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Do they girls also like the guys chest

Q.   Hey everyone, Do they girls also like the guys chest, as much as the case in vice versa? I am asking this because there was a girl at my university who used to stare at my flat chest fugitively, which made me wonder the point....

A.   26 October 2013: NO chest hair for me, please! Only a smooth one with little/no hair. And for me, there is nothing more appealing that a skinny guy, or a ''cut'' guy. No, not THAT kind of cut. I mean skinny but with muscle tone and definition. I've never been a ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have hair there? How do I tell her?

Q.   I'm 26 years old and I have been with my girlfriend who is 24 for 5 months now and we are a stage of absolute relaxation around each other, she is the most amazing person I have ever been with, she is so kind, she is caring, she is funny and just ...

A.   26 October 2013: It's more than normal, it's very common. Most people do. A lot of people go to the waxer's and get it removed. It's a personal decision.... (read in full...)

Why do men like to check out porn and naked celebrities?

Q.   Hi everyone, Recently for some reason I have become a little insecure :( I am an attractive young woman...slim so little reason to you could say but like alot of women seem to be uncomfortable with my fiance looking at stuff on the internet. It...

A.   26 October 2013: I am just trying to help... It's just that I sensed that you were suffering from an underlying self-esteem issue. I think that it would help to talk to someone, like a counselor. We all have flaws but that doesn't mean we're not lovable. ... (read in full...)

My vagina is very wet and it makes an irritating sound!

Q.   I have a problem with my vagina,everytime when i have sex it becomes too wet and makes an irritating sound which makes me not to enjoy...

A.   26 October 2013: Pelvic floor exercises... kegels. They have many benefits, some are sexual, some are medical. Lubrication is a sign that you're healthy and normal. ... (read in full...)

My husband just left me for a younger woman

Q.   i am feeling like a total fool. i was informed last night that my husband of 23 years wants a divorce, he has a baby by a girl that is 24 years old and she is expecting another one by him again... yes you read this right the baby she just had is 4 ...

A.   26 October 2013: What a piece of shit! He doesn't care about doing the right thing, he's just making excuses for the fact that he has NO BALLS. The RIGHT THING would be to not cheat on you. You don't deserve this scumbag... get a GOOD lawyer, because some are ... (read in full...)

Want to become friends, but I don't want to come across as creepy

Q.   There's this girl who I graduated from hs last year who I'm following on twitter. We barely talked in hs but she seems really cool and nice and I would like to be friends. I've been feeling really lonely since I started college and haven't really ...

A.   26 October 2013: It's very true that any kind of relationship or bonding happens over time. But, you could still initiate something... Malvern is correct, a common interest in a good way to initiate a conversation. A lot of bonding happens in groups of people. ... (read in full...)

Cute girl at the smoothie shop, how do I approach her?

Q.   So for a while now I've been going to this smoothie place every sunday since its the only day I really have time to relax. Theres this oncredibly cute girl there who all of a sudden started giving me huge discounts on all my drinks. When I try n ...

A.   23 October 2013: You just have to get up your courage sometimes in order to really change your luck for the better. We all get awkward and goofy when we like someone. It sounds like she likes you a lot but be one of those girls who believe it's the guy's jo... (read in full...)

How much do guys care about acne?

Q.   Hi.. Well here's my question.. I have acne it's not terrible but it is definitely noticeable and I cover up the redness but the bumps are still there... So I am 14 and all guys care about are looks! But how much do guys care about acne ? ...

A.   23 October 2013: Every girl in the world has physical flaws. And what one guy is into, is a turn off for another guy. Some guys like blond hair, some guys like red hair, some guys like big boobs, some like small ones. Since your acne bothers you, you really s... (read in full...)

My ex named his daughter after me??

Q.   Hi, I got a txt of my ex of over 4 years, who ismarried for two years Now, he told me he Christened his daughter after me, what does this mean? Why does he need to tell me this after all theses years? ...

A.   23 October 2013: Sometimes, when romantic relationships work out, we still hold a place in an ex's heart. Not in a romantic way, but he probably values you in a platonic sense, as a person. Maybe he's not in love with you now, but you're still special to him. Or ... (read in full...)

Red flag or not? He has an inordinate number of 20-30 yo beautiful girls as friends on FB

Q.   Is this a red flag or nothing at all? I found a college friend on Facebook. He's 57 and I'm 52. Looks as if by his profile he's a nice normal guy. Loves animals. Not a million pictures of himself. Nor a million 'friends'. Posts insight...

A.   23 October 2013: Whoa tiger, you just reconnected with him! Maybe something could develop between the two of you, but I think you might want to slow down a tad. Haven't you heard ''Fools rush in'' to a relationship? I'm not saying you're a fool, but I think that ... (read in full...)

I think my married friend that I work with is attracted to me and I don't feel the same way!

Q.   I have a friend whom Ive known for about three years. He is 35 I am 45. We are also now work colleagues although I only work at the same place one day per week. He introduced me there by asking his boss to let me cover for him whilst he was posted ...

A.   23 October 2013: I can identify with a couple things you said. I think that ambition is a very admirable quality to have. This does NOT mean I think you should pursue him. I'm just saying that I understand what it's like to suffer from depression and be an ... (read in full...)

Why do men like to check out porn and naked celebrities?

Q.   Hi everyone, Recently for some reason I have become a little insecure :( I am an attractive young woman...slim so little reason to you could say but like alot of women seem to be uncomfortable with my fiance looking at stuff on the internet. It...

A.   15 October 2013: Men tend to be much more visually stimulated than women. It's a scientific fact. ... (read in full...)

I keep my late partner's Facebook page active -- is this wrong?

Q.   I had created a Facebook profile for my partner and lover of two years and he recently passed away. I definitely do not want to memorialize his profile because I just dont want to believe hes gone yet. So I am still logging in to his profile and ...

A.   15 October 2013: I am so sorry for your loss. The only problem I can see is if your friends don't know that he has passed on. They may see his profile and think he's still around and that would be unfair. Everyone grieves in their own way, and no one should be... (read in full...)

I've had dreams about my teacher crush and I'm confused now!

Q.   I have a crush on a teacher at my school, he's 25, friendly and good looking. Now, i have liked him since last year, and he coached my soccer team this year. Don't worry, I won't try anything and I've learnt that any 'special' attention he gives me ...

A.   15 October 2013: Dreams are the most interesting aspect of psychology, at least to me. This sounds like a ''wish fulfillment dream,'' or a dream that shows how you would like things to be. I think you realize that it's a crush and at least you are being realis... (read in full...)

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