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writes:I've never been one to break anyones heart and ive definitely never been a cheat or a sleep around. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two months now. Things have got really serious between us, we've moved in together and were getting along really well. I know that i love him in a way ive never loved anyone before and i hate it when hes not around.So thats all fine and dandy.But then theres one of his best friends..Hes everything i've ever wanted and more. He's everything my boyfriend isn't. He has charm, a biggg humour and adventure. Three things which i find very attractive and which i kind of need in a boyfriend. My boyfriend has none. His best friend is quite flirtatious with me, not in an overly obvious way, but in a way where you feel the chemistry even if nobody else sees it. He also spends alot of his time staring at me. He makes me happy, i think of him whenever i'm down and i smile instantly. I always jump at the chance of seeing him and when my boyfriend asks him to places i cant help but plead him to come! I love being around him! Dont get me wrong my boyfriend makes me happy.. just not as happy as what his friend does! I know that its a total no go region, its an unwritten rule and morally wrong. And i know it'd break my boyfriends heart, and i dont even know if his friend would do it. I just cant help thinking of him. I dont wanna be a bitch but i cant help the way i feel, i knew as soon as i met him!Helppp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo because its running off with one of his best friends. I wouldnt want it to happen to me, and i dont think i should ever do that to someone else.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (6 June 2009):
It sounds like your missing out. You need to find out if he likes you and if he does, you should consider going for it. But as there is a friendship at stake, you need to make sure he likes you and it needs to be a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Why cant you do it? If you leave him then technically it wont be cheating or is it deep down do you feel you will miss your current bf x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd be happy, really happy with his best friend but i know that i cant do that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): There is no point staying with someone you wont be happy with x
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