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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my bf for a month i know thats not long but i am in love with him and he is in love with me, but he hangs out with 2 girls and everytime he is with them it bothers me so much, the first girl vanessa is his co-worker and there close and my bf just told me her and him were going to take ballet together (for football.) and she is experienced so thats why he wants to take it with her, and that just makes me feel uneasy. and the second girl worries me more, her name is danielle and she is my bf's x and they dated like a year ago. and he says he can tell her everything and open up to her they hang out all the time and don't ever invite me, the recently went to the lake together and everytime there together around me they talk about the "secret" and laugh and they won't tell me what it is. Do you think i should be worried about these girls he swears he does not like either of them. he says " they don't compare to you, you're all i need." and " there just friends thats all they don't even like me like that" but im so confused, HELP?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 July 2011):
 I think your boyfriend is behaving really inappropriately with his ex. To be going out with her alone and refusing to invite you is a huge red flag. As well having some inside joke that they love flaunting in front of you is not OK. I think it's reasonable to tell him that you are not OK with him spending so much quality time alone with his ex.
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