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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Am I really the fool they want me to think I am?
Q. I'm feeling pretty crappy these days after 11 years of marriage. Both sides of our family insist on pointing out what a tramp my wife was as a teen and the things she did in bed with her ex HB. He apparently made things known. I knew a lot about my ...
A. 15 October 2010: Many people sleep around when young (and middle-aged, and old), but their families don't usually bring the subject intot he conversation, or tell the hubby he's an idiot. I find it curious that, apparently, both sides of the family are only ... (read in full...)
How to approach an older woman I want to have sex with?
Q. How to approach an older women i want to have sex with her, but dont know what to do? She is about 35 and i am 19 but she really attracts me. she is single and i am. i m not so confident but i dont know why. ...
A. 15 October 2010: If I understand correctly, this woman is hot, and you feel attracted to her, so you want to find a way to talk to her and have sex. Do you know if she wants to have sex with you? I would speculate that she doesn't, since you and her are not even ... (read in full...)
Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?
Q. Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?...
A. 15 October 2010: I say yes, break up with your girlfriend, but not because you found someone hotter, but because you don't love her.... (read in full...)
Living with very obsessive much older man & scared to go on a secret free weeked trip with my ex
Q. I'm in urgent need of 100% honest advice. I don't have much time so this is why I'm reaching out. Just for the sake of imagination I'm blond, female in mid 30s slim build, cute, look much younger than I am. Here's my situation.. I've been living ...
A. 15 October 2010: From your post, the first very obvious thing is that you need to leave Barry. I can't say I know how you will do it, but it's clear that's what you need to do.
As to Alec, he might be a very nice man but he is asking you out, not exactly to go to... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with an older woman?
Q. What should I do if I am 18years old and I want to have sex with an older woman?...
A. 14 October 2010: The older woman who wants to have sex with you will find you, and will make it easy for you to have sex with her.... (read in full...)
Why would she stand me up after I flew 3,000 miles?
Q. I have been talking to a girl long distance for over a year now. We talk on the phone everyday for over an hour a day. She's mentioned she likes me but she doesn't know what it means. She also says she kind of dating someone. So I flew to go me...
A. 14 October 2010: Because she is a bitch.... (read in full...)
Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex
Q. I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months ...
A. 13 October 2010: The easy very difficult solution to your problem is to continue to do what you have been doing.
Don't focus on what is bad, but what is good: you are entertaining thoughts about your daughter, which come from your seeing her have sex, but, at ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him alone or wait to see if he realises that I really care?
Q. I am confused this guy says things like I went overseas with the wrong girl, if you had of been there with me it would have been awesome! and I wouldn't care if we did nothing at all as long as we were together! Then he suddenly changes and pulls ...
A. 12 October 2010: You should find someone who speaks clearly and goes to the point. If he wants you, he wants you, and if he doesn't, he doesn't. No in-betweens. Say he's been hurt: "you didn't do nothin'", meaning that's his problem.... (read in full...)
Co-worker offered sex for money!
Q. Not sure what to make of this. I was involved with a woman from work earlier this year. She ended things and went back to her ex and has been hot and cold with me ever since (she's generally nice to me when she wants something). She's been invol...
A. 12 October 2010: I'll break this piece of news to you: she didn't "borrow" your money. She asked you for it, because she correctly assumed you would not ask her to pay you back. In other words, she took that money. It doesn't matter if it is little money or a ... (read in full...)
Co-worker offered sex for money!
Q. Not sure what to make of this. I was involved with a woman from work earlier this year. She ended things and went back to her ex and has been hot and cold with me ever since (she's generally nice to me when she wants something). She's been invol...
A. 12 October 2010: Ooops! Your firm name should be "H. I. V. Free".... (read in full...)
Co-worker offered sex for money!
Q. Not sure what to make of this. I was involved with a woman from work earlier this year. She ended things and went back to her ex and has been hot and cold with me ever since (she's generally nice to me when she wants something). She's been invol...
