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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Respecting and trust in a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I have two questions about relationships. What is truly respecting someone? How? and.. What is truly trusting someone? Do they have to earn it or do you just have to learn how to etc...? I need some advice on what the two really mean....

I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...

My son's father seems to want me back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My son's father and i have been apart for about 4 years.. he left without notice when our son was a baby.. we have talked about getting back together many times but neither of us worked toward that common goal.. a day before our son's birthday he ...

Same problem is rearing its ugly head again and I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for thirty years. About 20 years ago my husband had a three year relationship with another woman that caused me to have a breakdown. I have had trust issues ever since. He has since had what he says is a friendship with ...

Should I give up on tough love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - im so in love with a girl i told her how i feel about her,but she is giving me a hard time the thing is that she tells me that she wanna know if she is trully commiting her self to a right guy,she first wanna feel the same as i do feel about her but ...

I don't know how to get over the shame and humiliation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Dear anyone I've been married for nearly 30 years and weve had our ups and downs. It turns out my ex to be hubby has been a secret cross dresser all of our married life. he has hidden it so well that i didn't have a clue until he came out and told...

I am a bit jittery about being intimate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...

My boyfriend is more focussed on his sister in law than our wedding plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Hey.. I am 19 yrs old girl, having trouble in understanding my bf whom i am dating from almost 2 yrs. He was my best friend and now bf. Things were cool before but now i feel he has changed. We were talking yesterday about our wedding plans when sud...

My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?...

Would him showing his friends naked pics of me be a deal breaker?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

17 October 2010 (?) - I just found out my boyfriend of 2yrs showed a bunch of his friends and co-workers pictures of my breasts that he and I took during our first year of dating. I don't know at what point he showed these pictures--possibly during a big fight...or ...

Since he dumped me he stalks my facebook page

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I need big help. I met a charming fellow on a dating site a year ago and it seemed we really hit it off but there was something about him that didn't sit quite well. One week he aadored me and the next he would unexplainedly treat me like crap and ...

I don't want to have to accept this child

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26 year old female married for 4 years now to my husband. We have a 4 and 1/2 year old daughter as well as a 3 year old daughter. Yesterday, I found out that due to a one night stand with another woman, there is now a 5 yr old little girl ...

I am 21 and not married yet but can see lots of problems ahead

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 21-years-old and we've been together for 5 years. We have a precious two-year-old son together...but I don't think I'd still be with him if we didn't have a kid. We've been talking about marriage since we first got tog...

He said I was "not the one" and then had sex with me anyway

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up . we had a nice dinner and he said i was not the "one" however he kept saying he loves me and wants to be my friend. when we left the restaurant we ended up having sex in the parking lot. he still kept saying how ...

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told ...

I am sick of being single, but too shy to ask guys out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - Im really sick of being single. And Im shy and never been good around men. I dont wanna ask them out and then have them have a girlfreind or soemthign. It makes me really normal. what do you think that I should do...

On again off again for five years but I can't let him go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4946 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid my ex and i have been on and off for five years. everytime he is the one that breaks up with me, but we always get back together with in a year or two. Both of us have been with others, him more than me, but i always compare other gu...

How can I put my girlfriend at ease and let her know she can trust me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - My girlfriend is really quiet and shy. She's explained to me why (childhood experiences relating to abuse and fitting in pressures). And I'm totally understanding of that. I just want to know what would be the best approach of getting her to trust ...