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writes:Ok so i was talkin to this guy and we were like almost the same. there was definitley a connection between us. and when we were around each other we got along great. i dont think that their was ever a dull moment. we went out and stuff but we were not bf and gf. even though he has told me that he was talking to other girls while he was talking to me, i never thought much of it becuase of the way i was starting to feel for him, and hes told me that he liked me too, but later on i had become jealous of the other girls that he were talking to and i started to complain about everything, even though he was still there. weeks later we decided that we did not want to talk anymore. but somehow we found ourselves at least remaining friends because we both played a big part in each others lives. so now that we are friends we dont talk anymore and if we do its through texting. i feel like if this continues there wont be anymore friendship between us. i dont want to lose him, so wut can i do 2 make this work?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 you have to do something about it because if you leave it it will go wrong..ide tell him that youre friendship means everything to you and that you ddnt mean things to go the way they did and that you want to be more involved with him again and feel like you have drifted apart and that youre sorry. you can tell him how you feel but it will go one of a few ways..you can be in denial how you feel to keep youre friendship but most likely ull find it hard to hide youre feelings and the same thing mite happen again or worse..or tell him how you feel and why you were the way you were and that you ddnt mean to push him away and that you would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all because he means so much to you..sorry its not a lengthy advice but thats my opinion aphex xxx
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (14 May 2008):
 So your concerned about remaining friends with him? If thats the case then you have to talk with him. Call him and explain to him that a friendship is important to you and you dont want to lose that. There is nothing wrong with admitting to someone how you feel. Its better to have it be said so that you dont have to worry all the time about it. In the long run if he doesnt reciprocate how you feel at least you dont have to blame yourself. You tried and thats all that matters. ~dee
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