A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend told me last night that he will not leave me for another woman but will for his son. Then he said I'm honest just don't ask me if I slept with, what does it mean. We were suppose to get closer after his court with his ex nut it's made us more distant. Please help.
View related questions:
his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Si Si  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Dear girl, your relationship with this man sounds very precarious. Firstly, you should find out who broke up with who. In other words, was it his ex wife who broke up with him? Secondly, he is more or less telling you in so many words, that he may go back to the ex particularly now they have slept together....The thing about his son is just a way of softening the blow.
Be prepared for anything.The other issue is that if he slept with ex once{as far as you know} what is to stop him doing it again? Can you live with that uncertainty?
This man may need time to sort himself out without you there. Your best chance is to give him space and let him work out what he wants to do. If you let him go and he comes back to you,then it`s love.If he doesn`t then it wasn`t meant to be.
Good luck and happiness
A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 I guess it's a diplomatic way to say that he is considering ( or at least not excluding ) getting back with his ex for the sake of their son.
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 April 2010):
'I'm honest, just don't ask me of I've slept with'? Sounds to me like something has happened here, most likely with his ex. I think you might be involved in a big mess here, and he has made it more than clear that he will leave for the sake of his son, which again means the ex has been putting pressure on him. I would sit down and really think about this relationship, because he doesn't seem into it at all.
...............................
|
