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I'm just scared that she will run and return to being single.

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months. For the past month it seems like shes a different person though. I could feel her become distant and slip away. She was always so loving and caring. She finally told me the other week ...

A.   10 December 2010: I'm going through the exact same situation as you are man, and all I can really tell you is stay strong and be really really and I can't stress it enough really patient. I don't know if you guys talk at all or contact each other still, but if you ... (read in full...)

Why do cheaters feel entitled to lie, sneak and hurt others?

Q.   Hi all, when I read through questions and answers I read about people cheating on others (my ex did it to me) It literally tore me apart. But my question is; If you are a cheater, Why do you do this? Why can't you get out of a relationship honestly ...

A.   29 November 2010: I think in the back of cheaters mind's they know it's a bad thing to do, but it's almost human nature for people to do bad things. Cheating, is something that I think even someone were to call that person out, they probably won't stop, just because ... (read in full...)

She is my everything! How do I win her back?

Q.   hi me and my GF of which i have a child to, have gone on a break. we were together 18 months prior to the break. all 18 of which i feel i have done no wrong apart from the last few weeks where we have been auguing mostly because i instigate them ...

A.   26 November 2010: Oh my goodness, bro, I can completely relate to how you are feeling and the emotions you might be going through with right now. I'm in the same situation as you, things were going perfectly fine, no arguments nothing (we don't have kids), then next ... (read in full...)

I read his email, found out he cheated and now he says he doesn't trust me!

Q.   My boyfriend was away on course for 2 months in a different city. He was drinking a lot, very stressed and meet an old female friend he know 6 years ago on the course. When he arrived home, he very distance too me. My gut told me something happen .I ...

A.   24 November 2010: i don't mean to sound blunt or anything, but I'm a guy, I had almost the same situation as your's except! I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, I bashed her on msn to our group of friends. And I'm not saying what I did was justified because it wasn't ... (read in full...)

He's using me and won't break up with her!

Q.   I'm so confused he's with her but wants me and he's my step cousin we kiss (on the lips)but I love him and can't get over him I really don't like anyone else hes with her then he doesn't know why but won't break up with her is he using me cuz he ...

A.   22 November 2010: wow you're in a pretty hairy situation to tell you the truth. In my opinion, and this is just from what you've typed, he's using you. You said it yourself "he said she can't kiss but I'm a good kisser", basically because his girlfriend isn't a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is struggling and I don't know how to help him?

Q.   Ok. I've known my boyfriend for almost four years, we have been dating almost 2 of those years and we are very close. I had my first son six months before we started dating and I no longer am as slim as I would like to be or used to be. He has pack...

A.   10 November 2010: i think the best solution to that is to tell him to stay positive, give him positive vibes. - Encourage him to hit the gym, 3 out of the possible 5 working days and maybe the other 2 days just go for a jog. - Join him too on the jogs or gym ... (read in full...)

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