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writes:When I stay at my boyfriends house we usually end up staying up until 4am being intimate, cuddling, or talking before he has to go back to his room. (still lives with his parents)This weekend we are both attending a party at a friend of mine's. We're both spending the night there, as I plan to... ahem, do plenty of drinking. Irrelevant. Anyway, we both agree it's good with the the vanilla ice cream, no sprinkles or chocolate syrup needed, we could cuddle or talk for hours.My question is, I'm planning on either waking, or surprising him with a blow job. We've had oral sex about 5 or 6 times previously, but he's always initiated by going down on me first. So, is this a good idea? Will it get him going more so than before? I really just want to shake things up just a bit and make him feel good. But I wonder if he'd rather just cuddle all night.Second question, I hesitate to kiss him after I swallow. Should I keep a mint pocketed for after? Or excuse myself to brush my teeth? Suggestions? I mean he'll kiss me, but quick and only close-mouthed, I don't blame him. But, I'm wanting a cute little make-out session afterwards. So, any suggestions? Opinions? All input appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): What a wonderful surprise it will give your partner!! If he is accepting you BJ ' ing him and you take it in your mouth, he should not complain about having some of the taste of his cum when you kiss afterwards. So many guys want to cum in their partner's mouth and therefore they should be prepared to taste their own cum. I personally love the after taste.
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reader, gabriello  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 we guys love blow jobs...,u can even wake us up in the middle of the night for one..., u'll be suprised at how happy and horny he'll get
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reader, daletom +, writes (18 July 2010):
Ummm . . . Do you think you have to do a lot of drinking before you do this? If so, you probably shouldn't do it.
I much prefer morning sex to any other time. My wife & I just seem to do it by mutual consent. I guess in the early days of our marriage it could have been either of us who initiated it.
I also really like middle-of-the-night, or just-before-dawn sex. It's a time for gentle, half-awake, lovemaking that ends in "spoons" position with lots of cuddling, and drifting back to sleep still coupled.
I VERY rarely climax from oral sex. If it DOES happen, I like her to kiss me right away.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 No good for dieting, contains protein, and I'm on a protein free diet right now..
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reader, Miamine +, writes (17 July 2010):
ah.. I get it.. (checks entry in DC Manual)
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reader, Miamine +, writes (17 July 2010):
What's snowballing?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (17 July 2010):
 He will love you forever. That would make him feel like the most loved, desired, and sexiest man alive.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Oh my god yes that is a great idea! I've never been bothered by making out afterword, but if he is, brushing or mouthwash wouldn't be a bad idea. I'd gladly still make out with you after a wakeup call like this, even if the mood passes a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I can think of no better way to wake up. Plus, most guys are already hard in the AM and need relief. Can't understand the mint thing. If he's really that grossed out, just give him a peck on teh lips. By the time you mint-up or mouthwash, teh mood is gone. Once my girl swallows, I don't taste anything anyway...maybe a faint smell of semen, but thats it. Once I got some that was on her face, but it didn't gross me out. In fact, it made it more intimate. But guys are all different. It's not like you're snowballing him.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (16 July 2010):
Blowjob to wake up... GOOD, GOOD, GOOD...
Kissing afterwards, don't worry, don't make a fuss.. kiss him normally.. If he dosen't like it he will turn away.. Getting up to wash teeth, get mints or do anything will kind of spoil the romantic mood your trying to get into.
Carry condoms just in case the blowjob makes him extra passionate. Alcohol increases the risk of careless sex and pregnancy.
You are a very thoughtfull girlfriend, I'm sure he'll be pleased.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Is the sky blue? Is grass green? Are kittens cute?
Of COURSE it's a good idea. If I wake up before the man I'm sleeping with I often like to do this, and I haven't yet met a man who didn't like being woken up with a BJ.
If you want a make-out session afterwards, though I advise rinsing your mouth with mouthwash and if possible brushing your teeth, regardless of whether you've swallowed as a prudent measure. Some men are not comfortable with kissing a girl who's just beeing going down on them. It's illogical, but not unreasonable, so go ahead, do it, and tell us how it went!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Believe me you'll love the surprised reaction when you do it expectantly! And yes I would just excuse yourself momentarily and brush or rinse before making out I think you'll both appreciate it. But I agree with everyone else you just can't go wrong with a surprise BJ.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Yes to the first question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): they love it. anytime, they may be tired...but never too tired for that... you just cant go wrong with a bj. and if he minds that you have swallowed, you should rinse or brush...at least put a piece of breath mint or gum. and the best part is it gets you smiles all day long. :)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Well I've always loved surprise bjs, and it would be considerate of you to also brush, or at least rinse, prior to the post bj make-out session.
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