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Archived questions from: 29 April, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Please tell me if you can think of anything I can do to try and make up for what I did.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - About 4 and a half months ago my wife cheated on me. The affair had been going on for almost two months before I found out. When I found out I instantly forgave my wife and asked her to stay with me. She was going to leave me for him. However he ...

We agreed not have watch porn, now I've seen he's been searching it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend told each other that we would not watch porn when we weren't around each other - a mutual agreement... However, I have watched porn once and literally by accident just now, I have seen on his past searches that he has been loo...

My husband revealed my secrets and completely broke my trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have always been in some ways disliked by my family in law over the last 15 years and for the last 5 years I have removed myself from their insulting comments. I have not once expected my husband to cut any ties that would be wrong and have ...

He dumped me, I went on a date, now we're back together but he keeps throwing it in my face!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Here is my situation – my boyfriend and I live together and we each have one child from a previous marriage (ages 3 ½ and 2). We have been together for about a year and a half now. In September (prior to us moving in together – we moved in ...

My boyfriend told his lover that I was a homeless transient who slept on his couch!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend through my brother in law and he came from NC all the way to MO to meet me. We fell in love and he wanted me to move to NC with him. I quit my job that I had for a long time and left my family and friends to be with him. ...

To all married men who have cheated.....please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I know I may be asking you to step outside your comfort zone here, but I'm sure you'll be doing more than just ME a favor by answering these few (not so)simple questions as HONESTLY as possible. What makes you cheat? (Of course everyone has thei...

Pretty obvious she has been cheating but I cant bring myself to break up with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ive been with a girl for a month or so (known her for alot longer) but recently ive had my suspicions that she might be cheating on me. Things like saying she was at a friends because she wasnt feeling well and needed to stay with her(i heard guys ...

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very muc...

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have ...

He slept with someone else after we broke up and I can't shake it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I am a twenty-two year old, single female whom just earned her Bachelor's in English. This past Fall, I started work at a local high school where the majority of faculty men are either already married with nearly grown children or in some way ...

My heart wants to work this through but my mind tells me different... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 3 months cheated on me. I found this out recently when his 'girlfriend' called me after an apparent argument they had and tattle-taled on their affair. I was crushed! He admitted to their relationship, (supposedly an old ...

My wife of 20 years wants a threesome...I may want a divorce!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for twenty years. she would like to have a threesome or swap with a couple. When she told me this i was shocked and hurt. i would like someone to help me understand this. She is forty im forty ...