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writes:im so in love with a girl i told her how i feel about her,but she is giving me a hard time the thing is that she tells me that she wanna know if she is trully commiting her self to a right guy,she first wanna feel the same as i do feel about her but know she say if i trully love her why cant we be friends cause im stupid i denied it and say i can be her friend and be her good boyfriend so now she say i only think about my feelings what about her feelings,my question is must i give up on her or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Tell her you care about her feelings as well, but that it would be extrememly difficult for you to be friends with her when you have such strong feeling for her because you dont want to end up heart broken if she decides that she doesnt want you.
If you are prepared to take things slow while this girl and see what happens then let her know that you will take things slow until she is ready to make up her mind.
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reader, kkkay  +, writes (17 October 2010):
Only you know whether you should give up on her or not. If you truly love the girl and you believe that you could get a chance with her one day, then don`t give up. If you act like a good friend to her then she`ll realise how great you are and would want to give you a chance but it would take some time. It`s really up to you. Your going to have to be patient.
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