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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just found out my boyfriend has been having a sexual relationship with another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I am 26 with a young child, i have just found out my boyfriend of 8 months has had a sexual relationship with a much older man for the last 5 years (including the 6 of months with me). at the start of our relationship i did not see much of him as he ...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two ...

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...

My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. ...

He doesn't trust condoms and I don't like taking medication including birth control pills. How can we combat this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - when my boyfriend and i are messing around to the point of possible sex, it always ends because he doesn't trust condoms and im not on birth control. he has asked me before if id think about going on it, and i have thought about it, but the more i ...

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking ...

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help...

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...

We're seeing each other less and less, is this boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been dating someone from work for about 5 months. when we first started dating it seemed as though he couldn't get enough and now I feel like i'm seeing him less and less and he doesn't seem as affectionate as when we started dating. Is it ...

How do I approach another woman after my 4 year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been with her for 4 years and dont know how to approach another woman after the breakup, wat do i do and what do i say if i am interested in another girl. Also she heard a rumor that i was checking another girl while we broke up and she...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

My girlfriend wears the pants! How do I get the pants back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend wears the pants. How do I get my pants back?!? I feel this problem stems from her making alot more money than I do. It isn't really possible for me to make more money because I am at uni full-time and she isn't, so I don't have the t...

How much more should I give and take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the ins...

I want to look after my mum but can't stop thinking how horrible she was to me as a child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need some help, I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was growing up. She constantly put me down and was often violent to me, she locked me under the stairs, but not my brothers. I suffered with asma and eczma real...

I'm so confused about these texts. What do you make of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hello, im very confused.... im just gonna show you all exactly the messages i have received today, but let me tell you all this.... first.... things have been fine between me and my boyfriend (me 26 him 23, atleast i thought they were....w...

I am in a wonderful relationship. Why is my head filled with negative thoughts all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - well lets see, my head is filled with negative thoughts about relationships even though im in a wonderful relationship. I constantly ask myself, "what if we break up? "what if i fall inlove with someone else a need top break up? what if we get ...

I have a girlfriend but I've met someone else. What's the best way to tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - ok i have a girlfriend that goes to school in flordia and i think she's in love with me but i found someone else that i really really like and i dont know wat to do how should i break up with my current gf i want to do it over the phone cause i ...

I like this guy but have heard he's a bit of a player. Should I still show an interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi im 16 and not had a boyfriend for over a year now. I went out a few months ago and this lad started talking to me, he's 18 tho. ive seen him around a few times as well and i do lie him, but my friend knows him and she said he's slept with girls ...

Do you think one guy was jealous of the other and that's why he called ME a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I sent my cousin (same age as me 18) an angry email complete with profanity and insults. I was angry at the time and said it all out of anger. I didn't mean any of it, but I wrote it anyway. I said that in the email (that I didn't mean it). I feel ...

I'm seeing a man 20 years older than me who I love very much, we're very close but not sexually, I don't think he's done it before, he seems really shy. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - PLEASE HELP! Im in desperate need of advice. Ive been in love with a man 20 yrs my senior for more than 2yrs. I know that he feels the same and we have been close although not sexually, and i dont think he has done it before. I have told him how i ...

She's broken up with me but says she still wants to keep in touch but I don't think that's wise. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - can anybody help me pls! my ex broke up with me coming up to a month now cos we were arguing a lot! we got together just 3mths after my dad passed away so I had alot to deal with! I wanted to break up with her first cos I knew it was coming to an ...

What can I do to make the first move and kiss him? He's too shy so I want to take the initiative here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 39 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My bf and i have been dating for about a week. Im not trying to rush things cuz im not that type of girl but usually in the first few days of dating a guy i always end up kissing them. Now with this new guy he is shy when it comes to physical...

My husband only wants to debate and talk about politics and world issues! It's driving me crazy! Ahhhh!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hello. I'm having a bit of a problem with my marriage. My husband doesn't stop debating and doesn't want to talk about anything other than current events. It's in his nature to debate everything - his father is the exact same way - that's just ...

