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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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She had an affair... I am thinking about joining them!
Q. My girlfriend of 6 years had an affair with her friend. I found out from facebook logs and found text messages. When I confronted her she said it was only a kiss. Then I find sexy texts and confront her and she admitted it went further but didn...
A. 28 November 2010: I wonder if she couldn't have bought a vibrator is all she needed was one.
You mention your job and the little sex you've been having and apparently those are the reasons you find for her cheating. But if you want to know why something happened... (read in full...)
Do men ever regret NOT being in their child's life?
Q. Hey i just wondering, do men regret not being in their child's life... like they know they have one or do they have to see the child before they regret not being there or do they just not give a damn? and before anyone says I stopped him seei...
A. 28 November 2010: Some men do regret not being in their child's life, and some others don't regret it at all.
Judging by your age, the man in question must be very young and perhaps feeling like he's free again. He might not be at a stage in his life where he... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 27 November 2010: Cerberus, I beg to differ with you about that every man would sleep with any woman IF OFFERED. Would you sleep with, say, your brother's wife?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 26 November 2010: The man is a player and a hypocrite. I could say a lot about this, but, in the end, my only recommendation can be that you stand up for yourself and leave him.
You have made more than your fair share here, you know?... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 26 November 2010: You're wrong. It is simply NOT true that a man would have sex with ANYONE. Men would have sex with lots of women; but that does not make it ANYONE.
Men have to get women's consent to have sex. If you don't consent to it, it's called harassme... (read in full...)
I want to sow my wild oats!
Q. I want to sow my wild oats. The problem is I am in a LDR and he doesn't know it. we never met. he is a great guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings so I need a good excuse to dump him for not apparent reason and no I can't be honest because that ...
A. 22 November 2010: Question: how can a person be in a long-distance relationship and NOT KNOW IT? NEVER HAVE MET the other party?
If this is a real post, I agree with Quiet-Echo and with You Wish, EXCEPT in saying that "the issue is you" and "you want to explore ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend won't stop texting this guy, what should I do?
Q. Ok so I know I've been asking a lot of questions, but definitely this is something I MUST ask. My girlfriend keeps texting behind my back or in front of me while we go out. However, when I ask her to let me see who she's texting she'll never sho...
A. 22 November 2010: She can text when you're not there. She can borrow a friend's phone and text from it. So, your asking her to show you her phone is useless. Also, it sort of suggests that you will control what she does.
And what would you do if you found ou... (read in full...)
I feel abused by this woman
Q. I work with my ex girlfriend. We went out and things were find but she didnt want anyone to know about the relationship at work and even lied to people that we were only friends not lovers. we went on holiday together and all the things that you do ...
A. 22 November 2010: I agree with the first three paragraphs of aunty Bim Bim's advice. She did use you, she feels uneasy around you, and there is nothing you can do.
I disagree in what to do next. If I were you, I would quietly find myself a different job and leav... (read in full...)
My clitoris is bigger than other parts. Is this normal?
Q. Hey guys this is abit embarrasing hence annon, but is it natural for my clitoris to be larger than the other parts of my private parts? Is it bad and do men find it unattractive?...
A. 22 November 2010: I agree with Cerb.... (read in full...)
I kissed a guy when I was drunk, told my boyfriend and now I don't know what to do!
Q. As background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and were quite happy together. We were near engagement, so it's a very serious relationship. I went to a going away party this weekend and got blackout drunk at the end of the ...
A. 22 November 2010: Let us look at this from the perspective of your boyfriend, shall we?
Girlfriend gets drunk and kisses someone else. Someone Else claims it was more than kissing. There is no way for Boyfriend to verify Someone Else's story, but he may rightful... (read in full...)
How can I convince my friend she's making a big mistake?
Q. My friend and I are freshmen in high school. She is a beautiful smart exotic girl who "loves" this total jerk. Before the summer when she first got a phone he would text her and say that he loved her and ask constantly if she wanted to meet and have ...
A. 22 November 2010: People don't usually learn from advice. We usually learn from wounds, blows, tears and the like. I'm afraid your friend will have to learn the hard way.... (read in full...)
Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?
Q. Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I ...
A. 22 November 2010: All right, poster, off I go.
For your sake, however, I will say this much. If you're right and am wrong, or, if yours is a perfectly valid choice, then everything is OK. But what happens to YOU if I am right?... (read in full...)
I have a baby with a married man. Now what?
Q. I am a 36 year old single woman who has a daughter with a 50 year old married man. He has no children with his wife. I am so in love with him but I want a complete family. Is it wrong of me to want him to leave his wife? And if he doesn't (which ...
