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| | SirenaBlusera's profile:I came to Dear Cupid because of my broken heart, and some kind people helped me out. Now I'm here to help some other people out. I've learned many things the hard way in my life, but I have learned just the same, and because of that I'm in a position to impart some wisdom to others.
Music is my first love, and I changed forever when I realized this.
That was then this is now
Found my way back here somehow
I knew you'd have to let me go
I told you once I told you so
Take me down
You can hold me but you
Can't hold what's within
Pull me round
Push me to the limit
Maybe I may bend
But I know where I'm not going
I will not be broken
I will not be broken
I will not be...
Someone other than who I am
I will fight to make my stand
Cause what is livin' if I can't live free
What is freedom if I can't be me
Take me down
You can hold me but you
Can't hold what's within
Pull me round
Push me to the limit
Maybe I may bend
But I know where I'm not going
I will not be broken
I will not be broken
I won't let you near it
I will let my spirit fly
Fly
High
Oh take me down
Take me down
You can hold me but you
Can't hold what's within
Pull me round
Push me to the limit
Maybe I may bend
But we both know I'm not going
I will not be broken
I have a new avatar... for all you Harry Potter fans out there, the Sorting Hat sent me to Slytherin! Just thought I'd share that.
Just for fun, you can find out what house you belong in.
Here's the quiz:
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| Latest articles: A little humor, en peut d'humour
No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...
A. 19 November 2009: My heart is just breaking for you. No one deserves this.
You DO need to get away from him, and go to the police, and press charges. You don't want me to tell you to go to the police, because he's threatened you. I know that you're be afraid, ... (read in full...)
I have a date and I don't know what to talk about!
Q. ok i need help and pretty fast!! I just accepted this date from a guy i have liked for months and months. Well i don't know that much about him and previously on dates lets just say i suck at them. When i'm out with my friends im this bubbly outg...
A. 18 November 2009: Don't be nervous, just be yourself.
I can understand your fears and your doubts, but remember, that listening is important, as well. Ask him questions about himself, and look him in the eyes and listen to what he's saying, with interest... (read in full...)
I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.
Q. I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...
A. 18 November 2009: I know that it hurts, but trust me, this guy wasn't for you and you will heal, and move on. I've had my heart broken and I learned that, although you need love (and I'm sure you'll eventually find love), that a relationship with a man is not going ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?
Q. My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. ...
A. 18 November 2009: It's good that you're not smoking around the kids... secondhand smoke is potentially more dangerous than firsthand smoke.
Just a suggestion, but have you tried to quit smoking? This is your health, and so very important. I've never been on chemo... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 18 November 2009: 1. Because they have been deceived and believe the guy is single.
2. They know he's married, and have no morals.... (read in full...)
How do I introduce myself to the guy that caught my eye?
Q. so i like this guy and i have said hey to him a few times....i smile at him make eye contact all the usual stufft that a girl does when she like a guy...but i havnt tod him my name yet..so how do i introduce myself to him without looking like a ...
A. 18 November 2009: Don't be afraid! Just be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not for you. Just be friendly to him, at worst you'll have a new friend.
Who knows, he may even reciprocate your feelings. Just take the leap of faith, a... (read in full...)
Why won't any man have sex with me?
Q. I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...
A. 18 November 2009: Exactly where in the USA do you live?
In my hometown, it's unheard of to have sex with someone NOT related to you, lol.
Seriously, though, the most important thing is to save sex for the loving relationship. You sound like you have a lot of go... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Hey well-help,
I was just reading Yahoo news, and they have this article about the three sexiest men of the year. One of them is Brad Pitt. Some of the regulars on this page know this, but I think Brad Pitt is revolting.
It just proves that... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Everyone your age has something they feel self-conscious about.
I got taunted about having double joints. It doesn't bother me, I was grateful to be illness-free and not crippled. Sadly so many people are not so fortunate.
You're fine t... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: That boy that taunted you is ignorant.
Breast milk comes from the milk glands, which are the same size in ALL women.
A VERY small-chested woman can nurse her babies just as well as Dolly Parton.
Your friend, Jodie, is very rude. Te... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: Marriedlady, if you're referring to necrophilia... that would be strange. There are people who are into necrophilia, and I think it's gross, but I think this guy is in love with how this woman was in life, or how he imagines her to have been in ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?
