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writes:i know its not love, but why do i miss him so much, we broke up over 1 months ago but i cant stop thinking about him, we had a clean break, no contact with each other... I miss him so much i cry myself to sleep most nights thinking about the memories we shared, But how can i get over him? How can i move on?
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reader, amandanash  +, writes (30 July 2010):
you're welcome! buy the book Mars and Venus, Starting over. By John Gray. It's an awesome book and really life changing :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou i believe that could help me alot, thanks again :) x
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reader, amandanash +, writes (29 July 2010):
I am going through the exact same thing right now. My bf broke up with a month ago, and I can't seem to just let him go. He has already start dating a new girl and I can't seem to just let the past go anymore. I don't want to date him, but want to move on. What ive found really helps is going out and being with friend a lot and realizing that you have an amazing life without him, and that you have so many good people around you and so much potential in life. It will get easier every day, just don't get stuck in a rut about it. Write out your feelings on paper, as if you were writing a letter. Write about what you're afraid of, what you're sorry for, what you're sad about, and what you're angry about. And then write why youre feeling these ways and what you want and need and expect in each situation. You will learn a lot about the way you truely feel. I did this excersice last night and it really helped unveil some feelings I didn't know I was feeling. It will help the healing process in the end.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Make a rational decision to move on, and it will happen. You will cry and feel sad and all that, but your life will have a direction and one fine day you will wake up finding that you don't think about him anymore.
All the best.
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