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I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   25 August 2009: i think thts fine then i mean hes not tht much older than u himself he wasnt tht old when he became ur god father i bet and who knows maybe u'll fine he has feelings for u too bt i'd make sure u were sure first... (read in full...)

Oral sex--tips to do, not to do

Q.   hey guys and gals, oral..... girls hints and tips on what you love when a guy goes down on you........ guys hints and tips on what your partner loves you to do. my wifes clit is so touchy that i can only give her oral for a couple of minutes befo...

A.   12 August 2009: why can't she bear it?... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   12 August 2009: how much older is he then u? ... (read in full...)

We broke up but he still seems to want me, what is going on with him?

Q.   we split up nearly 18 months ago after being together for over 2 years and being engaged. we split as he dumped me and he wanted space didnt know what he wanted his head wasnt clear - he lost about 3 stone in weight and everytime i saw him he bro...

A.   11 August 2009: he probably still loves u but needed some space, maybe u gave him too much and he thought you'd gone off him. And he wants to be together but then thinks no cuse u gone off him and yeah u havent but he doesn't know that. next time why don't u start ... (read in full...)

I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!

Q.   hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio ...

A.   8 August 2009: i thin it is a bit odd but you didn't grow up together so its not that bad. You could always stay where you are as you said no one knows your family history?... (read in full...)

The love I feel for her is overwhelming...but she loves someone from Australia and wants to move there

Q.   This problem can be blamed on many things. I am the one that is to blame the most though. I have known this girl for over 10 years now and I can honestly say I love her. Don't look at my age and discriminate. I'm not naive, I know what this is. I've ...

A.   8 August 2009: yeah like she said txt how you feel or write a letter or something. But if you do deciade to let her go 'if you love something then let it go' you'll love again absolutly sure of it. ... (read in full...)

We know we made a mistake, but it can't be changed now but she doesn't want me to meet their child!

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 2 years... yes he was still married when we started dating we were not intimate right away because he was married but once he decided that he would divorce we did become intimate. Yes I know that this is ...

A.   8 August 2009: i think you should leave it i mean the ex's bf i guess does have a right unlike you cause he left his family for you so....you cannot demand. whats so great bout meeting his kid anyway that relationships in the past.... (read in full...)

Have you ever found lost love?

Q.   Has anyone out there ever recovered lost love? How did you do it? Please share your experience because I am hoping to recover mine, in time... thanks...

A.   8 August 2009: yeah girl we've all been there, even your fav agony aunts. You will gt over it i remember feeling like i wanted it to come back allways even though i knew nothing would ever happen with me nand the guy but i missed the feeling. but you recover i ... (read in full...)

My Girlfriend of almost 2 years has split with me. She says if it's meant to be, we'll be together some day. Is there still hope?

Q.   My girlfriend of almost 2 years just broke up with me. She said that she loved me more like a brother than a boyfriend. She keeps saying that anything can happen and if we're meant to be together we'll be together. But she doesn't want to try to fix ...

A.   8 August 2009: yes, there is still hope for ya. your 18-21 its not like yar in yar 40's you maybe just need to see other people for the time being and then maybe you'll both realise your the one's for each other or maybe you'll go out with someone and find you ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and pregnant and my husband keeps hitting me, what should I do?

Q.   Hi i'm 17teen years old iv'e been married for almost two year's and i need help and fast my husband is 19 and he keep's hiting me when we get into a fight in front of our 18month old and we have another baby on the way i'm 15weeks and he keeps ...

A.   6 August 2009: yeah how did you manage to get married at 15? what county? don't worry you don't have to answer that but....he hits you!! Normallyi would say leave him and stomp on him but in your case thats not a good idea. Obviously cause your pregant and you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him I'm 2 years younger, and if so how?

Q.   hi, i need some advice from someone who knows. i am a 13 year old guy. sometimes i have kinda thought i might be bi cause even tho i like girls, i also feel attracted to some guys sometimes. last weekend i was hanging out at a park with mostly ...