Q. ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...
A. 18 November 2009: If he's had unprotected sex with all these girls, chances are high that he has a disease.
You can get sick the very first time you have sex. You could literally be putting your life and your health in danger.
If you abstain, you'll look back... (read in full...)
Is it bad to talk to yourself?
Q. Is it bad to talk to yourself? I dont do it in public but if I'm by myself such as in the car driving I usaully talk to myself. The reason I do it is because I dont have nobody else to talk to all my friends that were always ears have babies now ...
A. 18 November 2009: I sing to myself quite often.
If you realize that you're talking to yourself, and you aren't having hallucinations, then I don't think it's bad. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: It doesn't sound insane, but you have to be realistic.
If you allow yourself to dwell on your love for this woman, and fall for her, or what you imagine her to be, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
Many people have had "amores plat... (read in full...)
Any tips for losing weight quickly?
Q. hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...
A. 18 November 2009: Take up martial arts, if that's an option. It's an expensive sport, but it's worth it. A lot of places let you have a trial class or two to see how you like it.
I had really low self-estemm and I was disgusted with my body, but I took up karat... (read in full...)
I am sweating too much!
Q. i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...
A. 17 November 2009: The other aunts are correct.
There is a condition called "hyperhidrosis," and the primary symptom is sweating profusely. It's not life-threatening, just annoying, but the good news is that there's something than can do about it. You need to ... (read in full...)
I am sweating too much!
Q. i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...
A. 17 November 2009: The other aunts are correct.
There is a condition called "hyperhidrosis," and the primary symptom is sweating profusely. It's not life-threatening, just annoying, but the good news is that there's something than can do about it. You need to ... (read in full...)
My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!
Q. i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...
A. 17 November 2009: Have you talked to a counselor about this? Don't get me wrong; we're glad to listen to your problems... but something tells me that a marriage counselor could really help. You need to tell him how you feel, and open his eyes up to the effect it ... (read in full...)
My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?
Q. My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they...
A. 17 November 2009: Nothing wrong with being a Christian, or a non Christian; If you are a Christian, though, why aren't you dating a guy with Christian values? There are plenty of nice, wonderful decent guys who are Christian, Jewish, Hindu or even completely ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: Anon, you say it's "unlikely" that pregnancy will occur.
First of all, you can easily get pregnancy from having sex. It's not unlikely.
Even if it WERE unlikely, there is STILL a chance!! As devastating and tragic as teenage pregnanc... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: Any time you have sex, there is a chance of pregnancy occurring. It's not fair to bring a child into the world and not be able to provide it with the best of everything.
Imagine that your girlfriend did get pregnant, from the perspective of the b... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 17 November 2009: If he hit you, he belongs in jail. What are you doing with him??? GET OUTTA THERE!!!!
Don't raise your voice, shout, or argue with him. It's not going to do you any good. The only thing that will is to get the hell out of this relation... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???
Q. This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...
A. 17 November 2009: Everybody needs exercise. Your body NEEDS exercise, even if you're at your ideal weight. In order to stay healthy, you have to take care of your body. It's a proven fact that regular exercise drastically reduces your chances of getting sick down ... (read in full...)
I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?
Q. Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...
A. 17 November 2009: I think it would help if you had someone to talk to.
If you're feeling sad for no reason then you could be depressed. It would be a good idea to get this checked out.
You say that you sometimes have bouts of crying for no reason... are yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend dumped me and now I feel useless
Q. i was depressed when i met my first and only boyfriend, and he sorta made me feel better, lifting me a little bit along the way. but after five months of being together, he dumped me--- and for the stupidest reason. since he hates mo now, i feel s...
A. 10 November 2009: Your self-worth shouldn't depend on what a guy thinks about you. You need to have an identity and passions apart from a relationship. It's special to share your life with someone, and I understand that you need love... but a relationship is never ... (read in full...)
My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?
Q. Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going ...
A. 10 November 2009: Nearly everyone feels insecure as a teenager. I imagine that your friends treat you cruelly because they're feeling insecure, too, and you are a convenient scapegoat.
It sounds like your self-esteem is really in the gutter. You ARE special ... (read in full...)
My bossy boss!
Q. I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...
A. 10 November 2009: That sounds really stressful and I would like to help, but could you be more specific? What kinds of things did she do? Can you give me some examples? ... (read in full...)
