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Hi i am from England,I am currently in a loving realtionship and have being for a few years now.

I'm quite happy to help abouslutly anyone, i enjoy helping others and i think by helping other people it makes you learn more about yourself.

I believe that we are all equals, no matter what sex,culture or sexuality you are. It especially ticks me off when men believe that women should be in the kitchen or something stupid like that it just shows how naive and narrow minded they are.

So i am quite happy to help anyone who may be in some kind of trouble, or who just wants to sort out a problem.

Thank you.



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