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Archived questions from: 29 September, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I've pointed out the red flags but feel like my g/f never gives me a clear answer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So homecoming is coming up. I'm not going, i dont really like dances. But my gf is, and im really scared she going to be dancing on other girls since i'm not their with her. My friends keep telling me ,they see her playing with other girls. She ...

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My first serious relationship. But many anxieties:( Did you go through anything like this? What helped? What didn't help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm currently in my first serious relationship, and have been finding it very hard to settle into things. I love my boyfriend very much but it has taken me a while to trust him, how to balance my relationship around my life appropriately, how to a...

LDR - Is he taking me for granted or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy online around 6 months ago, we are both mature people so I think we both knew what we were doing when we got into this LDR. I let him know about my health which is a severe neurologic condition from day one. He says he loves and ador...

Is our "sex talk" just healthy acting out, or is it going a little too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have enjoyed a fantastic relationship for the past 15 years. The problem is, we have been together for 17. The past couple years has been a little more up and down, but hopefully not something that we can't work through. It could be t...

My problem is low self-esteem and low confidence. But can I fix it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - It seems like the root of my problems is low self-esteem/confidence. I think I have gotten a lot stronger, especially with the help of my boyfriend... but how can I make sure that my doubts don't keep coming up in my mind and affecting our rela...

I need some suggestions to help me understand why this is happening? I'm having some communication difficulties with a guy I met.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So there's this guy. I met him about 3 months ago on a friday at an event. It was a big weekend with tons of events and we kept bumping into each other. We talked about many things and really connected. A few days latter I found him on facebook...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...