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My girlfriend was raped -- how can I help her with the resulting trust issues?

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Question - (1 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help me please! My girlfriend was raped by a boy she really liked back when she was only at the age of 16. He stole her virginity(raped her and didn't stop even though she kept crying) and led her on for about 1 month only contacting her when he wanted to have sex...He even manage to force her into having anal sex with him. This hurts me so bad hearing all of the things she has told me and I just want to help. This is affecting our relationship so harshly because she cannot fully trust me even though I am always there for her and don't blame her for anything. So my question is, how can I help her? Is there anything I can do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010):

She needs to press charges. A guy who does that once will do it again and again.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010):

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I forgot to mention we have been dating for about a year now and I just recently found out about this. we used to have sex everyday plus more but now after she shared this with me, we barely make any physical contact besides for me holding her because shes no longer in the mood and I'm too scared to hurt her. Eventually I want to marry her because before we started dating we were best friends since grade 7... She has never told anyone about the incident and was scared I would have killed the guy =( (I'm 6'4 205 pounds and been into mixed martial arts for many years now) so she didnt even tell me his name just that he was 4 years older. How do I help her? I am trying to give her all the attention and love that she deserves and even went out recently to buy her a promise ring

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