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*he Shadow's Tears
writes:hello,i'm Shadow Tears,i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i seem to be enjoying hanging out with my best dude friend more. i mean my boyfriends awesome, but he's not the most energetic person. and my guy friend is, just like me. also, i'm highly into "zodiac sign capabilities" meaning two zodiac signs are the most compatible. and my guy friends scorpio and i'm Pisces, which means were compatible with each other. not me and my boyfriend are compatible to, but not like me and scorpio. i'm confused on what i should do. i mean i don't want to leave my boyfriend. but i feel guilty for, liking to hang out with my guy friend more then my boyfriend. BTW: i'm not saying i'm cheating on my boyfriend. i'm not doing anything like that.i'm just confused about what i should do? i mean all of the signs, point that i should be with my friend. but i really don't want to make my boyfriend sad. (both my boyfriend and my friend has said there in love with me.) to make things worse i'm scared of commitment. (if that helps) help me! please! oh but mind you, i'm short tempered. so i beg you, please don't tell my i'm a tragically bad person, i'm not a bad person, i'm just confused OK? so help me please. Reply to this Question
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reader, The Shadow's Tears +, writes (10 June 2009):
The Shadow's Tears is verified as being by the original poster of the question i'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend, i dont need a boyfriend when i'm this way
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reader, The Shadow's Tears +, writes (6 June 2009):
The Shadow's Tears is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe problem is i fallow my gut feelings, but this time, there no gut feeling. its just a problem. i think i might be pushing my boyfriend away, but i don't want to do that. hes an awesome guy. but i'm also scared that he might be feeling things for me that i might not feel for him, then my friend is there, and i can talk to him for hours. i don't know this is confusing
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): No one is saying you're a bad person. There's nothing wrong with spending more time with your mates then with your boyfriend. Your boy mate might just be a very strong mate and don't just be with him because of sighns. At the end of the day you need todecide and folow your hate. Even if you don't go with your boy mate, you need to ask yourself whether you actually want to be in a proper relationship with your boyfriend. Good luck!!!
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