Do guys only like me because of the way I look?
Q. I feel as if every guy that i date only wants me for my looks! Thisreally worries me. I do not have a bad personality at all. I am funny easy going kind and lots more! But it just seems that my looks get in the way! Every guy that i like or date ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hunny you are not going to get past the fact that you are good-looking so instaed of denying it use it to your advantage. Of course the first thing a guy will notice about you is your looks..but thats not so bad. you done want to be with a guy who ... (read in full...)
I had sex with a gay guy. Should I tell his partner?
Q. I had sex with a guy whos gay and in relationship should i tell his partner even if it means ever one else will find out that i am gay I had serveral sexually flings with this guy, he has a boy friend but there never do much in bed, he allows m...
A. 16 July 2008: being Bi or gay means cheating is a matter of your own conscience and whatever morality you live with. with the relaltionships I have had with other girls, its always been casual, so i never have called it cheating. If they have a staedy girl or ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is insatiable!! How do I cope?
Q. how many times realisticly can i have sex in one night.my girlfriends need for penatrive sex is insatiable.is 3 times nearly everynight sufficient?please let me know honestly....
A. 16 July 2008: Three times is not emough for me either sometimes. But I can see how an older guy like you can get tired of it. I like older guys who are patient and expereinced in bed, but when it somes to quanity I want a lot of it, and I can really understand ... (read in full...)
We are teenagers, we have sex, and we want to do it again immediately, is this normal?
Q. hi i am 14 and i have had sex many times with my gf who is 15. how come after sex me and her want to do it again. plz dont say under age stuff. we r real in love. we have been going out 4 3 yrs. ty ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hunny you can have sex as long as your body can handle it...and it is normal. I am happy that you are doing so good with your girlfriend. remember to be nice to her when your not having sex too! If she wants to have sex as long as you do then ... (read in full...)
Confused and worried about my sexuality...
Q. Hello all. I'm 19, I have a boyfriend which I'm not physically attracted to. But I do care about him. The problem is that I am physically and emotionally attracted to girls. Which would mean I'm probably bisexual or a lesbian in the worst case sce...
A. 16 July 2008: If your not physically atracted to your boyfriend, do him a favor and break it off with him... I cant see being wth a guy i cant be with in bed. Like the previous post said you can warm up to a guy and eventually find him more attractive, but you ... (read in full...)
Age difference question.
Q. How old is too old, I'm just friends with this guy, but I think he's really attractive. He's 25 years old and I'm 19, all opinions are appreciated. Would a relationship work out?...
A. 16 July 2008: o my god, girl...your boy isnt too old for you! my boyfriend is also a lot older, and age has never been an issue for us. As long as you are legal age you can date any guy older than you. What differnce does it make if you like each other?....and ... (read in full...)
I'm bi and have a boyfriend - if I do stuff with my best friend, does it count as cheating?
Q. Ok i need some help again! I'm pretty sure i'm Bi, but i have a boy friend who i've been with for a year and 6 months. I have two questions. 1 is how do i go about messing around in bed with one of my best friends? 2 is If i do stuff with my best ...
A. 16 July 2008: Yes it is cheating if you have sex with your friend, behind your boyfriends back. But if you are honest with him and tell him wbout your desires, he might just accept it and you are ok.
At your age I can umderstand your confusion. At your age ... (read in full...)
My female friend asked me out, but I'm not gay!
Q. i think my best mate (whose also a girl) fancies me, shes asked me out but i dont feel the same way, and im not gay. help!...
A. 21 June 2008: If she's you best mate you are propbably already going out together, and seeing each other anyway. How does this make it different? Is she being direct and saying I want to "do you"?
If thats what shes saying then back away and dont hurt her... (read in full...)
If I look at another guy's penis out of curiosity, does it mean I am gay?
Q. iam 16 years old, sometimes i have some curiousity to look at other's guy's penis !but i am not gay i wondered if is it mean that i am gay or someting ?and if is it a normal thing ?plz helpe me guys and thanks ...
A. 21 June 2008: I don't think you gay hunny, but ask yourself if you had the choice of seeing a girls privates or a guys privates, which would you choose? That's how you know if you are gay.
If your bisexual like me the question is moot. But its differen... (read in full...)
Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hunny, Im not going to look down on you because I can see you are trying to help your boyfriend and are being very patient with him. I lot of people will say you should leave him if he's not satisfying you like you need. Maybe you should...but you ... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong!!! He's always told me he could never be with another women, yet when given the chance he chooses her over me!
