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Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

Q.   I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...

A.   2 July 2008: Wait!!! There is a time and a place for sex, but sex without love doesn't mean anything. I know what it's like to suffer from tension, I'm a little older than you and I've waited for so long but if I were to find someone I love, and I've had all ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of a boy without making him feel bad?

Q.   there's this guy that really likes me but i don't like him. He always write me messages and asks me do i think he's unattractive but i said no because i didn't want to make him feel bad. He is really starting to get annoying because now it's the ...

A.   2 July 2008: I think that you should tell him that you think he is attractive, and want to be his friend, but that you are just not ready for a relationship. It doesn't mean that he is unattractive. You don't base a relationship on what someone looks like. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with him - But he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I've loved my best friend of five years for a long time, and I used to think that he was interested in me as a girlfriend. We live in different countries but I eventually plan on returning to his country and I always hoped we'd wind up toge...

A.   1 July 2008: That's a very cruel answer, to tell me to grow up? What the hell?? I'm 29 and I've been there for him, and this spoiled little brat came and stole him from me and ruined my only chance at happiness. If you can't comfort jme, don't bother ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with him - But he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I've loved my best friend of five years for a long time, and I used to think that he was interested in me as a girlfriend. We live in different countries but I eventually plan on returning to his country and I always hoped we'd wind up toge...

A.   1 July 2008: I'm not trying to be mean but I don't want some American man. I want a latino. I can't love some guy from my culture.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with him - But he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I've loved my best friend of five years for a long time, and I used to think that he was interested in me as a girlfriend. We live in different countries but I eventually plan on returning to his country and I always hoped we'd wind up toge...

A.   1 July 2008: I can't love anyone else! I've always loved latin men and wanted a latino or hispanic guys. I'm just not interested in guys from my own culture. It's just not fair that some other girl should get joy from him when i've loved him for so long.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with him - But he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I've loved my best friend of five years for a long time, and I used to think that he was interested in me as a girlfriend. We live in different countries but I eventually plan on returning to his country and I always hoped we'd wind up toge...

A.   1 July 2008: What's wrong with me? Why wasn't I good enough? Could he love me back in the future?... (read in full...)

My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!

Q.   i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...

A.   1 July 2008: When you're attracted to someone you tend to see this person in a different light. He's cheating on his wife, and he isn't trustworthy. If there's no trust, then there's no way to have a loving relationship... how can you believe anything this guy ... (read in full...)

My husband has severe anger and control issues, will this ever change?

Q.   Help, my husband of only 1 1/2 years is very controlling, he does not let me have any friends and has even made me give up my best friend. He swears at me and calls me names on a daily basis and even insults my kids. I don't want to be without him ...

A.   29 June 2008: I am just aching for all the pain you're in! I'm glad that you wrote to us (aunts) for advice, and I don't mean this to sound like a "knee-jerk" reaction but I think you should see a counselor or a minister or priest. No one should ever give up ... (read in full...)

How can I get a latin guy to notice me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I know very few people like me, who are attracted to people of a different culture or background. I'm an American and Floridian of mixed British and European ...

A.   28 June 2008: That's okay Daniel, if you find it let me know, please! It sounds so sweet!! Suena muy dulce! :)... (read in full...)

How can I get a latin guy to notice me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I know very few people like me, who are attracted to people of a different culture or background. I'm an American and Floridian of mixed British and European ...

A.   26 June 2008: Muchas gracias Daniel! Me dio risa (Carito no es el unico que se siente nostalgia jejeje)...... (read in full...)

My large breasts are a real hassle...should I get a breast reduction?

Q.   This is kinda awkward 2 ask without sounding totally full of myself, but here goes. I have really big boobs, which i hate by the way, and my friends boyfriends always comment on. It makes me uncomfortable. They kinda look fake because im slim. They ...

A.   24 June 2008: If you do decide to get a breast reduction, do it for yourself and not because you want to impress someone else. Do it to make yourself happy. A word of caution, I would talk to a series of board certified plastic surgeons, get the British medical ... (read in full...)

How can I get a latin guy to notice me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I know very few people like me, who are attracted to people of a different culture or background. I'm an American and Floridian of mixed British and European ...

A.   24 June 2008: Hola daniel, Muchas gracias por contestar mi pregunta, no es que he cerrado la puerta pero se en mi corazon que los demas no me atraen, no es tanto la aparencia fisica pero los latinos son mas romanticos, carinosos, calidos. Pero, gracias... (read in full...)

How do I break up with my violent boyfriend?

Q.   How do I break up with my boyfriend? Bear in mind: 1. He really really loves me and this'll break his heart 2. I cheated on him, he doesn't know yet and I don't know if I should tell him because he said he'd kill me if I cheated 3. He gets viol...

A.   24 June 2008: You should get away from him!!!! As long as you're with this guy, you're in danger. Cheating is wrong, but nothing justifies a man hitting a woman, and he might really harm you. You say that he loves you, but if he really did, then he wouldn't ... (read in full...)

Are there other girls out there like me?

Q.   This is going to be a strange one. Im a 19yr old female. Im what my bf calls borderline nympho. I'm able to have multiple orgasms very quickly (within minutes). I've really truly squirted as well, not pee, but a strange fluid. Is this norm...

A.   24 June 2008: I don't think that's considered abnormal.... (read in full...)

Should I let what people think of me including what my family thinks of me get in the way of having sex?? I'm 14

Q.   Hello im 14 and me and my bf want to have sex but its a long distance relationship so we wanna have fone sex till we can actually meet up and have sex. I'm worried that my parents will be disappointed in me for loosing my virginity at 14 ive ...

A.   24 June 2008: Your parents are trying to protect you, possibly from serious trouble. Some of the consequences to having sex are severe, and your parents don't want you to suffer. If you're not ready to commit to someone, or to cope with a pregnancy, you're not ... (read in full...)

How can I get a latin guy to notice me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I know very few people like me, who are attracted to people of a different culture or background. I'm an American and Floridian of mixed British and European ...

A.   24 June 2008: Aclaro que hablo espanol ;) Oh yes I speak Spanish... I think that's one reason I like latin men, I really would like someone who can talk to me in Spanish, it seems like a little thing but it means a lot to me... (read in full...)

What do women prefer in intercourse?

Q.   do women prefer slow intercourse,fast hard intercourse or deep penetration? ...

A.   29 May 2008: I don't have relations but don't dismiss my answer on that basis. I have so much sexual tension and the thing that I am just longing for is for someone to stroke my hair and hold me and tell me that they love me while looking into my eyes. I want ... (read in full...)

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