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female
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36-40,
*IMBERLIE
writes:i have been with my boyfriend since march 2008,and i still cant figure out whats going on.things have always been a bit rocky and he has had a few commitment issues,as he is only 22.last november we got into an argument about something small,and i was drunk and grabbed him by the throat.we then sorted it,and things were going really well,and in january i fell pregnant.we were both overjoyed and excited,but a few weeks later i suffered a miscarriage.we were both devastated,but he made it clear that he didnt want to talk about it,so it got cast aside and we carried on.a few weeks after i lost the baby,he told me that he didnt love me anymore and he gradually had fallen out of love with me because of the incident with me grabbing him by the throat,but didnt realise it until then,but he agreed to see how things progressed in the hope that his feelings for me would come back.obviously i felt low and distraught because of losing the baby then him telling me that,and i didnt really know what to do or think,and i started to feel less attractive and just extremly paranoid of him going off with someone else.we then threw a party in april,i ended up getting extremly drunk again,and somehow ended up sat on his friends lap,whom i despise,he apparently walked in and saw me sat there and walked out.he later come back and stayed until the morning,then he left again saying we were over for good.i dont remeber a thing.he now claims that we are friends,but he still comes over every spare minute he has,and we still act like we are together and i dont know what he is playing at,is he hanging around until he meets someone else?or is he hoping to get back with me?since that incident i have been seeing a counsillor and given up drinking,as thats where i acted badly,so im trying to prove i wont do that again and i have two children from a previous relationship who will be affected if he just goe off with someone else.is there any hope for us?
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