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writes:Not sure sex buddy or more?I was living in Sydney and meet a guy who was nice, and would all ways bump in to him in the most random places and call me at random times,but like me had commitment issues. For months we would hook up on a night out and occasionly when we were sober, but it was all prety much just sex. Then i started to have feelings for him...but pushed him away in saying things i didnt mean like the whole "i dont want a bf topic" Then i found out he saw some one else and i got angry and called it quits.But then a few months later we bumped into each other again and started hooking up.He said he did that as i told him i didnt want a bf and that i would all ways abuse him when i was drunk.we had a few fights but would all ways end up hooking up. He had to go to Bris for a few months...i felt sad and wished i could be more open but on the other hand deep down i knew i had to get away, and a job offer bounced up so i moved to melbourne ...the other day he messaged me and started small talk then gave me his landline and said to call him more...im not sure, i dont want to as i know i have massive feelings for him and think i should just try move on but i do think about him all the time. Should i call him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks girls!! you have been great help!i think ill wait for another month and if i still feel the same will call him :)
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reader, almc  +, writes (10 March 2011):
YES!! You should call him and tell him how you feel.. That's a must, he might feel the same way, and that's the best thing to do. But don't just sleep with him, tell him you want to have something with him, and not be with other people. But it sounds like, you like him, and he likes you too. So give it a shoot, and if you don't want to tell him how you feel on the phone, the computer is always better. You never know what you can have with him if you don't ask. Good luck and let me know how it goes ::):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): i say do what ur heart feels. its just a phone call. if u think of him all the time u should call it may help..
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reader, leylaness  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 the problem is sweet, there is alot of history. you had a lot of casual sex with him so you dont know if thats all he wants form you. You dont want to put your trust in him and start a realtionship if all he is after is sex. you need to go slowly if you do choose to call him, dont get to hot and heavy with in a few meetings, show him your more then just a hook up. But if i was you i wouldnt call him,there is to much history and it will make things so hard wich will make your comitment issues alot harder in the future, try going on dates with other guys and hanging out with friends. if in a few months of not talking to him you still feel the same then get in touch. First give your self time to figure out what u want dont just dive in head firstgood luck sweetie im sure you will make the right choice, but dont worry about maing the wronge one, we all do it and things allways sort them self's out in the end :)
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