Q. Hello, I have a major problem with sleeping all of a sudden due to something that my husband and I did in the past, about a year ago. My husband has always wanted a threesome with another girl, and being sexually open, I thought , what the heck...
A. 23 April 2008: Hunny , Im sorry this didnt work out for you but I can tell you striaght out that the reason this threesome didnt work out for you is because You are not BI and were not into this girl. If you were, you and your husband would have shared equal time ... (read in full...)
I have broken my boyfriends heart by kissing another girl, how can we get over this?
Q. I am a Fetish model and i had a shoot with another girl.I had to kiss her during the shoot,my boyfriend was there and he was okay with that.For a long time he has wanted me to have a sexual encounter with a girl while he was there.I have considered ...
A. 23 April 2008: Your boyfriend is the one with the problem. He sounds very immature. When i kiss a girl, my guy never gets jealous like that. He knows me, and he knows I love him, he never pouts with me about things like that. Seriously, I dont think you did ... (read in full...)
Was he repulsed? Or was he just trying to hide something?
Q. Hey okie so I have a male friend, we had a fling over two years ago (though we never had sex he wanted to go all the way but I kinda stopped things) Anyway we never dated he didn't go out with me because of my self-conciousness and paranoia, but ...
A. 23 April 2008: Hey Hunny...Im sorry but I dont understand your question or how your realtionship is even based on. You say your friends and you are in bed with this guy, but your not fucking? Well call call me a slut, but if Im in bed with a guy, we are all ... (read in full...)
I just want to be his friend, I don't want a relationship with him.
Q. Hi to all. I've been talking through the phone with this old college male friend lately. We live thousands of miles away. We are currently both single. I'm happy talking to him because he always speaks highly of me and he is a good friend. It's l...
A. 15 April 2008: I hate to be harsh but its is so easy to throw off a guy who is a thousand miles away. Dont answer his calls. ignore his texts. Change your email if you must. but really if you just tell him to cool it off he will get the message. Its time to be ... (read in full...)
I want to last longer during sex, why can't I stay hard after I cum?
Q. I can not stay hard after i cum when im haveing sex im only 25 i went to last longer i haveing sex with my but how if i cant stay hard? we have oral everytime before we have sex. i do not know what is wrong...
A. 15 April 2008: Its true that guys get soft just after cumming. and its normal. But I can recommend this..sustain the erection a while longer. And the longer it is erect the longer it stays erect. When I have had sustained foreplay with my guy, he doesnt lose it ... (read in full...)
My boyfrind might be gay! What am I going to do? Can I make him straight?
Q. Im so worried My Boy Friends Gay, Im his first GirlFriend and he always used to get teased and called gay, and resently he told me hes not so sure him self! I dont know what to do! he says he loves me, but if he was gay i dont know how id cope ...
A. 15 April 2008: Well hunny I can tell you this: If he even thinks he might be gay, then he probably IS gay! Straight guys are very solid when they say they dont like guys period. I even mention to my boyfriend if he thinks a guy is cute and he looks at me like he ... (read in full...)
Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?
Q. As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...
A. 15 April 2008: okay....I repect you views and whatever reason you have for being celibate until you marry, that's up to you....but really, I think you are narrowing you selection a bit too much..and the older you get the fewer virgins are out there to be found. ... (read in full...)
I made out with my best friends guy, now I feel horrible. What shall I do?
Q. I made out with one of my best guy friend, and he's going out with my best friend!!! I feel horrible, my best friend doesn't know about it, but my boyfriend does. Now i'm starting to have feelings for him and i can't control them, if my best frie...
A. 12 April 2008: 10 years old and dating...? You arent even in puberty! Stop trying to act like an adult and go play with your Bratz dolls...I just told a ten year old boy to do the same. Puleeesz. Why dont you just be kids and concentrate on your school. You ... (read in full...)
I like a girl in my class, but I don't know if she's cheating.
Q. there is a girl in my class and i like her but now i think shes cheaating on me. i heard of guy from another school she said. she also told me she likes someone but i'm not sure... she still nags me and calls my name for no reason. but she once ...
A. 12 April 2008: She's not cheating on you if she is not WITH you. She's not your wife and she's not your girlfriend, so its not cheating! She can do whatetever she wants and like or not as many guys as she wants. Hey she can kiss as many guys as she wants! She ... (read in full...)
IF two girls have sex can you still get STD's
Q. IF two girls have sex can you still get STD's ??? ...
A. 11 April 2008: YES!... (read in full...)
I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!