A.   6 August 2009: you haven't lied to him so you have no real problem caus he wont say you lied to me or something. So just bring it up in easy conversation i don't think it'll be problem if he really likes you then age won't be a problem and if you think he does... (read in full...)

I just found out that my boyfriend slept with my mom!

Q.   This may sound a little sick and twisted and that's cause it is. My boyfriend was my brothers best friend growing up (he's 10 yrs older than me). He's been a friend of the family for years. We have been together going on 4 yrs (no kids or talks ...

A.   6 August 2009: ask your mom hy she did it? why didn't she tell you in the first place? let her know your not ok with it. but if yu think the relationships worth saving then go for it and work past it, or if you think its too much that you were lied to then i guess ... (read in full...)

Am I being ignored? What would you do in my situation?

Q.   Okay. So I've met this new guy at the grocery store, he got my number and we'd been texting. We've went out twice and while I'm definitely attracted to him (he's really cute!) I haven't really seen much of his personality. He seems kinda... boring I ...

A.   6 August 2009: i'd just let it go, cause you did say you like a guy who picks on you and you can muck bout with and he lacks in all those. He's not what you want, so why are you wasting your time chasing after him. If you want to comfront him then fine thats your ... (read in full...)

They want photos of me with no clothes on!

Q.   0k.. I am currently single but i talk to a LOT of guys they always send me dirty pictures of themself but they want me so send them a dirty picture of myself and i take some HOT pictures but i have clothes on and they want pictures with my clothes ...

A.   4 August 2009: don't do it they could post it all over the internet and send it to all the people they know!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has changed for the worst

Q.   Hi, I can't really decide what to do, What I mean is, I've been with my girlfriend for aprox a year and 2 months. But she has changed, A lot, Now she has no respect for me or anyone around her. Sometimes she is really mean and sarcastic to me,...

A.   4 August 2009: maybe she has an issue, like not with sarcasm and stuff but maybe she's just not feeling great cause something happened. You should bring it up, just say you told her and she didn't even try to change so maybe the relationship isn't worth it to her, ... (read in full...)

I like my friend's ex but I don't want to cause any problems!

Q.   My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, who I secretly liked. Now I would never want to hurt her by trying to take him from her! Don't get me wrong, I'm not like that! But I'm not that sure they'll get back together. Something about being ...

A.   4 August 2009: talk to her say you like him but you wouldn't go with it unless she wa ok with it and if shes not and you want to be a loyalfriend then you cant.... (read in full...)

Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?

Q.   Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore ...

A.   4 August 2009: well u said yourself that she was flirtig or something online and your uncle and aunt stopped her? what does that look like... (read in full...)

What do you think... does he like me or is he just being a flirt?

Q.   there is a boy called kylen. his mate is called brandon. my friend is called sisi. basically kylen is always with brandon and hbrandon and kylen always go to the same hang out place at school as me and sisi. anyways sisi won't talk to the...

A.   4 August 2009: but don't you like the flirting i mean everybody flirts with someone and it doesnt mean anything, it seems fun. Just show him your not interested as tha but asa a friend i mean ost people flirt with their friends who are guys and it dont mean ... (read in full...)

Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?

Q.   Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore ...

A.   3 August 2009: right, its probably cus she's jealous that you had him and let him go nd she never got chance... xx... (read in full...)

Is the first kiss really that special?

Q.   Is a first kiss really all that special, are any after that all that special? i mean its just a kiss...your lips only touch for about a few secs and then its over. Caus everyone talks bout your first kiss being amazing and special and magical, but ...

A.   3 August 2009: and how do you kiss properly?... (read in full...)

First time parent worries about miscarriage

Q.   Heyy! Myself and my partner are expecting a baby in April, just bit concerned about mis-carriages etc. Is it rare to have a mis-carriage? It's the first time that she is pregnant and everybody is excited about the news but I'm just worried ab...

