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My boyfriend has cheated on me and told me he does not love me anymore, but he will stay with me and pretend he has feelings for me!

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Question - (26 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female Ghana age 30-35, *oka writes:

What do you do when your bf of over a year tells you even when he doesn't love you anymore, he'll keep you and lie that he still has feelings for you. Later on you find out that he's cheated on you with a girl from his university.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (26 April 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntWhat do you do? You say thanks to whatever higher power you believe in for letting you know that this is not the man for you. You get yourself out of there with your head held high and you don't look back, except to give thanks for your narrow escape.

You give yourself a chance to recover from the break up and then you get yourself out there and live life knowing you are a thousand times better off than you were before.

Take care, and good luck.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (26 April 2010):

YouWish agony auntWhat do you do when your BF doesn't love you anymore and cheats on you? Then he says (pretends) he still has feelings for you?

He has more feelings for HIMSELF. Tell him to shove his feelings where the sun doesn't shine. Tell him you're through. Then go get some girlfriends of yours and go party! You don't need that lowlife selfish pig in your life.

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2010):

rambini agony auntwhy would you want to be with someone who doesnt love you? this makes no sense. you should be with someone who loves you back, as eventually this guy will fall in love with someone and leave you to be with this girl.

you need to be strong, accept that this relationship is over and move on

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