Q. I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...
A. 11 April 2008: Im going to stand out here and go out on the limb here...but I do believe in love at first sight. I and in fact I do believe he can love you after only a week. Of course love doesnt always grow balanced for both parties....even if it starts a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex girlfreind is pregnant with his kid what should I do??
Q. I need help. Me an my boyfrind have been together for five months and we love each other so much. But he just found out from his ex from ten months ago that she just had a baby and it might be his. Please help me and give me some advice on what sho...
A. 11 April 2008: The right thing for you to do is to step back and let him decide what he needs to do..what he should do is support the child and connect with his ex, hopefully they should get married and give the kid a chance at a normal family. That's the best ... (read in full...)
My husband has sex with me when I'm asleep....is it rape or "silent sex"?
Q. my husband had sex with me when I was drunk and asleep - I woke up as he pulled out and was climbing off me, cleaning himself up with tissues, I have confronted him and he says he thought I was awake - there is no way he thought I was awake as we ...
A. 2 April 2008: Hi Hunny! Im sorry you had to go though this, and i hoped you heal up from it. i agree with you that the word "rape" has tainted the responses here, and if it wasn't in your origional questioning it was at least implied. You said you were upset ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 2 April 2008: I can see that there are two sides to this story too.
The wife wants to get together with her old husband to “close old wounds” while the husband us trying to stop it.
If the wound hasn’t healed in 27 years one quick personal visit w... (read in full...)
Do I make men behave this way or I just "pick" men like this, the aggresive and controlling type? Is this reason enough to leave them?
Q. I recently went on holiday with my boyfriend (3 year relationship) and it went badly - we argued and at one point he moved towards me in such a way I thought he was going to hit me. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me backwards I fell on the ...
A. 2 April 2008: Men as a whole are more aggressive, its their nature..its the testosterone thing...so i will excuse some of that. But if he ever does strike you, I would try to get him out of my life. I like men who are aggressive and strong, but not when it gets ... (read in full...)
You can't be 100% happy and completely satisfied all the time, can you?...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 3 months. We are still in that 'honeymoon' period, and I really fancy him, physically and personality wise. But sometimes I have doubts. Is this normal? You can't ever be 100% happy and completely satisfied all the...
A. 2 April 2008: No you cant ne 100 percent happy! You can be 90 percent happy and compromise on the ten percent. I dont think even the best of relationships everybody sees eye to eye and is perfect. thats why you have to put some effort in making a relationship ... (read in full...)
Her fling "meant nothing", how do I come to terms with it?
Q. Hi hope you can help. I met my current girl friend 3 years ago. We were friends for about 4 months, talking regularly by email, telephone and meeting up. We had both experieced breakups and had been honest about our pasts and i felt there was a re...
A. 21 March 2008: Im sorry about this hunny. I know this had to hurt. Her email said everything you need to know. This fling was bigger than she admited to you and clearly you are "second place" for her. If it was just a onetime thing, a little sex and nothing ... (read in full...)
Wife is begging me for "Rough Sex" and wants me to call her a "Whore", how do I do it?
Q. I read the gentlemen's question who said his wife wanted rough sex, and begged for it even... but he was guilty. Well, my wife is begging me for "rough sex" more and more. She also said to me that she would like for me to call her a "Whore and a ...
A. 19 March 2008: if it isnt rough it isnt right! i dont know how i can tell you to be rough...thats something to judge in the monent i guess. Just follow her directions as you go along is the best i can say. slap her butt while you go doggy style, fuck her like ... (read in full...)
I'm homeschooled - and worried about not meeting new people, one of which should be my BF!
Q. i want a bf but i'm homeschooled so i don't have any guy friends i want true love,i want somebody who will like me for me,i'm 12 and i'm not getting any younger so please help?!thank you...
A. 19 March 2008: 12 and not getting any younger!...well, I would say you havent gotten much much older yet to worry about boyfriends! Are you kidding!
But if you want to meet new friends..girls too, you should try to get involved in groups and activiti... (read in full...)
My ex has always cheated and now I like his best friend! Should I go for it?
Q. well okay so i was with this guy we were together 4 years and we have a lil girl together but the whole time we were together he cheated on me this last time it was with my sister yes my sister but thats a whole nother subject ok so i have this ...
A. 19 March 2008: Hunny your question leaves me breathless and dizzy. But aure...go for it and try to hook up with this guy. He sounds like a good guy for you and it could be good. ... (read in full...)
