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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there any way to learn to separate myself from her bad days in a healthy manner? One where I'm not abandoning her yet I'm still looking out for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I don't always know how to deal with my girlfriends depression. Some days, she's really happy and easy to be around, while other days, she gets in this deep depression and I don't know how to deal with it. She's on antidepressants ...

We've been together so long at this point I don't want to give up, but I am worried the love won't come back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We hit a rough patch when I lost my job, it lasted about 6 months. He was borderline emotionally abusive about my lack of job. He would panic and verbally attack me to deal with it. There was no reason to ...

I never slept with anyone or did anything more than kissing, I want to move in with my boyfriend but the past is haunting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - Hi there I am tormented. Sorry if this is long but i want to explain everything. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. In the beginning things weren't good. We argued A LOT. He played computer games and neglected me or would leave me...

Is anyone staying in a relationship because the economy is so bad right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I was just wondering if there are people in relationships that are staying in them purely because the economy in the US is in the tank right now. I know my cousin is. She can't stand her husband but she said she would be suffering financially if ...

Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in ...

Girlfriend wants to adopt a child, am I selfish to object?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of about three years and I have a great relationship. We both have younger children from past marriages so we have agreed we will not live together at least until the children are grown. Neither of us is interested in remarrying, at ...

He thinks I have anger issues but no one else I know does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I just wondered if any women have had a situation where a man has accused them of being 'angry' as in inherently angry, when almost no one else that they know has ever said anything remotely like this? I recently had a situation in which a man w...

I found his ad on casual sex sites but thought he was against it!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been with my current boyfriend for about 7 months now. About a month ago, I was using his iPad to purchase Christmas presents and I found a site bookmarked called "Forgetdinner". I was curious so I entered the site and it turn...

Why can't men treat a good woman right, be faithful and stop that wondering eye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman married 25 years and two children. I married my high school sweetheart, who was a flirt... He cheated on me 17 years ago, and last year... I don't know about all the other years, but I have doubts. He will never admit that ...

Do you say goodnight to each other or do you sometimes forget?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - My fiancé got upset that I didn't say goodnight to him. He wanted me to work on my project which I did late into the night. He was still up and in another area of the house when I decided I was really tired and I went to bed. He woke me up and s...

We have a long history together and I love him but I don't know where this is all leading to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I, we were childhood friends. We grew up together, my ma used to babysit him and we went to church and school together. When we were kids we'd have movie nights and we would stay up watching until 4 am. We were really close. ...

She's always got excuses not to spend time with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - So I met a girl after ending a 10 year relationship. The new girl is much younger than me and she started the flirting and all that sweet stuff. So I really thought she was into me. We've been seeing each other for 8 weeks now. We live far apart but ...

S going NC out of the blue considered childish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - A girl I was dating, and that was very into me about two months ago seems to have lost interest in me. She never said so explicitly, but it's obvious. She no longer initiates conversation, takes a lot longer to reply to my texts and is way more dry ...

Caught my Girlfriend answering ad on craigslist.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I know it was deceitful but I created a fake ad on craigslist to see if my girlfriend would answer and she did. I did this once before and she answered and this was the second time. I replied back and pretended to this other guy and she flirted and ...