A. 12 October 2010: Well, if she told me she wants to borrow some money from me, I wouldn't give anything to her. I think I wouldn't let her borrow my little thing, either :-). Or, more appropriately, lease him :-). The other tenants might not have been as clean as ... (read in full...)
I'm a near perfect husband! Why has she left me?
Q. My wife of 2 years (together for 7) moved out about 2 months ago because she needed time to find herself and learn to love herself. After that, things spiraled downward drastically. A man she met on a trip earlier this summer visited her the very ...
A. 11 October 2010: From your post, sorry, but your marriage is over. It was not by chance that the man came only one week after she left you. Of course he knew she would be leaving you, and of course they agreed on meeting.
Maybe the thing was emotional some tim... (read in full...)
Why won't my partner use my name?
Q. Hi there, I have a very unusual problem with my partner of 7 years. He will never use my name, not my first name of even a pet name. If he wants me and I'm not in the room, he will shout 'are you there'. I mentioned this to him early on in our ...
A. 11 October 2010: This is odd, indeed, but I'm not sure there's anything behind it. What if he's like good ol' Clint Eastwood and rarely speaks?
Did you ever hear the story about the man who told his wife that he loved her, but he did it only once? The wife had... (read in full...)
Do you guys think he likes me? And how to make this into a steady relationship?
Q. Hello everyone, So I posted a while back and I got great responses. So there is a guy that I really like, and I think he likes me too, but my biggest concern is that he rarely is the one to call me. I don't call him too often (maybe once every ot...
A. 11 October 2010: I see this is a relationship between to males. So, you know how we males think. His saying that "he wants to balance..." was his way to say "Nah, I'm not that much into you". I'm afraid that he is taking you because you let him do it, but, if you ... (read in full...)
Dating two guys at once?
Q. I'm kind of seeing two guys at once, but am not "offically" a girlfriend to either of them. We'll call the first guy T and the other guy C. I met T last years summer, and we just started talking and hanging out a few months ago again, and i'm quite ...
A. 11 October 2010: Sorry, that's for you to decide.... (read in full...)
I don't mind being anywhere in the world, for as long as my parents can be with me.
Q. I met a great guy online (through friends on Facebook) and we've been talking a lot. He just finished his MBA at university and will begin working soon. He traveled and lived across Canada and in different countries around the world. He's cute, ...
A. 11 October 2010: Well, Mona, we all want to be with our loved ones as much as possible, but there are some aspects of our lives that not only don't include our parents, but actually must exclude them. You have to cut the umbilical cord at some point if you are to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has terminal cancer, I want a baby but he doesnt. Should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend has terminal cancer, i want a baby but he doesnt. Should i leave him? We met a year or two ago and we have fallen in love. He has a child by a previous marriage and is content with that but I am becoming desperate. I dont want to ...
A. 11 October 2010: I agree with the aunts who say that you should not have a child with him, because of what he will be going through in his last months but, above all, because he has said he doesn't want any children.
I think we should not be judgmental here, bu... (read in full...)
What does a naked man look like?
Q. Hello. I am a teenager. My hormones are all over the place. I have always had more of a physical/emotional attraction to women. But I also like men. I just dont know what I am yet. I know what a woman looks like naked because I see myself in the ...
A. 10 October 2010: Well, I look just fabulous. Other men are not as fortunate.... (read in full...)
I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!
Q. My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a...
A. 9 October 2010: I'm with Mr. Grant. I don't think there's anything you can do here.... (read in full...)
She rejected me, is there any way to salvage our relationship?
Q. Good evening people! I need some advice here - just like everyone else posting on this website. I've fallen for one of my closest female friends. The rumours were circling around the school were quite rife, so she already /kind of/ knew befor...
A. 9 October 2010: The short answer is, no. There is no chance of anything here. Don't push it. It never works.... (read in full...)
Are her actions and remarks sarcastic?
Q. i have been close friends with a beautiful woman 29 yrs old for 2 years now. i let it slip because of a situation that came up, that i have been in love with her. all was fine till that moment. she said she felt very awkward and i think she is ...
