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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!
Q. I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she ...
A. 27 October 2010: She was in the United States as a student, but her life is in Brazil. Now she's going back, and she's right in saying that she won't know what to do until she's back there. That means she might find that keeping a relationship with you is not the ... (read in full...)
Am I nuts for worrying that she'll keep my personal information to herself?
Q. Can someone give me some advice? I've always been a person that will be honest in a relationship. I think its a good attribute to have just so there are never anything to worry about, coming back to haunt me, etc... I have been very honest with...
A. 27 October 2010: You're not nuts, but you have to understand that, once it leaves your mouth, it can become public domain.... (read in full...)
In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?
Q. Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...
A. 27 October 2010: YES, YOU SCREWED UP AND THIS HAS NO FIXING. APOLOGIZING WOULD BE THE VERY LEAST TO DO, AND YET IT MIGHT NOT GET YOU ANYWHERE.
(I used capital letters to emphasize my point)
Suppose he had said he liked that blonde with those big 3800 DD's (u... (read in full...)
Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?
Q. I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to ...
A. 27 October 2010: I'm with Eyes. You don't have to be impolite or whatever, but Mr. Georgia has to say something like "I don't like this, please stop, this is my woman, I like her, don't call us while we're in bed, I wonder what crossed your mind when you called ... (read in full...)
I am unsure of whether or not this woman from one of my college classes is interested.
Q. I was in a relationship with a woman for 5 years. After a tumultuous breakup, involving her cheating, time has passed and we are friends and I feel great about life and everything. My problem is this: I have been out of the dating game for so long ...
A. 27 October 2010: I agree with Birdy, particularly in your taking care to think with the big one.
I may add that this woman said she doesn't date much, yet she said she hung out with someone to get laid, then she refused your asking her out, and then she said she... (read in full...)
Is my husband in love with his best friend?
Q. Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...
A. 27 October 2010: The question that is floating on your mind is whether they are really over or not. Your husband had no trouble having him and you at the same time. He had no trouble breaking up with you, even if later you went back together. You moved to his ... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 22 October 2010: "The eye of the tiger"... (read in full...)
I found out my best friend is a stripper! I want her to be my favourite stripper!
Q. Okay, so before I go all clichéd on you guys, I want to explain something to you. Something that thoroughly shocked me at first but then after thinking about it, I really started to like it. Last Saturday night, I went to a strip club with two of...
A. 22 October 2010: I'll write in a humourous and ironic manner, but not to be offensive, but to help you see my points better. Or so I hope.
You could tell her that you have always loved her and seeing her stripping has now added lust to the love. Of course, ... (read in full...)
Beautiful letters from a former colleague and lover, would it be unethical to publish them?
Q. Several years ago when clearing out a filing cabinet at work, my colleague found several very thick folders of love letters. They were between a married former colleague and a man with whom she was conducting an affair. My friend wanted to throw ...
A. 22 October 2010: This is their private correspondence, their own authorship, and, sorry to say it so bluntly, their own business.
Beyond that, maybe your publishing those private papers would lead to problems to those involved. Say the wife dumped the lover an... (read in full...)
Now that he's out of prison he's blowing me off!
Q. I met my fiance 11 months ago in prison and over the year that we have been together we have grown to be so much in love well so much like we were in love and now that he is out his family doesnt like me and he has been trying to blow me off for the ...
A. 20 October 2010: We can't know if he's just adjusting to the new situation, or if he already adjusted and you're part of the "old" situation.
Those bars, they do change people´s perspectives, you know? Once you're out, you see things in a very different way.
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My best friend is only using me till he gets a girlfriend
Q. I have been blowing my best friend since I was 16. Now I am 25. I’m gay, but my best friend is not. He really is straight. He will mostly watch straight or lesbo porn when I blow him. he let me do it because he’s ugly and he doesn’t have a ...
A. 20 October 2010: There are many bad guys out there, and this person you've met is one of them. He has been using you for years, taking advantage both of your sexual preferences and your feelings for him. Yet, when someone else knows what he's been doing, he's only ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time getting into a LDR?
Q. Ok I am interested in some advice. I am divorced and I am dating my high school boyfriend, who found me on facebook. Here is the issue. He is seperated from his wife and they are close to finalizing their divorce. He also lives very far away ...
A. 20 October 2010: We can't know if your relationship with this guy will go well. I hope it does.
On the other hand, it definitely won't if you give up at this time.
I would ask you to reflect a bit about that "wasting your time" thing. If you can see yourself... (read in full...)
Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?
Q. This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this ...
A. 20 October 2010: Sirena, (hiya!), I'm just stating the facts. Apparently our poster was told by her man that he won't leave his wife.... (read in full...)
Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?
Q. This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this ...
A. 19 October 2010: Sorry, but, yes, it happens all the time. Where I live, it used to be the rule for nearly every man (it was like that in other countries, too).
The man just wants sex on the side, and he won't leave all he has with his wife, and won't enter th... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex and I let go of each other?