A.   3 August 2009: It is more rare than frequent, Most mis-car are due to falls or if your shaken by something. So jut make sure she doesnt over work herself, get pregnnancy leave early and not later. don't let her carry things that are too heavy and take her house ... (read in full...)

My step-sister and her friends flirt with me, what should I do?

Q.   hey everyone i am in a very weird situation. there is two things i need help with. one has to do with my step sister. she is growing up and get hotter everytime i see her she is 14 and i am 16. sometimes i catch her looking at me before i start to ...

A.   3 August 2009: yeah you can flirt back its only harmless flirting they won't take it seiously, they'll be thinking ' what is the chance that he would fancy me anyway'and forgt about it. hey maybe in the future you'll go out with one of them....that does happen! . ... (read in full...)

Is it weird that I'm excited about my girlfriends pregnancy?

Q.   Hi people, Just found out my partner is 4 weeks pregnant. I was just researching about tips for fathering, I researched about males thoughts on pregnancy and alot of it is negative! Some of them say my husband is not excited about our pregnan...

A.   3 August 2009: No, your just really looking forward to being a DADDY! and having your own little son or daughter to take care of. Its natural the babies a part of you, i know i would be extatic about having a baby. Congratulations!!! and good luck looking forcute ... (read in full...)

How do I go about asking her parents if I can take her out?

Q.   There's this girl who I really like and she really likes me, I'm 17 and she's 14. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but I'm afraid what her parents might say if I took her out. What do I do about her parents??...

A.   3 August 2009: Who says you need to ask the parents, she might not like her parents knowing who she's going out with...i know i'd never tell mine and me and my bf the same age! chances are she doesnt either. but if you do theres nothing you cando if the parents ... (read in full...)

What do you think... does he like me or is he just being a flirt?

Q.   there is a boy called kylen. his mate is called brandon. my friend is called sisi. basically kylen is always with brandon and hbrandon and kylen always go to the same hang out place at school as me and sisi. anyways sisi won't talk to the...

A.   3 August 2009: he diffinatly likes you girlie, but i wouldn't do anything bout it....just flirt a little more show him your interested and he'll have the courage.....well someday to ask you out. But if you don't like him....theres not much you can do not to hurt ... (read in full...)

I said I didnt know if I loved him, now things have changed

Q.   This boy says he is in Love with me. I told him that i didn't know if i was in love with him. Now he is saying its hard to talk to me did i brake his heart ? Please help me!...

A.   3 August 2009: I know i have the same problem, this guy went to fast said he loved me and i let him but sometimes it made me feel sick so i told him not to say it and to keep it to himself cause i cared fo him and like liked him but i didnt love him. I didn't hurt ... (read in full...)

How do I give a good kiss?

Q.   hi. me and my girlfriend hav been together for 2 months now. we see each other most days and well, obviously, we kiss. however i dont think i please her when i do kiss her. is there any advice someone could give on how to give a good kiss?...

A.   3 August 2009: give it soft but passionate and i don't think a kiss if meant to be that pleasing....after all it is just a kiss there's nothing amazing bout it!... (read in full...)

When we're alone, she's one way, but otherwise, she's different. What should I do?

Q.   Hey, I am really very confused at the moment. The girl who I really like was in a relationship, however when in that relationship she would make out with me, and always be saying how great it would be if she was with me, and if she were to become ...

A.   3 August 2009: she's probably feeling guilty cause she finished with the other guy and hurt him and that she would still be withh him if you didn't feel that way. So give her some time to be by herself in her own thoughts. ... (read in full...)

Update: We spent the whole day together, is this a good sign?

Q.   Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sig...

A.   3 August 2009: just say like 'why can't a friend compliment each other, i mean yeah i find you attractive but i wouldn't go with it if i'd ruin our friendship' not these exact words!... (read in full...)

A story of my first real love

Q.   I was 13 years old at the time, it was 8th grade...I was only in middle school...I am a shy, insecure little girl, and on the first day of my new 8th grade year, I wore a white polo shirt, light blue jeans, and blondie hair in a bun. I walk into my ...