A. 9 October 2010: I beg to differ with Aunty Bim Bim. All the signs of rejection are there. I don't think you should try to be in contact with this woman anymore.
There is a sure way to know what she wants: don't try to talk to her anymore. If she comes back, tr... (read in full...)
Divorced, but can't sell house or move on with my life
Q. I have a dilemma that is not truly a relationship issue, but kinda. I am recently divorced, and am with a new partner who is great and we intend to marry late next year. The only remaining issue with my former marriage is my marital house is on ...
A. 8 October 2010: Just for the record, I said "evicted" so you would get a clear picture of what could cross people's mind.
I guess this new information changes it all. You'd have to be paying for a new home for I don't know how many years. You'd have housing ... (read in full...)
Seriously???
Q. I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...
A. 8 October 2010: Just for the sake of adding a comment, in the hope of making things clear, there's no sexual harassment here. In my humble opinion. We like to think that the woman isn't enjoying it. And we don't want to say that, er, she might have something to ... (read in full...)
Seriously???
Q. I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...
A. 8 October 2010: Ask the man to meet you somewhere and tell him you are aware that he means good and is only concerned about your wife's well-being, but that you (as in YOU, YOU, the poster) are an asshole and disagree with the idea of such a fine gentleman showing ... (read in full...)
Divorced, but can't sell house or move on with my life
Q. I have a dilemma that is not truly a relationship issue, but kinda. I am recently divorced, and am with a new partner who is great and we intend to marry late next year. The only remaining issue with my former marriage is my marital house is on ...
A. 8 October 2010: I agree with Aunty Bim Bim in saying that you need to be very clear about what the situation is and the fact that your fiancée would sell her place to buy the marital home. I must say, however, that your ex-wife might just disagree with that idea, ... (read in full...)
Is it true that a man's heart is through his stomach?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, i have been secretly crushing on a friend for a year now. I know he" loves" me like a buddy, but that's not what i want. We have always been close and i think he suspects i have feelings for him. But he is still hung up on ...
A. 20 August 2010: I don't think you get to a man's heart through his stomach. I had heard strange things, like the Soviet surgeon that performed lung transplants in ten minutes, the East German surgeon who was able to transplant a brain in five minutes, and the ... (read in full...)
I got into a big argument with my boss at work .. how do I act around him now???
Q. I had a huge argument with my boss at work today and now i dont know how to behave around him tommorrow. We work in an office and we work on the same desk. He has been my boss for a few months and we had become good friends. Always laughing,...
A. 20 August 2010: Beyond what others have said, I want to offer some, er, insight I gained the hard way: "The boss is always right". Of course often s/he is not, but I'm sure you get my point.
And, then, I recommend that you buy, borrow, or otherwise lay your han... (read in full...)
Is this man interested or should I back off?
Q. I work with a guy who flirts with me all the time. He teases me and is constantly trying to talk to me. He knows I'm interested but told a mutual friend he doesn't feel comfortable dating coworkers. However he did make plans to hang out with me one ...
A. 19 August 2010: I think you should never date your co-workers, whatever they feel about you. Suppose something goes wrong in your relationship with him. What would you do?... (read in full...)
Morning sex. optional? or required?
Q. I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 weeks now. While I am not terribly experienced in sex and dating, I have been using this opportunity to gain a bit of insight into boys. The few nights I went back to his place I ended up leaving at 3 or 4 ...
A. 19 August 2010: "Banga ranga ding dong..."... (read in full...)
Anyone can answer this one..
Q. My queation is.. and anyone can answer this question, male or female.. i am an extremely attractive woman. i have 4 children with my husband and by looking at me you wouldnt think i even have any..i am very down to earth... i can talk to him abou...
A. 19 August 2010: I believe that the idea that a hot woman will never get cheated on hasn't only been disproved (with Sandra Bullock, for example, who I would never cheat on if she even knew I existed), but is also patently illogical. It assumes that we men don't ... (read in full...)
What am I suppose to think about this man?
