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My name is Mariela i'm a fun loving carring person i love helping others when i see their in need. Im a great listener and enjoy trying to find solutions for others...Im 16 years old (almost 17) but i have gone through so much and learn how hard life can be so i just like to help others with their problems since is good to give others advice. I live in the U.S.( colorado) and i'm single and happy because i got rid of a person who is not worth me crying over him.... Anything else you would like to now just tell me...

Can't get him out of heart if he won't get out of my life! What to do?

Q.   How do i forget my ex i cant get him out of my head???? We were together for almost 4 years then we broke up because he was lying to me and cheating on me with a friend.... Now he is all begging me to get back with him he calls me textes me and he ...

A.   15 April 2009: Well thanx for your adivice all try to do that but the parent thing wont work since he is 22 he is 5 years older then me and he doesnt live with his parents....... (read in full...)

I'm14 and have never been on a date, kissed a guy, or done anything

Q.   im 14 never been on a date,kissed a guy, or done anything i really want a boyfriend or at least go on one date im going into high school for crying out loud! most of my friends have had at least 2 and when i tell them they find it surprisi...

A.   10 April 2009: I think you shouldnt worry because everythinh comes when is time so you should just chill and try to make friends and maybe you can go out on a date but its not a bad think to be 14 and not have a boyfriend or been kissed this is a sign that you ... (read in full...)

How can I get over my ex?

Q. back in august i found out what my boyfriend really got up to whilest i wasnt there! ^ read theres the question i asked bath then, and i know i should have dump...

A.   9 April 2009: Well it does sound like that guys is just and idiot and loser no girl deserves to be called fat or anythings....Honney can you no see he is using you just for sex like you said....You dont need him and the best way to get him off of our mind is to ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me. Should I stay?

Q.   I have known my boyfriend since2005... apparently he had a girl den and i knew and den he said they broke up. We started dating and i found out 2yrs later while we were still 2gether that he got back wit her while still wit me. Wen i found out we ...

A.   9 April 2009: i think you shouldnt stay with him because things are never going to be the same between because it happend to me and its true things dont change they get worse....i tell you because my ex cheated on me then i forgave him and we really tried and he ... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend fight a lot

Q.   Me and my boyfriend fight a lot, but we want to be together and love e/o, were both stubborn but wana make it work we've been together for only 11 months and from the start its been tough. Specially since he never gives in after we argue, he has too ...

A.   8 April 2009: i think you and your boyfriend have to put some distance in between you guys and see if it helps both of you miss each other and want to be with each other and stop the just get yourself away from him for a couple of days to see both ... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   8 April 2009: It is hard to bring a child to these world in those conditions but think about it you are young but you do no that sex has consequences ans killing an indefensive thing is not good its always going to be in your in my opinion i think you ... (read in full...)

Growing apart

Q.   What do you do when you feel like you and your boyfriend are growing apart but you really don't want the relationship to come to an end? Please help me out :[...

A.   8 April 2009: i think if you feel that way you might have to talk to him about it and tell him your feeling and see what you both can do about it to not grow apart instead to grow even closer....just tell him about it and talk about it dont be scare you might be ... (read in full...)

He's caused me so much hurt! Why do I love him so much?

Q.   I'm completely lost with my feelings at the moment. I'm still madly in love with my ex even though he broke me and betrayed me on more than one occasion. It's been a month now since we split and i felt completely emotionally drained, i didn't even ...

A.   8 April 2009: i think you should leave him is the best for the both of you.... my story is similar my boyfriend cheated on me with 2 of my friens and we were together for 4 years and we just broke up month ago and i started talking to another friend who has ... (read in full...)

Should we stop making out?

Q.   Whenever me and my girlfriend make out, because we're alone, it turns into this big romantic movie montage, we get so caught up in the moment and just loose ourselves...she gets on top of me on the bed/couch and starts feeling me up and i do the ...

A.   8 April 2009: I think is okay to make out put you have to put a limit when you feel like doing it then stop making out or even before you get the feeling....dont stop making out just put a limit....... (read in full...)

