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writes:HiI basically just don't know what to do. I don't know whether to change my life completely. On New Years Eve I made an oath to myself that this year was going to be good. So far, its been awful. So here goes:1. My nana died earlier on in the year, which was really hard, but she was old, so I was happy that she had a good life.2. I moved in with my friend Karen and it was amazing at first. She has had a loss in her life which was very upsetting and I took her to the hospital etc all the time. We did loads together all the time, but just recently, her good friend is back and she dosen't invite me out anymore or do anything with me. 3. I have a boyfriend who is 22 and I am 28. He is very immature, but just recently, I found on the internet, a picture of him sleeping with someone else. He was so upset, and he said it wasn't how it looked, and he didn't sleep with her but I was with him at the time and it hurts so muh to see him in that photo. I asked everyone at work, and they all think he genuinley didn't sleep with her. 4. Work - I hate it!! So basically, I just don't know whether to pack my things and get away for a few months. I just don't know. Please help! Much lv
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): I was thinking about going to Austrailia for a few months.
I spoke to my boyfriend about it last night, and he was so upset. He works all over the world though and he is away at the moment so I just think why should I be stuck here?
My nana left me some money and everyone is saying to buy a house, but I keep on changing my mind. Travelling or house?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Hi - I sympathise very much. I lost my Nan just before Xmas funeral on Xmas eve :-( and I wanted this year to be positive - it has been tough. Recently I took just 5 days out and went to France - no mobile phone signal it was in the middle of the countryside, no internet and no TV - strange at first but I had time to think and really open my mind to my future goals and plans. Now I'm back it was the best move I made. I really recommend you listen to what your body and mind wants and take that break.
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reader, happytobe  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Getting up and going somewhere peaceful sounds like the exact thing you need! Go somewhere you love, cold, warm, tropical, city setting, go shopping, lay on a beach. You need some you time. To cope with your losses, your friends' losses, your boyfriend troubles. Think about them the whole time or don't think about them at all! Whatever will help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): My initial thought was that after such a crap year, things can only get better from now on.
They say that life is what you make it, and as for work - it's a very fortunate person that actually looks forward to waking up on a weekday morning and getting on the bus to work. So, looking at things in a purely logical fashion from my detached point of view, how about either looking for another job that you might like to do. A career change if you will. Either that or think about training for a different career more to your liking.
If you can afford it, disappearing for a bit of travelling for a while might not be a bad idea to recharge your batteries and give you time to think about what to do with your life in the future.
As for the boyfriend having a picture of him sleeping with someone else, only he knows the truth about that, but they say the camera never lies. You say yourself that he's immature, and although the age difference isn't that great in the general scheme of things, it might be an idea to give yourself a break from him and look for someone more your own age who has done the same amount of growing up as you have. A new partner might also be a new lease of life.
Whatever, I hope you get out of the rut!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Well if you have the money to pack your things and go away then it would be good for you to clear your head. What was you thinking of doing? X
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