Q. I slept with this guy, and i fancy him but i have never known how to get a man to stay with me and i fear rejection all the time anyway. Ever since, i have been to his bussiness many times - he´s got a bar - and socialised there quite a bit. One day ...
A. 19 August 2010: I'm not sure about what is his reason, but I do believe that you don't deserve being treated like this, and I wholeheartedly believe you should leave him. I would say he sorts of beats you until you're dumb, and then he uses you.
I've been the... (read in full...)
Morning sex. optional? or required?
Q. I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 weeks now. While I am not terribly experienced in sex and dating, I have been using this opportunity to gain a bit of insight into boys. The few nights I went back to his place I ended up leaving at 3 or 4 ...
A. 19 August 2010: "Waking up together" means "waking up together".
Now, "banga ranga ding dong in the dawn's early light", that's the Gentleman's Choice. Of course you have to agree.
"Banga ranga ding dong"...... (read in full...)
Is he waiting on ME to ask him out on another date?
Q. Hello. i need an advice. I'll try to be as short as possible with this. I had a few months of texting with this guy. We went on a few dates, and then once were intimate. After that he still texts me, but after few sentences doesn't continue ...
A. 19 August 2010: I agree with Wiser Sister.... (read in full...)
What can I do when my boyfriends penis is too small and cant feel him inside me?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hi everyone. i am a 20 year old female and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. i am starting to get very close to him and i love our conversation, i love all our time together, and i feel that we can go a long...
A. 19 August 2010: The man was nervous. "Performance anxiety", they call it. Now, if his penis is too small for your preferences, that's something no one can really help either of you about.... (read in full...)
How to deal with a stalkish type ex girlfriend? It's annoying me!
Q. How do you get rid of a psycho/demented ex-girl-friend that was and is still stalking me on internet (facebook, myspace,etc...)? I had a monogomous friendship with her off and on for 1-3 months, when I was single and dating/seeing other women at the ...
A. 19 August 2010: How many months ago did you stop seeing her? Is there a possibility she is right about her child being by you? I happen to be a Mexican and I know Mexican women don't get pregnant just by sneezing around them. I have sneezed many times around ... (read in full...)
Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?
Q. dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know...
A. 6 August 2010: Daletom, I am under the impression that you can post here ANONYMOUSLY. And we're not the poster's peers, so I wonder how we can apply pressure.
You make good points about making the information available. I will make one good point: the aunt... (read in full...)
Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?
Q. dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know...
A. 6 August 2010: I smell a fake post. 59 years old male asking this question?... (read in full...)
Adding strangers on msn - what should I say to him?
Q. so i added this one guy that i think is really cute on msn , he doesn't know me , i don't know him him ... YET ! what can i say to him ? if he says "do i know you ?" what can i say back ? ...
A. 6 August 2010: I'm a man, and I don't add absolute strangers to my contacts. So I recommend you do the same. You're very young and you could become the pray of somebody.
When I first came to Dear Cupid, one girl your age was being harassed by her gym teacher ... (read in full...)
Can you rekindle a friendship the same way you'd rekindle a romance?
Q. Is it possible to rekindle a friendship in a similar fashion one might try to rekindle a romantic relationship? Or are the two inherently different enough that the same approach can't be used in both cases. ...
A. 6 August 2010: Unless something terrible happened, I believe it would be a lot easier to rekindle a friendship than to rekindle a romance. But you really have to feel like rekindling. The friendship grew cold for a reason, and sometimes you find there are not ... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but don't want to tell him I'm a virgin!
Q. I am a 29 year old virgin. This is not something I planned on, it just sort of happened. I am not religious at all, I simply have not found the right guy for me. I dated a guy for awhile when I was a teenager and he really took away my ...
A. 6 August 2010: He will love you!... (read in full...)
Can someone explain this cheater to me?
Q. Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...
A. 30 July 2010: This isn't a bit hypocritical. It's a hell of a hell of a lot hypocritical. And then, I agree with quiet-echo (psst, hiya!).... (read in full...)
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