Why did this girl cancel her hair appt. with me to go with a stranger?
Q. Evening all! This isnt a love question but im hoping you might have some advice. I am a qualified hairdresser and worked in a salon for a few years before settling down in to an office job-more pay and less hours. When some of my colleagues fou...
A. 9 November 2009: She sounds really rude. I wouldn't take it personally. Some people are ungrateful. ... (read in full...)
Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?
Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...
A. 8 November 2009: Unfortunately, you can get an STD from oral or anal sex as well as intercourse. It's very dangerous to engage in these activities. While only abstinence will protect you 100%, condoms can lower the chance of getting sick. ... (read in full...)
Am I shallow because I like men, based on their looks?
Q. I need some advice/opinions/anything on this issue I have. As long as I can remember I’ve been really attracted to blond/blue eyed/boyish looking men (Brad Pitt when he was young, Jensen Ackles, Patrick Wilson type guys). I’ve ‘chased’ a few guys in ...
A. 7 November 2009: I don't understand what's so special about Brad Pitt? Even when he was younger, I asked myself the same thing. I don't mean to insult anyone, but if I were a cat, I would bury Brad Pitt in kitty litter.
LePew makes a good point... are you with... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...
A. 7 November 2009: No WAY!! Is this for real?
Yes, you should tell the parents. ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
A. 7 November 2009: Teachers that have sex with their students SHOULD go to jail.
If teenagers want to have fun, they should be playing video games or something, not having sex. ... (read in full...)
Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?
Q. Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...
A. 7 November 2009: Apparently Monica Lewinsky wasn't bothered by it. At least that's what I hear. :)... (read in full...)
I just can't STOP looking at porn! Help!
Q. So I've tryed to stop looking at porn and porn videos ill stop but then go right back. how could I stop it?...
A. 4 November 2009: It's a question of willpower, pure and simple.
I love tacos al pastor and crave them all the time. I often wonder if food can be addictive. If I were to eat tacos al pastor every time I felt like it... I'd be as big as a house.
I go to... (read in full...)
Would I be overstepping the mark with a birthday card?
Q. Hi! I just have a bit of a small issue. I am friends (very close friends, but I want it to be more) with a guy, we are like two peas in a pod, and it is his birthday soon. I really like him a lot, but he has a girlfriend. Would it be inappropri...
A. 1 November 2009: I'm going to play the Devil's Advocate, and may get some flack for it, but this is my opinion:
It would be wrong of you to try to break them up while he's committed to her, but it would also be wrong of her to expect him to turn his back on your ... (read in full...)
Advice needed. I think I'm in love with my best guy friend but he does not love me back
Q. I know this is a repeated question and it is quite long, but please bear with me. I have the most wonderful guy friend you could ever ask for. He is my best guy friend, and I love him dearly. He is always there for me when I am down, he tells me ...
A. 1 November 2009: You've got to tell him how you feel.
It's scary, I know. But if you hold back then eventually you'll regret it. If the worst happens, you'll be ok, I promise... at least you'll have your answer and won't have to deal with regrets.
Que te ... (read in full...)
He asks me to split the check - is he really interested in me?
Q. I'm a little old fashioned and always had the idea that when a man is truly interested in you he pays for dinner. I've been on four dates with this guy and each time he ask to split the check. Is this guy really into me?...
A. 1 November 2009: It's possible he's interested but in my opinion he needs to learn some manners. He invited YOU out to spend your own money? Puhleeeease. I'd be insulted. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?
Q. im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...
A. 1 November 2009: The only way to lose your virginity is to have sexual relations. In other words, it requires a penis.
You can't get pregnant from masturbation, and you can't contract HIV or an STD either.
I could be wrong but I don't recall Jesus mentioning... (read in full...)
Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???
Q. I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, ...
A. 1 November 2009: It's not common, but it is possible. When to have sex for the first time is a personal decision, and virginity, or lack thereof, does not make a person superior or inferior.
I'm not sure where he's from, but in some cultures, it's common f... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 1 November 2009: You deserve better than this, I'm sure. ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: When you make a mistake, you have to swallow your pride and admit, "I screwed up," and face the consequences.
Losing someone's trust is a huge mistake. If you do this, then it's your responsibility to do whatever it takes do patch things u... (read in full...)
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