A. 21 November 2010: Now you raise your kid the best way you can, knowing that probably he won't leave his wife for you.... (read in full...)
Should we get married?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 11 years we have 2 children together aged 9 and 8. She really wants a commitment from me in the form of marriage but I haven't given it yet. I have never had an interest in marriage but it's really important ...
A. 21 November 2010: Yeppers, you should. In practice, you said "I do" long ago.... (read in full...)
After this heart-wrenching break I wonder if I can ever love again
Q. Well here's my sad story. My ex girlfriend ended things with me about 2 months ago and she has been with a new guy for about the same time as well. She basically left me and started dating this new guy about a week after, which she met while still ...
A. 21 November 2010: Well, I will disclose more heartbreaking news to you, in order to prepare you for the rest of my post: You think that she replaced you right away. You are assuming that she didn't look for anyone else until she broke up with you. That is a wrong ... (read in full...)
Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?
Q. Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I ...
A. 21 November 2010: Just for the sake of making your point clear, dear poster: even if I play jokes on you, I would like you to take due note that "promiscuous" is not the same as "undefiled". What you want is a virgin, because, in your books, "virginity" is the same ... (read in full...)
I wanna buy some romantic or dramatic novels any suggestions please?
Q. I wanna buy some romantic or dramatic novels any suggestions please? (important)...
A. 20 November 2010: For dramatic, "The Communist Manifesto".
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Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?
Q. Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I ...
A. 20 November 2010: Oh My God! If you want a decent man, don't look for one at church, for Christ's sake! Don't you know that Satan the Devil is devilishly interested in making those good sheep leave the fold? And that he succeeds? That not all those who call him ... (read in full...)
Is this cute and quirky or just plain weird?
Q. Hi everyone. So this a kind of a weird questions and its a bit embarassing, but i'd just like some guys opionions. I have a little mole on the side of my vagina - like on the skin next to it. Will guys find this quirky and cute or is it just plain ...
A. 18 November 2010: That little cutie mole will look like a funny little interesting cutie mole to everyone.... (read in full...)
Why would a 70 year old married man from the US come to visit my 37 year old friend in the Philipines? Will he just use her for sex?
Q. I would like to ask for some point of views. Do older married man like 65 yrs. old and above seek an affair because his wife cannot give him the sexual desires he needs? I have a friend who falls madly in love with an old married guy almost t...
A. 18 November 2010: When meeting face to face, she will be able to size his wallet up, and he will have a chance to size her body up.
I have seen this happen any number of times.... (read in full...)
Fiancé wishes my penis was bigger, do you think I'm big enough?
Q. I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says ...
A. 18 November 2010: No, there is no (safe) way to increase your penis size.
By the way, tell your girlfriend that you keep wishing she had larger boobs, blonde hair and a firmer butt. That will teach her.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to end a good relationship?
Q. This may sound a little crazy but im thinking about ending a relationship, when there is nothing wrong with him. We have been together for 3yrs, and they have been great years together. we started as friends which evolved into a really fun ...
A. 18 November 2010: This is a good question, and obviously there is a good answer for it somewhere.
Maybe he's very nice and all but you're bored and want out. That happens.
If you can't see yourself marrying him or having his children, however, the obvious thin... (read in full...)
Why would a 70 year old married man from the US come to visit my 37 year old friend in the Philipines? Will he just use her for sex?
Q. I would like to ask for some point of views. Do older married man like 65 yrs. old and above seek an affair because his wife cannot give him the sexual desires he needs? I have a friend who falls madly in love with an old married guy almost t...
A. 18 November 2010: Everything is possible, but this very very much sounds like a "long-distance relationship of convenience". Let me play Devil's (bwa-ha-ha-ha) advocate for a minute: Why would a self-respecting 37 year old woman, not a child, be involved with a 65 ... (read in full...)
All 4 of my ex's want me back! Who do I choose?
Q. Okay i have been single for a while, i had been together with 4 girls in life.All pretty and nice girls. One or more circumstances made them leave me. Now they are all single and want me again. I dont know what to do. I mean i am not seeing anyone ...
A. 18 November 2010: I know that life is dynamic and changing, we must keep an open mind, et cetera, yet I would say that apparently three of them might not stay in Germany. That might be important for you, or not, but it should be a factor. Maybe you want to move out ... (read in full...)
We traded in a LDR for FWBs when we come home on breaks!
Q. so i began seeing this guy over the summer and he decided we shouldnt so long distance after about 2-3 months of dating and i agreed. However i know we are no longer gf and bf he asked to be friends with benefits when i come home on my breaks and ...
A. 18 November 2010: Just drop it. He'd only be using you for sex.... (read in full...)
Love and duty.