Worried about sizes... and the future.
Q. okay, im overweight, and i have a 4 and half or 5 inch penis(its hard to measure...), i'm 17 and i get made fun of by these other kids i know for being a virgin, but i have to know am i too small? will there really be someone out there who except...
A. 19 March 2008: hey hunny....
Your small penis is not the only way to pleasure a woman. There's oral and other ways to make a girl happy. So stop letting it hold you back. basically girls dont fall in love with a man's dick but the man himself, whatever the size... (read in full...)
Is a "blow job" considered sex? Do girls do this for fun?
Q. I am curious as to why so many teenage girls, and maybe even some older girls and women, don't think a blowjob is sex. Do any of you girls or women here think a blowjob isn't sex? If so, why do you think that? And if a blowjob isn't sex, would...
A. 17 March 2008: Oh yes a blow job is defintely sex, and i thnk its as much sex as fucking. Ive done blowjobs with guys I know for fun, but i would still call it sex, anyone who doesnt think its sex is fooling themselves. a handshake is a handshake, and a kiss may ... (read in full...)
I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me ...
A. 15 March 2008: Well, hunny, I’ll say this first: if you just woke up to a naked guy after a long night of drinking, something did happen. You didn’t mention if your clothes were off and maybe because they were still on you think nothing happened….is that why you ... (read in full...)
We've been together 2 months and he's cheated on me. How do I know for sure he won't do this again?
Q. Recently my boyfriend admited that he cheated on me. I forgave him after a period of time. Up to now I am not having any trust issues but I am worried that it may happen again we have only been together for 2 months but I really like him and I think ...
A. 12 March 2008: Cheating doesnt count after knowing someone two months. You barely know each other. When I started dating my boyfriend I slept with a few guys even before I got intimate with my guy. I just didnt want to rush into sex with him , but still needed ... (read in full...)
I want him for nothing other then pure passion, but could we remain friends?
Q. ok i need help!! i'm with my man for years now and i love him to bits don't get me wrong. but there's this guy who's in the same situation as me and we both want eachother soooo much, just for sex like! we always tell eachother that it cant happ...
A. 12 March 2008: You cant deny the fact that you want to fuck each other, so I say go for it. there's no harm in just sex, as long as you have your head together. You may up really liking him then its bye bye boyfreind...oh well. But dont be shy, be adults and ... (read in full...)
Married, and I fancy this other guy, I moved away but cant shake that feeling,help!
Q. I have a problem...a couple really. Firstly, I am married to this really lovely, steady guy. He loves me, we have kids. We get along well, and he is truly my best friend. We have a lousy sex life, but that's not really anyone's fault - more that ...
A. 12 March 2008: Well i think this younger guy is just what you need since your sex life with your husband is going nowhere. Have you ever tried the direct approach...just go up to him and tell him you want to fuck him. Most guys do not refuse sex if they are asked ... (read in full...)
He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?
Q. Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...
A. 12 March 2008: Oh my god girl, if he has to work at getting an erection for you he sounds like a loser. I would dump him so now. Give him a viagra and playboy and throw him away. I hate to be blunt but any guy im with better get an erection for ME or its over.... (read in full...)
We had sex but she says she loves her husband too much!
Q. I'm in love with a married woman. She has 7 months of marriage. We had sex one night. She loves me but says she will not leave her husband because she does not want to make him hurt. I can't really let go. What should i do ?...
A. 4 March 2008: I think she has a right to pursue whatever she wants, and you have to be adult enough to accept her wishes. Let her go and be happy you got to know her for a while. she has her own reasons for staying with her hsuband and you have to stand back ... (read in full...)
Old flame has made me feel a spark that is missing in my marriage...how can I work through this??
Q. I've been married almost ten years. I have children with my spouse and have been very happy. Last week an old flame from high school contacted me. We had a very short relationship (puppy dog type love...petting, making out) my freshman year and ...
A. 2 March 2008: I think you are in the middle of a perfect mix of things that sum up to potential affair here. It looks like you have time on your hands with your husband away, you don't want to damage your relationship but you want to have fun and need sexual ... (read in full...)
Are threesomes just a fantasy or do they really happen??
Q. Are threesomes only a man's fantasy or do they really happen that often? I believe it might be fun with the right circumstances. ...
A. 2 March 2008: Yes, hunny they do happen...and its not just a guys fantasy. Without giving away details have been involved in a couple threesomes and they were great experiences, and i have no regrets.
But i do hear the horror stories about threesomes breaking... (read in full...)
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