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A little humor, en peut d'humour

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25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...

Any Harry Potter fans out there?

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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...

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I had melanoma on my penis and had to have it amputated. Ladies how would you deal with this if it happened to your partner?

Q.   Last year I was diagnosed with melanoma on my penis. To save my life, I had to have my penis amputated. So far I've recovered well. I've seen tons of trolls on sites claiming to be 18 and having penile cancer (virtually unheard of in young men) but ...

A.   19 April 2011: That's terrible! I'm so sorry... I commend you,though, for moving on with your life. It must be difficult. I am not sure if this is an option in ALL cases, but years ago, I read about penile reconstruction surgery... I read an account of a hor... (read in full...)

Have I lost my virginity? And are birth control pills effective?

Q.   how can i get to know whether i have lost my virginity??/is there any symptoms??? 3 days ago me and my boyfriend was engaged sexually and few drops of blood came out from me. im not sure whether i was really went through an intercourse? as the ...

A.   19 April 2011: Losing your virginity means having intercourse (penis in vagina). If it was in AT ALL, that counts as intercourse... You should talk to a doctor about birth control if you're going to be sexually active. Condoms are the only form of birth co... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the pain of a broken heart?

Q.   My boyfriends of a year just broke up with me. We were not working, my heart knew that. Please someone advice me with how I deal with this, I'm so heart broken I don't know what to do with myself. Does time really heel? How can I make the pain go ...

A.   18 February 2011: I've been there, and I remember feeling that I would never smile, experience joy, or be happy again... but I was wrong! Don't hold your feelings inside... if one of my friends were going through heartbreak I would do anything to help him or her. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more

Q.   Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...

A.   5 January 2011: I hope that your friend went to the police and pressed charges against this bastard of a boyfriend. I`m sorry but you deserve so much better than a scumbag like this. Your friend is a good person and this creep of a boyfriend is a danger to your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more

Q.   Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...

A.   5 January 2011: This guy is dangerous! He`s destroyed your property and attacked your friend. He`s an abuser, and you need to GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM!! What if he KILLS you in the future? ... (read in full...)

Help I got fired for kissing my boss Pleas HELP

Q.   Yesterday I got fired from my job for having an affair with my boss. I didn't expect it because we thought we were careful not to get caught but the video camero showed us kissing in the parking lot. has this happened to anyone else and how do I ...

A.   5 January 2011: What confuses me: They didn`t see you having an affair with your boss, they saw you kissing him. Having an affair means actually having SEX, and the fact that they saw you two kissing doesn`t PROVE you did that. Of course, if I saw two people ... (read in full...)

Why am I alone?

Q.   I am 19 years old i have a 1 year old daughter and have been single for a while ..im pretty but i feel like guys dont want me anymore :( so it makes me think of my ex he was abusive and im not getting back with him bt crosses through my mind is it ...

A.   4 January 2011: Your decision to avoid your abusive ex is a GOOD one. Let me congratulate you. Being alone can be a drag, but it beats being with an abusive ex. If you`re patient, then someone is likely to come along soon. The other poster had an excellen... (read in full...)

Merry Christmas, with an off-color queston!

Q.   This is NOT a relationship question. At least not yet :-). I'm just on a playful mood at the time, taking a break from work, and one of those weird and funny thoughts that give you the goosebumps came to my mind. I want to wish everyone a Merry ...

A.   30 December 2010: You crack me up, LePew! Have you thought about getting a patent?? Hurry up before someone steals your idea! Hugs, Sirena... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have sex without breaking the hymen?

Q.   hello i m 22 years old and i have a boyfrnd, he is also of 22. we had just oral sex. he wants to come more closer i mean anal sex. i want too but i have some problems. we r not sure that we will merry or not, we want to but depends on circumstances...

A.   28 December 2010: Condoms definitely provide SOME protection, but ABSTINENCE from sex is the only way to guarantee, 100%, that you won´t get pregnant. You lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse. Ocassionally a woman is born without a hymen, a... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant, and I'm 14!

Q.   Hi, im Maria and im from utah, and im 14 almost 15 years old, and i think i might be pregnant. I don no what i should do only 3 people no that i might be pregnant there all my best friends, i told my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend now) that i might be ...

A.   28 December 2010: I know that this is a really tough situation. What makes you think you are pregnant, first of all? You need to get medical attention if there is any possibility you are pregnant, for your health and for the baby´s health. Babies whose mot... (read in full...)

How much should I drink for my age and height?

Q.   New Year is coming up and my crush is trying to find someone who is having a party so we can both go together! It sounds fun but I havn't actually been to a proper party before with like alcohol and stuff cos I don't normally get invited and I've ...

A.   28 December 2010: No matter how old you are you should NEVER, EVER drive a car if you have had ANY alcohol or drugs. I think it would be a bad idea for you to drink any alcohol, period. First of all, you said yousrself that you´re not into drinking. Why d... (read in full...)