Q. Hello, I'm in need of a lot of advice. I believe my situation is largely my own fault, but the biggest point is that I need to figure out what to do. I'd grown up religious and then in young adulthood grown out of it, was living for each day, wh...
A. 18 November 2010: I think this post demands a deeper understanding of your personal situation and a lot of thinking about what you can and actually want to do. I will get back to you later. I'm sort of marking this post so I can find it again easily.
For the time... (read in full...)
My husband is old school!
Q. My husband is from "the old scjhool", who beleives giving a male (a kid)co-worker a ride home (because his car broke down), is a breech of trust and that, I, as a married woman, should not be "driving around town with men in my car". First ...
A. 17 November 2010: Now that you tell me that he has never "consumated" you, I can tell you that Ye Olde Hubby knows he can't give you sex and quite reasonably (but incorrectly) thinks you will be getting it elsewhere, unless he unleashes the dragon, kills the ... (read in full...)
My husband is old school!
Q. My husband is from "the old scjhool", who beleives giving a male (a kid)co-worker a ride home (because his car broke down), is a breech of trust and that, I, as a married woman, should not be "driving around town with men in my car". First ...
A. 16 November 2010: Question: When did this begin to happen? How long have you, 51-59 year old female, been with him? If you've been married or living together or whatever for, say, 20 years, and it's only now that he says those things, then something else is the ... (read in full...)
Do red-headed men dig dark skinned women?
Q. i like this red-headed guy but i don't know if he would like me because i am dark complected.so my question is do red headed guys like dark complected girls?...
A. 16 November 2010: Depends on the man.... (read in full...)
I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend!
Q. I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend. Why? Because she's never in the mood, and when she is she always gets tired fast, breathless and pain in her stomach. (She's not overweight and my penis is only 7" long and 6" girt...
A. 16 November 2010: It sounds like she doesn't like to give oral sex, and that is fine. It also sounds like she doesn't like to have sex with you at all, and that could be fine if you were happy with it. I think you are not, or you wouldn't be here telling us about ... (read in full...)
I just don't find her sexually desirable!
Q. So after being horribly abused and used by two different women (I won't go into details, but the end result was me having a complete mental breakdown), I had finally rebuilt myself from the ground up, and I was feeling confident in who I was. After ...
A. 16 November 2010: It would be very easy to say that your problems with this woman are due to your past horrible experiences. Maybe she's a great woman, only you don't find her attractive? I have that feeling.
If you don't think you can fall for her in the futu... (read in full...)
Big nipples vs. Small nipples, which do guys prefer?
Q. Girls have all different sizes of nipples and we dont really pay too much attention to it until it comes down to having to strip down and reveal them to boys..soo what do guys prefer...big nipples or small ones? or does it not matter at all? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Tisha is right.... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 4 November 2010: Cerberus, I just think we should not ignore the fact that the "greedy claws" are around your neck. It's something to consider.... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?
Q. I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...
A. 1 November 2010: Do you realize that many men could rightfully ask the same question about women?
It is difficult to find an honest and nice man because it is difficult to find honest and nice people. Period.... (read in full...)
Should I never accept calls from him again?
Q. Hey, I was dating a married man a few years ago. Not trying to break up a maarriage but because he said she cheated and they were getting a divorce. Well, the divorce never came so of course I tryed dating someone else after some years passed. ...
A. 31 October 2010: He was bad, but you have to face the fact that you wanted him there. So you're as much to blame here as he is.
I suggest you tell him that you see the relationship going nowhere, and that you're ending it. Be direct and say that it is definite... (read in full...)
He hurt my feelings when he said not tonight
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and we are getting along great. Normally we see each other 1 time a week since we live 30 miles apart and due to our work schedules. In addition to our regular jobs, we both have weekend part time ...
A. 31 October 2010: Maybe he was tired?... (read in full...)
Do women view penis size as a sign of worthiness?
Q. A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you ...
A. 31 October 2010: Some (a few) years ago the bunch of bastards I call friends and (not a bastard) me were all concerned about our height. We all grew, to different heights. The newer generations ate better (political upheavals notwithstanding), so they are now ... (read in full...)
He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!
Q. i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...
A. 31 October 2010: Yeah, why are you with Mr. Asshole at all?... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 31 October 2010: Cerberus, our friend here is highlighting that a human relationship has become an "administrative" thing. Laywers have made it their business (both in terms of money and meddling in somebody else's life), not yours.... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 30 October 2010: Good points.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!
Q. I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she ...
A. 27 October 2010: She was in the United States as a student, but her life is in Brazil. Now she's going back, and she's right in saying that she won't know what to do until she's back there. That means she might find that keeping a relationship with you is not the ... (read in full...)
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