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writes:The thing is, I'm currently 37wks pregnant! I'm with my partner of 3years who I love to bits but when I fell pregnant we were going threw a bad patch and I slept with sum1 else round that time. My dr said I concieved the 25th and I slept with the otha guy the 27th and my partner the 21st so I assume my partnee is the father, if he isn't tho I no he aint guna want to bring sum1 elses child up so do you think he will leave me. I hav spoke to him bout it and he just says stop worrying we're guna b ok cus I love u to bits but I know he is to proud to stick around. What do you think? X
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (3 March 2010):
Oohh!! Temper, temper, westgirl!! I am going to use "blumming"; never heard that word before!
Ok, on a serious note, I think what he is telling himself for now, is that he will support you in case it turns out to be his. Erring on the good side. But I suspect that there might be a chance that he will walk away if it isnt his. So be prepared. Good luck in your final week!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 I'm not sure what you are asking. I guess you will just have to wait until after the baby's dad is determined to find out whether you'll be raising it by yourself or not.
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reader, westgirl +, writes (3 March 2010):
westgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell obviously. I'm not going to keep it a secret! He knows that he might not be the potential father, hence the reason why I posted the blumming question!!!
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reader, Dalmatian +, writes (23 February 2010):
The biological father needs to know he has a baby. As soon as the baby is born do a DNA test and let the biological father know he is a Dad.
The truth now is much easier to deal with than later.
It WILL all come out later. Believe me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): I hate to be the party pooper here, but it's in the best long term interests of the child and both of these men to find out who is the real father as soon as possible.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 February 2010):
He's already said he loves you to bits. I think you have your answer.
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reader, Angzw +, writes (21 February 2010):
If he knows the full story that you slept with someone else around that time and he is saying don't worry, then dont. Relax and enjoy your final days of freedom.
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