Q. Hello Dear Cupid. Please help!! I am stil madly in love wth my ex, and he knows it, and he messages me if I do not hear from him, and I message him vice versa. We do not see each other much, but when we do it usually really nice, but he always ...
A. 19 October 2010: Good question by HotGeek.... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, should I tell her?
Q. Hi readers! So I became friend of this girl that i like and today she said i was her best. about a week ago everyone started saying that she likes me, and when someone says that out loud she denies it. Also, I personally think that three other guys ...
A. 19 October 2010: Take your chances. If she rejects you, well, you pack your things and go. If she doesn't, then you got her.
Piece of cake!... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?
Q. just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!...
A. 19 October 2010: He won't mind. Ditto, Vintage64.... (read in full...)
How can someone that loves you so much let you go so easily?
Q. I am 34 yrs old with 4 children, 2 live with me, the other 2 decided to live with their dad. A year ago, I met this wonderful 28 yr old man with a daughter. I have custody of my children where as he only gets his daughter every other weekend. We ...
A. 19 October 2010: Meaning he sort of gives you hope without saying he is giving you hope. You get the impression that he sort of cares, since he is still calling every day, right? And being caring, right? He wouldn't call if he weren't feeling something, right? ... (read in full...)
I want to find an older woman who doesn't think I'm too young to have sex with her!
Q. I wish I could find an older woman who doesn't say I am too young to have sex with her. I am 21 by the way. I have been attracted to older woman. We go out on dates and do fun things. When the sex thing comes up they always say I am too young to ...
A. 19 October 2010: Thumbs up, Cindy.... (read in full...)
Getting over a broken heart... I don't understand what's wrong...
Q. Two years ago, a man moved into my apartment (we had been talking over the phone for a month before he moved to the state and there were already sparks). When he moved in, we were immediately intimate and close and for about 7-8 months we spent all ...
A. 19 October 2010: He's gone, and that's a bad thing. But his returning to "hang out" two or three times a week would be even worse. He went from living with you to leaving you.
With all the pain and confusion it brings about, it's best if you don't talk to him, ... (read in full...)
Ultra conservative girlfriend will not even make out now and its really very depressing to me
Q. This is long, but please read. I really need some advice So my girlfriend and I recently, like 2-3 weeks ago, decided to finally start experimenting with sexual desires (ie handjobs and fingering) after 2 1/2 years of dating. Everything was g...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm sorry, but you want us to give you "a mass with sex and violence", as a Spanish saying goes. You can't have what you want.
There is no room for compromise here: no kissing, fingering, handjobs, whatever, until you're married. That is her r... (read in full...)
Relationships need sex to survive. What if you're a virgin?
Q. Everybody is saying that relationship needs sex to survice. . Then i ask,what about bin a virgin til wedding day,doesn't it matter anymore?...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm afraid someone is putting pressure on you to have sex before marriage. Don't do that if you don't want to. If the relationship comes to an end, so be it. Don't give in to blackmail.... (read in full...)
I want to find an older woman who doesn't think I'm too young to have sex with her!
Q. I wish I could find an older woman who doesn't say I am too young to have sex with her. I am 21 by the way. I have been attracted to older woman. We go out on dates and do fun things. When the sex thing comes up they always say I am too young to ...
A. 19 October 2010: I have the hunch you posted before.
I don't know about the ladies, but I do have some advice: don't do this. And I don't mean dating older women.
Women read men much, much faster than we like to think. Since they are older, and wiser, they ... (read in full...)
How can someone that loves you so much let you go so easily?
Q. I am 34 yrs old with 4 children, 2 live with me, the other 2 decided to live with their dad. A year ago, I met this wonderful 28 yr old man with a daughter. I have custody of my children where as he only gets his daughter every other weekend. We ...
A. 19 October 2010: We can't see life the way another person sees life, simply because we are not that other person. So, while you think you have all the information, and, therefore, you don't understand why he changed, maybe you don't really know why he left you.
... (read in full...)
Shadows from my past came knocking at my door, what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 16 years we have children, and well at least I was happy and I truly loved her. Many years ago I caught her cheating it broke my heart but I forgave her and we continue to live together and we were actually happy. ...
A. 19 October 2010: Well, I can respect you for not trying again with the girlfriend, since you don't love her. But, painful as it is, your married life is over, and you'd better face it, sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)
We've been on a break for three weeks and I hate it
Q. So this is the first time I've ever done anything like this so bare with me. I've loved the idea of love for as long as I can remember. So my story is I met this girl that I feel in love with about 4-5 months ago. We dated for almost 2 months and ...
A. 19 October 2010: Trust me on this one: neither. Don't message her, and don't wait for her to message you.... (read in full...)
29 years old, should I get circumcised?
Q. Hi, I am 29 male living in Cairo, Egypt. I am new to this place. I want to go for circumcision surgery since it is paining me when i penetrate into my wife. It is not heavy but whenever i do, its paining. Its making both of us uncomfortable. Now my ...
