all that, but your life will have a direction and one fine day you will wake up finding that you don't think about him anymore.
All the best.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to demand she only speak with me?
Q. Hello All, I am 26 years , I will marrying soon withing couple of months . I have a porblem i love very much my financy , before marriage we are now speaking all things on phone , she told all things about her and she said that she is having a ...
A. 28 July 2010: You do this because you want to control the lady. I see you're from India and perhaps customs are different there. But here you would be seen as going too far. I don't see the harm in her talking and sending messages to friends.
I don't re... (read in full...)
Can a leopard really change its spots?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...
A. 27 July 2010: One more thing: you're asking the question means that you don't want to be taken in. Do what one taxi driver once recommended to me: "love blindly, only with one good, open eye". But that applies to every relationship, not just this one, which I ... (read in full...)
Can a leopard really change its spots?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...
A. 27 July 2010: You're your own man. I agree with In Love with Love that apparently she has changed her ways. In my opinion, these doesn't sound like someone who is a pathological cheater, but, rather, someone who refused to "tie" herself to anyone.
She s... (read in full...)
Why does he keep playing with my emotions?
Q. My husband left 2 months ago ... We just had a baby who is now 6 months. He moved out got his own place... And since the day he left he hasent stopped calling atleast everyother day and kissing me... He's said he is sorry but hasent really ...
A. 27 July 2010: He is having second thoughts about leaving, particularly now that the baby is here (hiya!). If he is any good, he found it difficult to leave with the baby there, and probably he also had some trouble leaving you. That, however, doesn't mean he ... (read in full...)
Can a leopard really change its spots?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...
A. 27 July 2010: Sounds to me like she went "wild" indeed, and she might have left that stage behind. Some people who have never cheated in life cheat later, so, past behavior is not a certain predictor of what is going to happen later.
I find this woman interest... (read in full...)
I feel like my photos are TOO good, and end up feeling self-conscious when attractive guys talk to me on my online dating profile. Help!
Q. Four months after leaving my ex for cheating on me, I decided I'd go ahead and sign up with eHarmony, or try the online dating thing. There are several guys whom I've hit it off with, in addition to 3-5 requests for communication each week, many of ...
A. 27 July 2010: Meet the guy and see where it leads.... (read in full...)
I wanted to break up with him, but he did it and now I feel terrible!
Q. Today me and my boyfriend split up. We had been together for 6 months. I have been thinking of ending it for a while as I have been really unhappy as he never tries to contact me and never went out of his way and never wanted to be together and only ...
A. 27 July 2010: You're free of that guy and that should offset any pain you're feeling now. Trust me.... (read in full...)
I don't want to regret having his baby when he can't support us now.
Q. Hi i just turned 28. i have two children that i love dearly an i been with the father of my kids for seven years. im the only one workin an has been for the last two years. my boy frend is a great father to his childrn, witch he has three, my 2 and ...
A. 27 July 2010: Can you work to support the baby?... (read in full...)
Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?
Q. Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...
A. 27 July 2010: I'm with Honeypie in all this:
"I'm 41 so closer to the guy you are "dating" in age then you are, and I have to say... I would not be to keen on a guy who is 46 dating a 17 year old. There is just such an unevenness to it all. He has TONS of life ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for this guy? Is it worth it?
Q. Hey guys! Right, here's the deal, met these group of friends a while a go, and one of them i had a bit of a thing with, but well it wasnt really anything, i wasnt attracted to him, it was just one of them things you go with, well that's passed n...
A. 27 July 2010: I suppose he is trying to let some time pass so that his friend won't think he took you right from under his nose. I can understand his point. Some people would say that, if you want to avoid problems, you should never date or kiss or have ... (read in full...)
Why do I hate to have an orgasm?
Q. This is strange, can someone tell me why I don't like to have an orgasm? I enjoy sex enough, but hate to have an orgasm. It honestly does not feel good to me at all. My guy doesn't understand at all and thinks he is not satisfying me because he ...
A. 27 July 2010: You're odd. That's the only explanation I find.... (read in full...)
She is sending out such mixed signals.
Q. I have known a woman for going on 12 months now. We met via online dating. Everything was going great she was even talking engagement. But latley over the past month she suddenly says she doesnt know how she feels anymore she says she loves me dea...
A. 27 July 2010: The naked truth:
Mixed messages = Forget about her.