A.   2 August 2009: thats so sweet, i am so happy for you guys. Hope i all works out!... (read in full...)

Should I let her name our son ayden even if I don't want it

Q.   i just got married and me and my wife r having a baby at first i was scared but now im up for the task but now we r fighting over names if it was a girl we had a name we both liked but we just found out we r having a boy and i like the names ...

A.   2 August 2009: you should try to work it out, ayden is a decient name. A compromise you could...if she's naming this one say your naming the next one and your last child you could choose together. Or tell her your not comfortable with that name and choose a few ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is late, please help!

Q.   Alright listen everyone, me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex about 3 1/2 weeks ago. I thought she was on the pill and didn't wear a condom but it turns out it was a misunderstanding..she takes BC but its a ring thing that she puts in her ...

A.   2 August 2009: if she turns out pregnant, don't run away. show her that whatever happens you will stand by her cause she'll be more scared than you are....she's the one who's gtta go through the pain of having it she can't run away... (read in full...)

Am I really ready for a baby? How should I approach my boyfriend about this?

Q.   Well this is my first post here so I am not sure how I should ask this and I also know peoples opinions differ but what I am wanting to ask is how would I go about asking my bf how he would feel if I said I wanted a baby.....weve only been together ...

A.   2 August 2009: You could tell your boyfriend that you want a baby, but he might not want a baby at this moment in time, he may want some in the future. But just don't get pregnant an announce it he may just run off.... (read in full...)

Update: We spent the whole day together, is this a good sign?

Q.   Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sig...

A.   2 August 2009: yes thats a good sign, it means she wants to spend time with you and know you better. Unless she just needed a lift home lol only kidding ak her out again... (read in full...)

I want to leave him, but I don't want to take our son away from him either! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now we live together and have a 13month old son...problem is we constantly arguing and fighting because if always thinks i am lying and hiding things away from him when infact he is the one who is ...

A.   2 August 2009: you could break it up and still let him see the boy, let him come round every few days or let him go to the dad at the weekend, dont fight for custody!... (read in full...)

Aaahhh I can't talk to girls!

Q.   Hi all. I like this girl. But Im having trouble keeping up a conversation with her. any one have any tips on how too have a good conversation?...

A.   2 August 2009: start off by maybe talking about school/work then go with something personal and then let it finish by her talking bout herself.... (read in full...)

I end up feeling dumb everytime someone compliments me..

Q.   So I know this is a weird question, but it's been an issue for me for a while. I can't take compliments. Whenever someone compliments me I turn it into a joke somehow, or make a witty comment, and I feel dumb afterwards for avoiding it. I have my...

A.   2 August 2009: I know how you feel, i don't like saying thank you to compliments either and when my boyfriend compliments me i make it into a joke to by going 'shut up' but smiling not meaning it. If you want to show your gratitued just smille when he says it and ... (read in full...)

Why do opposites attract?

Q.   Why do relationships seem to last longer between people who have very little in common? I had everything in common with my girlfriend, and yet it lasted less time than the relationships where the guy is a total abusive d*ck.....

A.   2 August 2009: it can go either way, you could have a long relationship with someone and you liked the same stuff. But yes, opposites do attract, because you like different things it makes the relationship more intereting while getting to know each other. you ... (read in full...)

I can't get girls to go on dates with me... what's the problem?

Q.   i hit it off when i meet any girl. i mean the initial impression that i leave on the girl is favourable. but i start to have doubts when the girl starts responding and start withdrawing. so, i cant get them to go on a date with me. this is ...

A.   1 August 2009: dont ask them out then just swap phone numbers or walk p to a girl comment on something like her shoes then walk away and she'll come after you... (read in full...)

Tips on how to ask out girls?

Q.   Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

A.   1 August 2009: well don't ask her in front of anyone, girls hate an audience and will say no or maybe. Bt if you get her on her own....NOT THE BEDROOM!! like your garden or something or whereever your having the party jst away from everyone. Flirt for a while ... (read in full...)

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