A. 18 October 2010: Your post says you live in Egypt, a muslim country, where men are routinely circumcised. So this gives me the hunch that your post isn't real.
But, it could be a real post. Therefore, I must say that some men have foreskins that don't retract ... (read in full...)
Over a $20.00 tip? Are you serious?
Q. Hello to all. I have a situation and I am looking for some advice. I hope someone can help me out here. My boyfriend and I went out for dinner last night. We hadnt gone out in awhile so I agreed to go even though I had just gotten off a 8 hour shift ...
A. 18 October 2010: I think that neither the tip nor the amount of it are relevant here. It is clear (in my humble opinion) that you had an argument over things way more important than twenty dollars.
At first sight, the amount he gave as a tip wouldn't help you... (read in full...)
Will weird nipples turn a guy off?
Q. I have ugly inverted nipples with weird bumps on my areola. What do guys think about it? Do they find it disqusting? Or a turnoff? ...
A. 18 October 2010: I suppose your guy will see you naked, so the answer is a big NO, he will not find them disgusting, or a turnoff.... (read in full...)
Shadows from my past came knocking at my door, what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 16 years we have children, and well at least I was happy and I truly loved her. Many years ago I caught her cheating it broke my heart but I forgave her and we continue to live together and we were actually happy. ...
A. 18 October 2010: I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that countless men and women have lost good people because they didn't want, or couldn't, move on and go for wonderful people fate had put on their way. I'm afraid you will be one of these, too, unless you ... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: When I posted my posts (wonderful English), your update was not yet on the site and I didn't see it.
To answer your question, yes, some guys could feel aroused by showing their buddies pictures of their girls nude. In fact, that is exactly ... (read in full...)
She says she didn't cheat, should I believe her?
Q. My girlfriend has had this guy "friend" for i don't know how long. Longer than she has known me. She went to go hang out at his house one night. She ended up staying the night over there. I saw her the next day and she said they were just watching ...
A. 18 October 2010: I wouldn't believe her either.
I think you should break up with her. My opinions aside, it's clear you haven't got over this, and the reason is, something deep inside of you tells you that you shouldn't believer her story.
I think she's a li... (read in full...)
Is Lovemaking Needed for a Relationship to Survive?
Q. Is it necessary for a couple to be physically intimate for the relationship to survive?...
A. 18 October 2010: Er... yes.... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: Oh, I didn't notice you were a girl. Maybe "The Girl in Question", trying to figure out why the hell Mr. Boy in Question did that?... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: Trying to be respectful, this reminds me of a book by Mario Vargas Llosa that a friend of ours read aloud for our benefit. In the story in question, the wife had this wonderful piece of ass (Spanish ass, of course), and the man didn't mind if other ... (read in full...)
We've been on a break for three weeks and I hate it
Q. So this is the first time I've ever done anything like this so bare with me. I've loved the idea of love for as long as I can remember. So my story is I met this girl that I feel in love with about 4-5 months ago. We dated for almost 2 months and ...
A. 18 October 2010: "She says she doesn't know when she will want a relationship again". Translation: she doesn't want a relationship with you.
"I try to be there for her and I feel like sometimes it helps her and others I just make things worse." Translat... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: a)... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a man to talk to a woman online when he has a wife and kids?
Q. I guy who follows my photography blog messaged me a few times about how much he liked my work, he also reblogged some of my images and told people about me. He sent me a message asking me to go and see him play (hes a musician) I didn't go even t...
A. 18 October 2010: Ditto, Mickey Sánchez.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a man to talk to a woman online when he has a wife and kids?
Q. I guy who follows my photography blog messaged me a few times about how much he liked my work, he also reblogged some of my images and told people about me. He sent me a message asking me to go and see him play (hes a musician) I didn't go even t...
A. 17 October 2010: I surmise that you have pictures of yourself on your blog.
Maybe he is not following your blog with romantic intentions. Perhaps he did like your photos, and invited you to see him play because he liked your work. He noticed you were not ther... (read in full...)
This girl at school has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me?
Q. This girl at school has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me? Well there is this girl at school that i ignored for the first month of school, because everyday she would talk about her boyfriend. she would say i love my boyfriend so muc...
A. 17 October 2010: I am curious here. I wonder what it is that you find upsetting: her talking about her allegedly great, wonderful boyfriend all the time, or the fact that she says so yet gives you too much attention. I suppose you are concerned about the ... (read in full...)
Am I really the fool they want me to think I am?
Q. I'm feeling pretty crappy these days after 11 years of marriage. Both sides of our family insist on pointing out what a tramp my wife was as a teen and the things she did in bed with her ex HB. He apparently made things known. I knew a lot about my ...
A. 15 October 2010: Many people sleep around when young (and middle-aged, and old), but their families don't usually bring the subject intot he conversation, or tell the hubby he's an idiot. I find it curious that, apparently, both sides of the family are only ... (read in full...)
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