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He says he doesn't want a label?

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Question - (25 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lwayschanging writes:

Me and my boyfriend have dated for 4 going on 5 months and for the other 2 months he wanted to be "talking" to fix our problems. But we never got back together. We are still "talking". Now he doens't want that. He doesn't want a label on it any more. What does this mean?

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A female reader, alwayschanging United States +, writes (26 October 2010):

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Closet romance14 It is def the 2nd one.So it is ok to not have a label? i mean that sounds bad but in my eyes it showed me he is either ashamed of me or just wants sex you know?

See I know we fight but i know in the end we end up talking because one of us can't stay away from the other. Just in general. Honestly I know we can be best friends of we doesn't work because I know he cares a lot about me. and we have talked about it. But every time he says "lose my number" or "I'm done" it scares me because I know he is someone who I care deeply about.

I care about him and I know if its over its over and no one can help that so I let him go. But I know its not yet. I just think he is looking for the excitement like it was in the very beginning but its more of us seeing each other so much i'm guessing. idk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010):

There is two possiable answers to this question...1-he does not want to be with you anymore. your relationship is over in his eyes...and mostlikely just wants to be friends and nothing else but leading you on in the process. 2-he doesn't want to label the relationship because it causes to many problems and upsets................. I know a couple who has a unlabled relationship, and they are in love. they do not have relations with other people, it's just them. together they are strong, but when they are together together they are weak.

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A female reader, PLAYFUL United States +, writes (26 October 2010):

PLAYFUL agony auntIts over move on fine a new guy he's don't want u back sorry for how I'm telling u but I've been their befor so it better to move on...xox

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (26 October 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntIt means he's done with you and dodging having to commit. Move on from this guy he's not going to give you what you want.

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