My ex cheated on me with two of my friends should I go back with him?

Q.   My problem is that if madly in love with my ex boyfriend. We seemed like the perfect couple we were always happy.. We were together for 3 years 8 months and after 2 years of dating i found out he was cheating on me with my bestfriend in the whole ...

A.   7 April 2009: Well thanz for the advice im feeling a little more sure about myself, i guess im not gona look back and move on its true i dont need someone like that in my life... (Mod Note: Please turn off the caps next time.)... (read in full...)

Should I give this wonderful guy a chance? I still can't get over my cheating ex b/f!

Q.   I have a problem i just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because he was cheating one me,,,,, Now i trying to move on but i found out one of my guy friends is in love with me he even proposed i'm just 16 so idk what to tell him because i'm so h...

A.   7 April 2009: Well thanxz for the advice i'm going to try to give him a chance!!!!!!!!! Note: his been liking me for the past 2 years he has not dated any other girl cuz he says he loves me and he only cares about him.... And now that im single he is happy and ... (read in full...)

My b/f keeps lying to me!

Q.   im so confused, me and my bf have been together 9months, through out our relationship iv caught him out many times lying, he lied about his job, he didn't tell me he had a daughter until after we slept together (he nos that i wud have never got invo...

A.   7 April 2009: I think you should leave him it doesn't matter how much you love him but girl he is just lying about everything and that is not going to work out. I doesn't matter how many times he tells you he loves you he probabily lies to you as many times as... (read in full...)

My partner is verbally abussive and unsupportive but I love him

Q.   Hi, My BF and I have been together for just over 5 years. In that time we have had a lot of ups and downs, partly due to him still sorting out the legal side of his divorce with his ex wife and worrying about what he would lose in the divorce. ...

A.   7 April 2009: I think your friends and daughter are right that guy is not worth you time no matter how mych love you have for him... maybe he is verbally abusive now he could bercome physically later in the future and be worst...sdo i think you should not be with ... (read in full...)

I need your opinions here...Just friends???

Q.   If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if ...

A.   7 April 2009: Us girls tempt to change our minds on things really fast.... So maybe she is just bored or she has someone new in her life....Or it could also be that she liked you but she just wanted to try you and see if it worked out,,,But most of the time you ... (read in full...)

She goes with guys for attention...

Q.   Hey all i'm wondering what i should do...i'm in love with this girl...but she went with another guy and did some sex related stuff. I can't stop thinking about her, not sure if its anger, heart break or something else. I've tried talking to her ...

A.   7 April 2009: I think if that girl is doing stuff like that with other guys she does't care about you or even loves you... I think you should just leave her to see her reaction, even though later she is going to regreat what she did... I no its not easy to break ... (read in full...)

I'm 15...He's 26. What do I do?

Q.   I need help very badly, so please stay with me. About more than a year ago i just turned 14 before i went away to israel for vacation. i met a guy who worked there who worked at the pool deck who was 11 years older than me. i did not know this tho...

A.   7 April 2009: Girl my advice to you is to not get involved with a person who is older then you they are more mature then you they dont think the way you do no matter what. Just try to get away from him before you her hurt my persona experience is similir but im ... (read in full...)

Possible to forgive AND forget?

Q.   Do you think people can forgive and forget. Do you think a relationship can continue and grow after someone has betrayed you... My boyfriend was the definition of a loyal, kind, caring man that would do anything for someone in need. He had kin...

A.   7 April 2009: Ashley you have to admit its not cheating finding out that you boyfriend likes porn but what is cheating is him hiding things from you. If he admitted it doesnt matter because in this ocation it was porn he was asking for another person.... he ... (read in full...)

He is rude towards me after we broke up

Q.   Hoping someone can help. My ex broke up with me before Christmas. I was hurt but since he asked for no contact, I complied. I saw him tonight when we happened to be at a table of mutual friends in the restaurant. I ignored him, just acted like he ...


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