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*illaqu33n
writes:My boyfriend (16) and I (15) have been dating for 6 months now. We love each other SO much and we love being together. We're compatible in every way but... I think he's going to propose.He's been talking about it the last 2 weeks and I'm getting worried. I don't want him to propose to me at such an early age and if he does, I won't know what to do.I'm mostly worried because I don't know if we will be able to be together in the future, due to our career plans.So the question is... What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, killaqu33n +, writes (1 December 2008):
killaqu33n is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou so much everyone!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 December 2008):
Start talking about how tacky it is when teenagers get married and how when you get OLDER you want your MAN to do something spectacular like take you for a hot air balloon ride.
Just bring it up and make sure he knows that engagement and marriage is not off the table, but is far far far far away.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Don't stress about it. If he does propose to you, thank him very much, tell him how flattered you are but that you are not ready for such a commitment. Explain to him that you love him very much but that you would like to wait untill you are both a little older and a little more established in your careers.
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (1 December 2008):
five years back you were only a child, five years in future you'll be a woman discovering a brand new world, do you want to get stuck in the middle?
if you marry now you'll regret it, you have a lot to do. Besides 6 month's relationship is nothing.
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