Do I wait for her or do I move on? She said she wants to be with me...but is not ready right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have recently come out of a two year relationship, after my fiance found she had feelings for another man and when he returned those feelings she put me to one side and started ignoring me and leaving me alone. We did split up, however every time ...

She picks on EVERYTHING I do! She even says if I fall asleep before her, I'm neglecting her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I am 3 years into a relationship.I`m aware of my bad points.I even told her my negative points from day one. Now 3 years down the line she`s constantly nagging and bringing up my bad points. She organises everything we do,without a thought. I am ...

When sober my bf is wonderful! When drunk he's loud, obnoxious and aggressive! Do I get rid of him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is wonderful when he's sober, we have a great time and get on really well. However, when he's drunk, I hate him. He's loud, obnoxious and very aggressive towards me for no reason. It doesn't take much to start him off then he just ...

My ex secretly filmed us having sex and put it online! My new bf now calls me a slag! What can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - hay really need help im 22 and ive just found out 2 years ago some guy filmed me and him having sex and took pictures with out my consent god knows how i didnt see the camra or owt! but now there all over the internet i dont know what to do? people ...

I cheated b/c I thought having sex w/ this other guy would lead to a relationship, but now he's ignorning me! I'm humiliated! Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i need advice, i have been in a 12 step programme for 2 yrs and met a guy at the meetings i really felt a connection with 1 year ago. nothing happend because i was in a relationship of 12 years already,i left my boyfriend for 4 months to sort out ...

I kissed by flatmate...but I love my boyfriend! Now my flatmate's trying to make me jealous! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I need help!!! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we are really happy together, but i moved away to uni last september and i think i fancy one of the lads i live with, we kissed but i felt so guitly coz of my boyfriend, now my flatmate keep...

Once a cheater always a cheater? Will he cheat on me too or should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi im in a dilema im in a new relationship with a guy and I really like him. Last night we ended up getting into a conversation about cheating. He admitted that he had cheated on his ex twice basically she cheated on him so he cheated back. Im a ...

Is this the beginning of the end for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 558 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Having recently seperated after 21 years of marriage I met an amazing young lady on the internet during December last year. She is eleven years younger than me - I have three kids two living with me - and she has not been married nor has any kids. ...

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...

I am emotionally attracted to this person but not sexually... yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I am in a relatively fresh relationship with someone, we have deep feelings for eachother, they want to take it to the bedroom with me and have sex. I myself am emotionally attracted to this person, but i am not attracted sexually. I don't want to ...

My boyfriend keeps saying things to me to freak me out. Am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 558 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I freaking out for no reason? My fiance went on vacation for two months and it wasn't a business trip. He did fly me down once, and I'm going two more times. I trust him, but he says weird things like "I met a couple last night and they asked me ...

How do I stop being so guilty regarding my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 558 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush admitted to me that he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend, who is one of my closest friends. Well, during Spanish class today, I passed her a note asking her if she likes him, too. She said that she does "somewh...

Am I being jealous and controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous and controlling, and if I am how do I stop? My fiance and I just got engaged two months ago, and a month ago he left for a vacation by himself for two months (his dad and friends are going down two separate weeks). I saw him last ...

My partner has been engaged 3 times in the past, he says he loves me but never talks about our "future." Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He was engaged 3 times before. First time he was in his early-mid 20s. Second time he was was in his early 30s and last time in his mid-30s. I have never brought up marriage to him. He ...

My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him. He still keeps in touch and has had lunch with her since. Is it time to finally let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his friend. I decided to stay with with him but i told him that i could never forget what happend. I have forgiven him for the incident. But lately I've found them eating lunch and dinner together. He doesn't like to ...

I am male and love this guy, he says he has feelings for me too but wants a family so has been met a female, he says he loves her but still has feelings for me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I fell in love with a much younger man and we have had a relationship for 5 years (though he is not gay). he has always wanted and has a deep need for a family. he met a girl and fell in love (she has a child, not his), and has being seeing her for ...