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30-35,
anonymous
writes: ok, there's this guy that i really like, i've known him a while and we've been out with each other once before, recently after breaking up with the guy i lost my virginity to, i had sex with him, we'd just decided to meet up after not seeing each other for nearly 7 months, and it just happened. since that i was struggling to tell him how i felt and even though i tried to ask him out, i wussed out of it, coz i was scared he'd push me away. then i discovered that he'd got a new gf after we'd slept together and i confronted him about it, saying that i'd wanted to ask him out. he told me that if i'd asked sooner then he would have said yes to me. when i told him how i really felt, he asked why i hadn't told him it all sooner. we have always been brutally honest with each other and he usually tells me what is wrong whenever he is feeling down, unless it's about the person he's seeing. recently though he's not been as talkative, saying he's feeling 'meh' but says he can't tell me why. i don't know where i stand really, we've admitted to liking each other but it's all so confusing
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reader, kingriley36  +, writes (28 April 2010):
O.K.... the first thing that you should be sure of that he does have feelings for you, second, be sure to be brutally honest with him. if you see him everyday, try to act as though it didnt happen. if you dont feel confident about yourself when you talk to him. FAKE CONFIDENCE! it requires some acting but he should try to act good aswell....
you need to go out of your way in communication. if its akward he may resent you.
if its confusing, hell need time to think....
men are emotionally unstable especially around your age.
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