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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I too jealous of what my boyfriend watches?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We are really close. He would never ever cheat on me. Yet I still have jealousy issues. I feel like my jealousy is severe. Like some other women, I don't like when my boyfriend watches TV because I know he ...

What is the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Dear all, Can anyone please give advice from experience about the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship? I've been with my BF for over a year now and I've had a bad feeling about his female work co...

Boyfriend lied.. how to trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. He is my first, but he has had one long term relationship before me. We have had a great relationship in every aspect and nothing has threatened it so far. Well.. i admit sometimes it does feel ...

A girl at work told me that she's been having an affair with my dad, she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!! How will I ever cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Recently I found out off my friend [a girl in work] that she's been having an affair with my dad. What she said next was the kicker - she told me she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!!! I feel sick, disgusted and up...

He had sex with me and now that I havent heard from him, my fear is coming true

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - This guy i've been seeing for a while now, i felt really comfortable with him and i've known for ages i wanted to sleep with him, just i wanted to be sure that he was interested in me and not wanting me for sex. So it's been over 3 months, which ...

Do people somehow get a free pass to behave less well because they have an ex and kids? While those without an ex and kids are expected to come second?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi aunts. Can I have your opinion on this: If one partner in a relationship is divorced with kids and the other never married no kids, what responsibility does the divorced partner have in the relationship? Is it less than if he had no kids or ...

How can I break up with my internet buddy? Shall I just tell him the truth, even if he thinks I used him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi there, my problem is that I started internet dating and met this guy and slept with him on our first date because I wanted to show my ex-bf that I could and had moved on. This guy is nice but now he is still around, he told me he loves me and w...

Can anyone help me feel better about this? My heart is broken over our breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My first love and I broke up a month ago. We had been together for 2 years and even lived together. We broke up because we both have issues, but mainly because he wasn't ready to be with one person forever and because he was in denial about be...

I'm of Indian descent. Why do white guys want a relationship with me but ask for it to be a secret? It hurts me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Why is it that so many of the white guys I know that want a relationship with me wants one in secret? I'm tired of a guy saying I have a thing for Indian woman but no one can know about it. In public they would much rather be seen with someon...

Why can't I keep a friendship going? When I get closer the friendship falls apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I seem to have trouble keeping friendships. In the past year alone i have lost two close friends whom i did consider to be bestfriends. I feel like the longer i spend time with a person the farther we drift. I have friends who are not so c...

Is he just trying to delay things more? I wanted something more permanent. He's got excuses ready (for why not) and I'm sick of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 49 and I am 43. We have been dating for 2 1/2 years. We have for the last several months spoken a little bit about getting married. We each have houses about 40 miles from each other, dogs, kids, jobs, the usual. It is ofte...

He seems unfazed by our break up. Why can't he accept that I've broken up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend seems unfazed by our break up. It has been a little over a month now and he has been sending me texts every now and then and I have just been ignoring him. He sent me a text today and we ended up chatting on yahoo messenger. I never re...

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

Why does she keep on asking me about my Gf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - This girl I work with continuously asks me about my relationship. She (and I) were a little bit flirty with each other for a while but I know she has a husband so I never persued anything. Any way I started dated another girl about a few months ago ...

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me...