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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys this is a rather long question so sry in advance.For the purpose of this question i will need to tell u yhe whole story, so here it goes.A while back i saw a girl (duh) and it was whoa like love at first sight.the problem is that i did not know her that well.(read on there's more)so i asked a friend to tell her. well, he told me she liked me too and i was overjoyed.then i thought...wait a second, i smelled a rat. you see, back then i was not very popular (its better now) and she was at the top. yeah, i know wayyy outta my leauge.so i found that"friend" and it turns out he was pulling my leg!she hates me (i was ....Infamous).obviously i was heartbroken(duh)(if you are still reading, now comes the exciting part)okay....see im a guy, but i have this little lucky talisman.well, it wasn't that lucky, but it did make wishes come true.seriously it works , but only happened twice, and not in a good way.i made a little wish for her to talk to me .it didn't matter even if it was an insult i told myself.and whaddaya know, the next day she talked to me.but as you can guess, it was an insult(LOL how ironic)that was the last time she talked to me.the next part's really sad so if u r sentimental(i am) u might wanna skip this paragraph. the last time i saw her was like graduation day. it was like raining and i saw her walking down this open staircase with a group of friends.she turned to her friend,so she was like half facing me. i realise i was starring so i willed myself to turn away.when i turned back, she was gone.just like that , she walked out of my life.now for the twist. im a really emotional guy so i coulden't get over it.(note this was a new school)i was searching through the web one day when i stumbled upon her facebook account.i didn't do any thing cause1 i was not on facebook(still not on it)2 i have like really low self esteem and i felt like i was not good enough for her you know,i felt that she deserved better.(i dunno why i mean im good,clean average looks and all, i just don't know why)i'm sure you heard the saying that if a guy lets a girl go he truly loves her? well thats what i did(i think) i decided that it wouldn't work out so i promised myself i would stay away from her(yes, through the "magic wish granting pendent" again)unfortunately, my "wish" was granted yet again.last time i checked she changed her photo or something and i can't find her.my friend (a new, better one)wanted to help (he has facebook) but i declined, cause i just dunno what to do.pls advisePS: society in my place dosen't approve of relationships before 18 and im not looking for one.(i think)oh , and im 13
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Why didn't you wish on this magic talisman for her to like you?
If you don't want a relationship then are you wanting a friendship?? Your question is unclear. Now, if she really didn't give you the time of day in high school now that she's graduated and gone what makes you think she's going to talk to you now? She insulted you, you really weren't anything to her..also she knew that you liked her and didn't do anything about it, much less care. You see, to be getting your hopes up that she'll come back to you..scouring Facebook for her profile. Honestly, it's best that you move on. She's just not that into you. Let your crush go.
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