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writes:I was visiting my aunt and uncle for thanksgiving. My uncle was very happy to see me. When I was coming out of the room, he came in and wanted to ask me something. So after we talked, he wanted a hug, so I gave him one. Then he pulled my face towards his and tried to give me a strong kiss on my lips. It seemed he attemped to try to french kiss. I backed over immediately. It did not seem right and I wonder if I should mention it to my aunt? I never kiss my relatives on the lips. Now, I am invited for christmas and really don't know if I should go or not? Help Kinda afraid.
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reader, deb777 +, writes (4 December 2008):
deb777 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I thank all of you nice people for your great response. I rated all of you. Thank you
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 December 2008):
 I'll bet you can out run him, anyway at his age I doubt you have anything to really be afraid of. You are kind of a big girl to be worried about this, aren't you?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 December 2008):
I'll bet you can out run him, anyway at his age I doubt you have anything to really be afraid of. You are kind of a big girl to be worried about this, aren't you?
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 I personely don't think you should avoid your uncle because he is a relative. You should discuss this matter with him and tell him clearly that he should STOP!! and that he should not do this agian. Then tell him nicely that you are not attracted to him and you find his behaviour inapropriate. If he persists with his advances then it would be a wise idea to talk about it with your aunt and get some advise. Don't let your uncle's behaviour intimidate you. Take care!
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reader, royalpredica  +, writes (4 December 2008):
First of all, may I say I was delighted to note that you are over 16! Anyhow, I appreciate you are in a very awkward situation. How old is your uncle - he may be in the early stages of becoming senile in which case perhaps he didnt really know what he was doing (in which case you do indeed need to discuss this issue with the rest of the family. Was his sexual advance a one-off or has this happened before? What did you talk about before he approached you for a kiss? If he is nowhere near being senile then I would discuss the matter with him first before you say anything to anyone else. You must make sure he knows that his advances have made you feel very uncomfortable and upset. You must keep an eye on his actions around other younger female members of your family. If you tell your aunt you will distress the whole family at Christmas time and you may wish to analyse his behaviour first and perhaps wait til after Xmas should you decide to discuss the issue with the rest of your family. I wish you all the best xx
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