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30-35,
*oftlipz
writes:okay so i danced with my crush at prom, he was the one who grabbed me from behind and started dancing with me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine; he kept rubbing my arms and when we slow danced; he kept rubbing my back up and down slowly andslowly ran his hands down my butt.So i was getting the feeling that he liked me too since he was staring at me for most of the night and i was the only girl he danced with. so 2 days after prom, my friend spoke to him and i was brought up into the conv because she kept saying that we looked hot while dancing then he said:"ahaha, i don't want to give the wrong intentions btw, she's a cool person but yea..." then later on he said that he wanted to have fun. so i understood the part when he said he wanted to have fun, i mean we danced but the part i don't understand is: what was the whole "hand folding" about? to me, that seemed personal, but then again, i could be taking it the wrong way. so later on that day, i sent him a msg on msn saying:"hey, i just saw the convo with you and my friend and i just wanted to say that i did not get the wrong impression,not to be rude or anything, i had fun but i danced with other guys and you weren't the one who made my night." i only said that because i didn't want to look desperate and he was the one who made my night. so i felt really bad and i decided to talk to him at school. so i went up to him and said: "hey, can i talk to you for a minute?" then he said: "sure" so i said: okay, i don't mean to sound annoying but about that msg i sent you on msn about prom, i didn't mean to say it like that." then he said smiling: it's okay, it's okay, who cares. then i said: no, i only said that because i didn't want to look desperate. but i didn't mean it." then he said: it's okay. then i said(blushing): i know this might not matter to you,(then i put my hands to my face and said "omg") then he smiled and said: "this must be hard for you to say" then i laughed and said: i'm gonna be honest with you, but you were the one that made my night" then he was smiling for the whole time then i said: i know you don't like me like that but i just wanted to be honest so yea...then he kept smiling then he said: ok well thanx...have a nice day, then i said: okay, thanx you too. so i guess i have to get over him for real this time:( i just don't know how i'm going to get over him. don't get me wrong, he's a sweet person, he seemed shy when i was talking to him.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 You should be very proud of yourself. You showed a lot of maturity and courage when talking to him and being honest about your sms and about how you really felt. It is now up to him to take the next step. If this doesn't happen you can move on without any regrets. I think when you eventually find the right person you are going to have a great relationship as you are honest, genuine and you deal with issues directly.
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