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

Q.   I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

A.   23 December 2010: You´re NOT crazy, you´re very brave and courageous... you´re over a decade younger than me but in spite of that, you make me want to be a better person. ... (read in full...)

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

Q.   I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

A.   23 December 2010: There is a really sweet, very beautiful song, by a band called Mago de Oz (have you heard of them'9, that I think would help comfort you. I don´t know if you speak Spanish, dear poster, but the fact that it´s in Spanish may not be a problem.... (read in full...)

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

Q.   I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

A.   22 December 2010: Wow. I am so sorry that you lost this girl, because this story is a really touching example of the meaning of true love. It breaks my heart that this relationship ended in tragedy, but it is not YOUR FAULT. You sound like an absolute angel from ... (read in full...)

How should I handle the crush I have on my boss?

Q.   Short story: I have a crush on my boss. How should I handle it? Long story: I have been working with a new boss for some time now, about 2 months. We work in retail together and I always have a lot of fun working with him. We joke around and make ...

A.   22 December 2010: I can understand why workplaces have those rules (because the employee dating the boss could easily get preferential treatment). However I think it`s stupid for companies to tell people what they can and can`t do in their private lives. You d... (read in full...)

So what do you think, am I gay?

Q.   Well.. I think I'm gay and as the title says I don't wanna be. First of all I'm a virgin. The thing is, I do notice when a girl is beautiful but when it comes to watching porn, I get aroused faster when I watch gay porn, I have even had some ...

A.   17 December 2010: Could you possibly be bisexual or pansexual? You say you`re aroused by gay porn, but you`ve been in love with a girl. Do girls turn you on sexually as well? There is nothing wrong with being gay... this is coming from a Christian btw. I have ... (read in full...)

What do you do when you are feeling down about yourself?

Q.   I have been feeling unconfident. I would like to know what you do when you are feeling down about yourself? I try looking at myself in the mirror; I feel good for a second then the insecurities comes back. I want to start feeling confident but don't ...

A.   17 December 2010: Loads of girls feel the way you feel! You should try some martial art, like karate... that is a great activity to build self esteem! Cheers...... (read in full...)

13 and never been kissed...

Q.   Hi I need help! I am a 13 year old boy and i've never kissed a girl, i have crushes sure but i don't want to ask them out because if they decide to kiss me or something i dunno what to do or how to kiss.. i know it's sad right plz don't laugh at me. ...

A.   15 December 2010: You`re only 13!! I was 15. There is a time and a place for everything. Don`t worry, it`ll happen when you`re not expecting it. How cheesy, I know... but true though.... (read in full...)

Does it really matter that he's shorter than me???

Q.   There's this boy i really like and he asked me out today i said that i would think about it and call him tonight, i really want to go out with him but he's shorter than me and i know everyone says that the boy has to be taller than the girl but does ...

A.   15 December 2010: A boy that you really like asked you out... it would be weird if you turned him down. His height is just a number! You don`t get a chance to be happy every day, don`t throw it away because you`re worried what metiche (nosy) people think. I am ... (read in full...)

Family won't accept him because of race

Q.   Okay i dont know what to do! I have a great boyfriend! But my family wont accept him because of race, i have just been made redundant now i dont know wether to move closer to where my bf lives wich is 2hrs away and get a job there, but my family ...

A.   10 December 2010: You don`t get many chances in life to be happy, especially when it comes to relationships. I think you need to put yourfamily`s prejudices aside and do some soul-seraching. Do you really love this guy? Does he love you? If the answer is YES, ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.

Q.   Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. ...

A.   9 December 2010: Get the hell out! Please, please listen to us. This guy could KILL you or someone close to you. Get away from him, cut off all contact and press charges against him. ... (read in full...)

Why do men cheat with nasty females?

Q.   I have been in two serious realationships both ended with them cheating on me. The problem is the female they choose to cheat with are nasty girls who don't care what they do or who they do it with. So my question is why men cheat with nasty girls...

A.   9 December 2010: Any woman who would knowingly sleep with a committed guy has absolutely no morals or conscience. A decent woman wouldn´t sleep with someone who is committed... nasty girls are all these guys can get. The decent ones stay the hell away from these ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.

Q.   Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. ...

A.   9 December 2010: Furthermore if he still has a drinking problem, he's a danger to others. What if he gets drunk and tries to drive home, striking and killing someone? He has already assaulted you and I imagine that he could go to jail for that. You could be ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.

Q.   Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. ...

A.   9 December 2010: He broke your nose- holy shit. He isn't a man, he's a dangerous scumbag with the temper of an immature child. He belongs in jail, because if he runs around free he is going to seriously injure, or kill someone, someday. You should report h... (read in full...)

For all women

Q.   Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...

A.   8 December 2010: It does benefit us, a lot! Thanks, Daniel!... (read in full...)

Secret relationship with much younger sister-in-law

Q.   I am 42 year old married man. I am very close to my 18 year sis-in-law. She is bubbly and jolly in nature. She is very fond of me. She allows me to hugg, kiss and touch her boobs. She often says she loves me.I too say same. We enjoy a flirting ...

