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writes:I have been with my bf for 2 in a half yrs.. When I found out that he had cheated.. I confronted him and he had said yes he did.. I ask him why he didn't tell me and he said beacuse he knew I was going to leave him... Then he told me he knew he had fuck up big time and that I could leave him if wanted to... I thought for awhile and decided to stay with him.. From there things were going great until he cheated again.. I had found out way before he could tell me.. I had got a phone call from him the next day and he had told me.. I then went on a cheating spree to get even... After all the cheating it didn't fell right..Even though going through all this cheating bullshit I still stayed with him... I mean I love him alot and he is my first love.. Now I'm starting to think I have made a big mistake... I come this far and now I don't what to do with our relationship... I mean everthing is going great right now... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): Your BF cheated. This does not mean you should have cheated too. Your options were to leave the relationship or try to work things out. By cheating on him (and he did not make you cheat, you decided to do that) you have only made things worse. I would suggest counselling for the two of you if you want to stay together.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Your boyfriend is a cheater. He admits it. He did it twice, so he's going to do it again. DEFINITELY.
Are you ok with your boyfriend being a cheater?
Are you ok with your boyfriend not respecting you?
Are you ok with your boyfriend wanting to be with another woman more than you?
Are you ok with your boyfriend making YOU a cheater?
If you answered yes to all of these questions, then just go about your relationship and stay with him forever. If you answered no to any or all of these questions, then it means you respect yourself and you should dump him. Quickly.
Good luck.
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