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writes:I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently there was one occasion where I brought her to my apartment and she was sitting on the sofa tempting me with her nice curves. One thing led to another and she ended up giving me the best blow job in my life. She was unhappy with me as I did not have sex with her but the next few times we met we just had sex. She said that all is OK and we were just doing it to satisfy our lust, however I keep longing for her. You see sex with her is wonderful. She manages to satisfy me thoroughly. Now that I still meet her and she still gives me the best blow job. Is it okay to keep on with the relationship?
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Strange. I think your the very first person I've ever heard freely admit to willingly destroying lives!
WHAT'S THE MATTER WITH YOU!
A blow job?
How old are you?
14?
If a BJ is so important, spend the 20 bucks.
At least that way, nobody gets hurt.
Did you ever think that although he might be a jerk, you might be one also?
Also, consider this. This "jerk" as you say, might also be an unstable jerk. Unstable enough to actually kill both you and your BJ Buddy!
Think about it!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (9 March 2011):
 Um, wouldn't your actions make YOU the JERK?!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 March 2011):
 You say your FRIEND is the jerk?????
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Absolutley not!
You're being awfully selfish. This is someone else's wife and you should have kept well away.
End it with her. It's not fair, you very much have just ruined a marriage.
Also, I hope the other man bins her off too.
Cheating is never right. If you want to be with someone, then be with them. If not, then end it with them. Whats the big deal?
Also, you have crossed a very fine line. Whatever consequences there may be, you will have to deal with that. You two made the mess. She's bad news.
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reader, Sensesfail101 +, writes (9 March 2011):
no not ok. Period.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Ooooo this is DANGEROUS teritory. I would end this straight away and tell her to come back when she has left her husband. This will end badly if you keep going the way you are.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Um... NO!!!!
He's your friend even if he is a jerk. You need to come clean. If you are caught it's gonna hurt more than anything. It's disrespectful and dishonest. And doing it for a year???
I hope this helps
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