A.   8 December 2010: Hell no!! Are you kidding? I can`t believe this is a real post... you KNOW that cheating is wrong, don`t you? The answer: If you have a conscience, then... no. ... (read in full...)

My fiance has an incurable form of cancer, how can I make his remaining time the happiest?

Q.   Okay so im only 19. I have been with my 32 year old fiance, matthew now for 4 years. We have always had the most amazing, honest, loving relationship you could imagine, we were planning to get married in 2013. We have the most beautiful little girl ...

A.   3 December 2010: I am so sorry... this question just breaks my heart, but I´m still glad that you came to us for help. I hope I don´t sound insensitive, but I would like to know if you have gotten a second opinion? When it comes to medical issues, always get a se... (read in full...)

Do I really not have adult rights at 18?

Q.   Do I really not have adult rights at eighteen? I went to the ER and they told me they needed my mom's signature. Then my mother told me she made an appointment at the gynecologist because I have irregular periods and told me the doctor will need to ...

A.   2 December 2010: I don´t see your country flag, but your legal rights depend on the country where you live. Where I live, you legally become an adult at 18. However, if you are on your parents´insurance responsibility, then I imagine that your parents would be... (read in full...)

How do I face them after our drunken threesome?

Q.   I feel so sad guilty and ashamed. Yesterday my hubby and me went out for drinks after work, we were having so much fun that we didn't want to call it a night so we went home and continue drinking and my best friend tagged along we were having a ...

A.   19 November 2010: I wouldn't say that alcohol makes you courageous, it compromises your judgement and makes you less inhibited. First of all, I don't think you should ever drink again... I am not trying to be mean but you just can't hold your liquor!! Being dr... (read in full...)

I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!

Q.   This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afgh...

A.   31 October 2010: I don`t have any statistics, but luckily C.Grant has done his homework. I don`t want to offend you and I´m not proselytizing but maybe it would help to talk to a pastor or priest, perhaps a military chaplain. Do civilians have access to military... (read in full...)

I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex

Q.   I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...

A.   31 October 2010: These feelings are gonna make you sick if you keep dwelling on them. I`m not sure if real demons, as in theology, are behind these feelings but these feelings of hatred and revenge have the power to destroy you. The best way to get revenge is to ... (read in full...)

Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?

Q.   I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just...

A.   30 October 2010: I don`t have any kids, but I can tell you Hollywood is full of it... drama sells.... (read in full...)

Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?

Q.   I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just...

A.   30 October 2010: I don`t have any kids, but I can tell you Hollywood is full of it... drama sells.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend started dancing at a strip club!

Q.   I know this is a long post but I don't have anyone I feel like I can talk too about this situation and I really hope some people here can read through this and tell me what they think. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months ...

A.   30 October 2010: If your girlfriend is in debt, there are other solutions that don`t involve stripping. She could call Dave Ramsey, call the United Way, or go to school and get a decent job. ... (read in full...)

I lost weight and now my husband thinks I'm cheating?

Q.   I been with my husband for almost nine years we have 2 wonderful sons. A couple of months ago i got hurt at work so i was at home doing nothing which i started gaining weight. My husband never told me oh ur fat. Evevery thing was going fine. Well i ...

A.   30 October 2010: ``they say guys think when their girl loses weight, she`s cheating...`` Who it this ``They?`` Nobody wants to feel badly about how they look! I´m older than you, and I`ve joined a gym and started eating fruit and vegetables from the market a... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"

Q.   What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...

A.   30 October 2010: It`s a vulgar, rude way to say that he took your virginity and broke your hymen. ... (read in full...)

I need to learn more about the Spanish language...

Q.   For this one I'll need the help of some native Spanish speakers (preferably Mexican Spanish). There's this girl that I have been out with a few times. She's from Mexico and even though her English is fluent there are times when she doesn't catc...

A.   27 October 2010: Hi, I am from Florida but I speak FLUENT Spanish and I know Mexican Spanish (note my flag). With all respect to my compatriotas, Mexican culture is more romantic... you totally have a chance with her, just remember that being romantic, loving, ... (read in full...)

Do women make camel toes to get attention?

Q.   Hi Im a guy and I was wondering if women know when they have camel toes or not? Or is it done intentionally to get guys to notice?...

A.   20 October 2010: That´s embarrassing!!... (read in full...)

Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?

Q.   This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this ...

A.   20 October 2010: I don´t understand how you can love someone and do something that would destroy them emotionally. I could never forgive an act of unfaithfulness. ... (read in full...)

One Year Anniversary Present?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ...

A.   5 October 2010: I don't have a bf, but whenever I want a present to be really special, I make something, have it personalised or give someone something that you can't get just anywhere. I brought my mom a cool abanico (fan) back from Spain (I went there last ... (read in full...)

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