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writes:ive been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years, he wasnt what you'd call a decent bloke, i was on income surport bringing up 2 girls, he was working and at the begenning he bled me dry, he was a rite womaniser, really bad wandering eyes, but although ive said that i loved him to pieces, he wouldnt let me meet his family, he'd never take me out to town,it was like he was ashamed to be seen with me,that hurt quite alot, but i put up with it, coz i wanted him to love me like i loved him,as time went on nothing changed, but i still put up with it, i got my overdraft up to its limit of £1500 and it all went,he did alot of mind games with my head as well,but as usuall i put up with it, then he went out one nite and meet this woman, who he later left me and said it wasnt working out, after a short time he came back, but said nothing happened between them, i didnt belive him, but i wanted him back, so i carried on as normal yet again,we was togther for a while again, then things wasnt good he wasnt working and living off me,and so he went yet again,after a 6 mth break we got back togther again,i thought things wud be alot better when he came back to me, as i had proved how much i loved him by haveing him back after the way he treated me.. he was still doing the same though, not takeing me out to town, just him going,but yet again i put up with it again..then 2 weeks ago, i got a text to say sorry ive moved on, i was heartbroke,so id text and text but got no reply, then the other day i saw him, and i deceiced to ring him,to my horror, he said to me,that he's never loved me, and although he has tryed, its just not there for him, im gutted, i carnt sleep, i cry all the time, my friends dont want to no me,im so depressed i really dont no what to do.. please help,i know you think i'm nuts for loving him, but i do
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 No you're not crazy for loving him (although from this distance it isn't easy to see what you see in him). We love who we love and we don't have that much choice in the matter. However, from the sound of it you would be crazy to count on this guy being a satisfactory partner for you so perhaps best to love him from a distance and do your best to move on.
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