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How should I propose to a girl?

Q.   I want to propose a girl but how? ...

A.   3 September 2007: try bring romantic does your girl like to be in a public place or quiet if so take her out to dinner sit her down and act casual and romantic before she comes put it on the end of a bread stick or somethink and offer her 1 if she says yes give it to ... (read in full...)

Do girls like chest hair?

Q.   Do girls like chest hair??...

A.   3 September 2007: yeah i expect so, its nice to have abit of somethink there instead of it being plain oviously not like a gorilas chest or anythink but a slight bit of hair makes a girl feel wamthend but as a few people have said it verifys hope i helped sara... (read in full...)

I was abused in the past and I found out my guy watches porn. What should I do or say about it?

Q.   I have been with my man for 7 years gonna get married well about 9 years ago i was abused for a sexually abused for a year he has always surported, me but now i have found that he watches porn when i go bed. it makes my skin crawl and he doesnt ...

A.   3 September 2007: hun i got abused iswell (sexualy) but you need to get over it ino its painfull but u will find if u ask a fraction of people if they watch porn they will say yes because its normal! its in the human nature....ino it isnt easy for u as uve gone ... (read in full...)

My girl wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex! What kind of person am I dealing with?

Q.   my girlfriend stated that she wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex. she owned boa constrictors in the past when she used to strip for a living. what kind of person am i dealing with? ...

A.   3 September 2007: its more like the fact that she wants hard sex and thinks your not giving it to her... iver leave her or try to make her happy y having sex (horney) try to make it abit more fun somethink she will look faword to doing hope this helped x... (read in full...)

My mates have all had experience with boys. Why does noone want me?

Q.   Im 15 and have had ZERO experience with a boy. All my friends have snogged boys, gave and been given oral gave handjobs, been fingered. And i have not done any of that. The most i have done is hugged a boy! I feel so repulsive. Im 5"1, 9st 5 and the ...

A.   3 September 2007: yos is right hun ;-) all though waiting isnt exacly the greatest thing to do you have to do it and then soon it will all be wirth it :-)then when you have the guy of your dreams and start a brill relationship with him have kids etc all your friends ... (read in full...)

My wife caught me talking to other women on dating sites.

Q.   ok well here goes. i used to be on all these dating sites. then i got married. but i continued to go on them well. the other day my wife caught me, and seen that i had been talking to these women. so she then accused me of lieing, cheating, and meet ...

A.   6 August 2007: i think flowergirl got it spot on lol... (read in full...)

Am i curvy or fat?

Q.   I am a 12 year old girl and i am unsure about my weight . i am 7stone and 8 pounds and i am 4 feet 11 inches. i know i am healthy but i not sure if i look good. Am i just curvy or am i almost fat? Also i know that when u you lose weight ur breasts ...

A.   6 August 2007: heya! im 12 to going up to yr 8 yeyy lol u shouldnt worry about it i had exacly the same problem about 2 months ago and it just went away the next to days u have nothink tto get worried about u proberbly r getting worried about nothink im sure ... (read in full...)

She's 15 and I'm 13 ... What should I do?

Q.   ok... ive bin lukin for this girl for 4 months after a weddin which looked fantastic at. i finally meet her online and realise she is almost 2 yr older than me. what should i do? i mean how long should i wait, should i check she has a boifriend ...

A.   6 August 2007: heya :-) my first opinion for you would be to get to no her first try to find out a bit more about her become her mate :-) once uve done that you can try asking her out the only way ur guna be able to find out if she likes u to is by asking her...... (read in full...)

Not sure if he just wants me for sex or rebound?

Q.   hi! i'm 15 and there is a lad i really like, he keeps asking me to sleep over his, but he said he wants to have sex with me. he says he is a virign, and so am i. but we are both even going out together. i asked him out and he reply, 'can u stay over ...

A.   6 August 2007: look hunny, all guys at that age are thinking about sex.... its not normal if they dont! there is to parts of this story... 1. might be that yes he is playing you because he feels like he is lonely because hes just broke up with his gf so on ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong in looking for sex through a website?

Q.   Anyone else done joined a site like this? I've just joint a adult site purely for meet up's for sex, I'm quite embarrassed about it as I am quite a good looking girl but I don't hardly go out due to most of my mates not being single, I've had...

A.   5 August 2007: NO... (read in full...)

The man I'm dating lives 320 miles away from me, can this work?

Q.   hi, it's me again. Long distance relationships can they work? The man I like lives about 320 miles away from me. He said it's not a problem but this concerns me ....

A.   15 July 2007: sure it can work but really you have to decide upon that because are you prepared to only see him a couple of days a year? You have to look deep inside your heart and say is he really worth it is he worth the trouble? if he is reach for him girl!!! ... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell us how to make me have an orgasm?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been intimate for 11 months now and i have not yet received the pleasure of having a orgasm. We have tried many different things and yet it has not happened. We were wondering if anyone could give us any suggestions on a...

A.   15 July 2007: i agree with yummymummy u need to experiment and find out wat u feel is plesurable and right ask ur bf if he could maybie do it a little bit harder for u and see if that works... mail me if u need any help xxx... (read in full...)

I want to take things to the next stage with him and have sex.. but, I'm a virgin...

Q.   Hey. I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He's soo gentlemanly and that's one of the many things I like about him. He can be quite shy and he always waits for me to make the first move and kiss him first. I want to take things to the ...

A.   15 July 2007: hey there is nothink to be worried about girl! all you hve to do it go bye the flow let him make the first step and eventualy u will get used to it and just find it as a natural thing... but at if any point u feel uncumfterbal with what he is doing ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to pay for sex as long as you're very careful?

Q.   I am male, who is mssing sex. is it okay to pay for a shag, as long s you are very careful.....

A.   14 July 2007: go for it boy you know you want sex but the question is do you really need to pay for it? I mean theres plenty more fish in the sea why use ur hard erned money to pay for a lady who dont give a s**t about you thats my advice i hope u will find... (read in full...)

I don't feel much when I'm being stimulated by hand; is it them, or me?

Q.   I'm 15 and have been fingered three times now, the first time i had no reaction, i bearly could feel that he was there, that was when i was 13, the second time i was 14, not comfortable with the guy atall and asked him to stop but he persisted and i ...

A.   13 July 2007: heya im only 12 iv neva bin fingered beofre but i will tell you one thing! maybie your not enjoying it because uno that its rong hun u were only 13 i mean dont you think thats a bit young maybie you should wait till ure a little bit older then it ... (read in full...)

When I masturbate, I have no problems, but when it comes to sex, I can't get hard...

Q.   Hi. I am a gay man recently out and every time I meet a guy and engage in sex I can't get hard. I have no problem masturbating on my own, in fact I love it. Can you help me please?...

A.   13 July 2007: if you are having problems having sex on ur own that might lead to the fact you feel that you like masterbating need to bring urself to tell the person ur trying to have sex with he will understand and hopefully help you out... ... (read in full...)

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