If you're so great, why isn't she with you?
If your let your own life hinge on decisions made by others, then you will find yourself going where you wouldn't go and waiting for things that ... (read in full...)
I want to attract my husband by sex!
Q. Can any body help me to make my husband keep an eye on me,as i want to attract him by sex but i dont know which way when we do sex he tells me that my sex drives him crazy i am the best in sex he loves my sex if so then why dont he feel like making ...
A. 26 July 2010: How old is he? How potent is he?... (read in full...)
Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??
Q. Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its ...
A. 26 July 2010: And we love women loving we have penises.... (read in full...)
Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??
Q. Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its ...
A. 26 July 2010: Fatherly, you love breasts and everyone does.... (read in full...)
I suspect something happened between her and her stepfather, she denies it, what now?
Q. well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 4 months. but i have an issue! i was on the phone with her yesterday and she lives with her grandparents. but she has to go up to her moms house to take care of the dog. and she was taking ...
A. 26 July 2010: VERY, very dangerous waters you are getting into. This isn't a light matter. You're saying the girl has something with the stepfather. The evidence you give here is not enough for me to think they have anything.
Plus, I don't get if you're A... (read in full...)
Lovers or just friends?
Q. I met a guy at work. The pair of us work at a daycare camp for kids. He and I had a conversation that really changed my mind about me. I'm unsure if he likes me or is just being friendly. He's a country boy and said I'm a pretty lady. Also at the ...
A. 26 July 2010: I'm not sure. He's at least very friendly.... (read in full...)
Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??
Q. Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...
A. 26 July 2010: Now I know why the guys have been talking about me lately...... (read in full...)
He seems confused, he loves me, he doesn't, any suggestions as to why??
Q. i have been dating this guy for over a year now and he says he doesn't love me, but the strange thing is he said " i love you" first, so finally I got the courage to ask him why he doesn't love me anymore, and he said it's because we had sex to ...
A. 26 July 2010: Tell him to f**k himself. Wait! That may be too early! He will fall out of love with himself!... (read in full...)
Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??
Q. Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its ...
A. 26 July 2010: Did you have an erection at the time?... (read in full...)
The lies of my life.... he kind of has a problem with lying!
Q. Hello My name is Lilly. I just got engaged after being with this man foe 3 years. We set a date for Oct. 23rd so in just 3 months. Well in the last 3 years we have been together we have had a lot of problems he kinda has this problem with lying. He ...
A. 26 July 2010: I think he's pretty comfortable lying. YOU have a problem. You need to think about it.... (read in full...)
After a year of dating, is it appropriate for me to ask him to pay for part of the babysitting fees?
Q. Ok, so I have been dating this guy for over a year now. I was widowed about 2 years ago and had 3 children with my husband. Financially, it has been very hard and my new BF knows that. Every time we go out on dates, I have to ask my family to help ...
A. 26 July 2010: "Once you are engaged or married, that's different but not before then. I don't think you should be mentioning money at all actually."
Yes.... (read in full...)
Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?
Q. Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...
A. 26 July 2010: Well, I can tell you this: I am not married.... (read in full...)
What does a women look for in a man?
Q. What is one of the first things or characteristics a women sees when looking at a man for the first time(potential boyfriend)?...
A. 26 July 2010: You want a hard and fast rule. I will give it to you, with admirable clarity and conciseness:
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What does "I love you but I don't want you back" mean???
Q. I spoke with my ex and she has told me two things as she spoke in riddles and I want to know what does she mean by. "I love you but I don't want you back"? and "I love speaking with you as youve done alot for me but I don't want to see y...
A. 26 July 2010: "I love you but I don't want you back" is womanese for "I don't want you back". Hear me out: you need no other explanation or to think anymore about this. I just told you what that means.
It hurts, et cetera, but that's the meaning. Period.... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from this married man?
Q. hey all. am madly in love with a married guy and hate myself but cant walk away. how do i walk away?...
A. 26 July 2010: You tell the man that you think the relationship shouldn't continue. That there are no hard feelings, et cetera. Then you stand up and move one foot after the other.... (read in full...)
How do I respond to my dad's email saying I have wasted my life?
Q. hello dearcupid.org I was at my friends for 5 days in the southern country. When I came back here I noticed my dad had emailed me. We never have done so great but its always been bearable apart from some random rage conversations mostly about how...
