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writes:ok, so me and my boyfriend of about 6 months are still going strong but i have a few issues that i would love to have some answers to. ok first off: he is really really quiet and that's not always the best. I love him and want to be with him for a long time but i just don't know what to say because it gets kinda awkward when me and him are alone. and i'm not a very shy person, but i get really self-concious when me and him are alone because i feel like he isn't saying anything because he thinks what i'm saying is stupid or something. second off: i flirt with other guys without knowing it. i'm a very naturally flirter and i hate it because i feel like i'm betraying my boyfriend and some incidents have come up in the past that have gotten me in trouble...and i just want to know what i should do about it. if you could help me with these things, i would so very appreciate it!(: thank you sooooo much(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): I don't know what to say about how quiet your boyfriend is, but with regards to the flirting...
I have the same problem and the only way I've found to deal with it is to be overly cautious and make sure that it is well-publicised that I'm in a relationship, if sum1 knows chances are they may not flirt back and it makes it a whole lot harder to flirt with them and is therefore quite a good detterent. If i meet a new guy i try and bring my boyfriend up early on in conversation... it works quite well for me
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