A. 26 July 2010: You're your own man.
You don't have to be up to your father's wishes or expectations. If you have a bad relationship with him, very probably most of the burden is his to bear. He is many years older than you and your mutual relation... (read in full...)
Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?
Q. Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...
A. 21 July 2010: Work made me miss this one but I'm enjoying it.... (read in full...)
Is he just scared to tell me how he feels?
Q. I can't stop crying my eyes out. I just told my boyfriend of 4 months that I love him but he didn't say it back. I thought all the right signs and signals were there that he did and that he was just afraid to say it, so I said it first. Sign 1: I...
A. 21 July 2010: A caring person who doesn't say he loves you back? I would call that "a caring person".
However, why was he always asking you to move in with him? That I can't quite square.... (read in full...)
Question for ladies: Is this letter OK sounding?
Q. OK question for ladies..... I've loved this girl for soo long and im moving on. We were really close etc but i kno nothing is gonna happen. Long history which i wont go into but we met up recently and i just feel the need to send this... let me k...
A. 21 July 2010: I agree with q1605 1605 times.... (read in full...)
Why does the creep factor go up the older you get?
Q. Why is it when a young man craves sex, it's just young a man craving sex. But when that young man gets old and craves sex, he suddenly considered a Dirty Old Man, or even a Sex Addict. Someone help me with this. ...
A. 21 July 2010: Very good point. I think I'm among those needing an explanation, too.... (read in full...)
Unhappy wife, lonely wife
Q. I have been married for 6 years. My husband goes out every night. He takes care of home and me, and believes that this is his sole responsibility as a husband and what is most important. I work and have recently started my own party planning ...
A. 16 July 2010: Well, I must say that initially I thought you were living with your husband.
Because of this:
I have been married for 6 years. My husband goes out every night. He takes care of home and me, and believes that this is his sole responsibility a... (read in full...)
Why do you men act like this the morning after?
Q. I am so sad. This is what happened yesterday. I am traveling now, in a small town, where i only know one person. He took me out to this upscale place. We are just friends, i know him for 15 years, so when we are out we can do whatever we want. ...
A. 16 July 2010: Very sad and bad experience it was, right? You got into a situation where both sides are using the other, and, well, this is what you got. Sorry.... (read in full...)
Is waking him up with a blow job a good idea?
Q. When I stay at my boyfriends house we usually end up staying up until 4am being intimate, cuddling, or talking before he has to go back to his room. (still lives with his parents) This weekend we are both attending a party at a friend of mine's. ...
A. 16 July 2010: Yes to the first question.... (read in full...)
Unhappy wife, lonely wife
Q. I have been married for 6 years. My husband goes out every night. He takes care of home and me, and believes that this is his sole responsibility as a husband and what is most important. I work and have recently started my own party planning ...
A. 15 July 2010: Good luck, from the bottom of my heart.... (read in full...)
Unhappy wife, lonely wife
Q. I have been married for 6 years. My husband goes out every night. He takes care of home and me, and believes that this is his sole responsibility as a husband and what is most important. I work and have recently started my own party planning ...
A. 14 July 2010: Tough question.
I would leave, not necessarily with the young woman (I changed this to "woman", though your question is about a man, because I'm straight, damn it, and I like women). It doesn't seem a good idea to stay married. It might be er...... (read in full...)
My husband said he thinks sex is dirty, but I still want to have it!
Q. Hi, Iam 30 years old and have been married for 6 years. have 2 beautiufl lil girls.three year old and 2 year old. I have had issues with sex ever since i got married. It has improved with time, but my husband told me last night that he thinks s...
A. 14 July 2010: God isn't punishing you for anything. The man either has fallen out of love with you, has a lover, or has always been a closet gay. Sex wasn't dirty before, was it?
Sorry, but you have to think of the prospect of a sexless -and loveless... (read in full...)
Why my girlfriend said she needed a space?
Q. I have been in a relationship with girl who lives in a different city we meet like three times. Most the time we would talk on phone.Last year we had break and then had patch up after three months. Now after six months, she suddenly came up tell me ...
A. 14 July 2010: Maybe she didn't find someone else but apparently she does find that you can't keep her as she wishes. Well, you can't change that, and if you could you shouldn't.
The simple advice is "move on". I know this is difficult. But you can do it.... (read in full...)
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