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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I would love children in the future but my boyfriend is soooooo against it, should I move on or hope he changes his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I'm a 25 year old student living in Canada's capital, just about to graduate college and start my placement. I have been in a relationship for 3 years, things are a tad complicated...especially when it comes to what we want in our future. My ...

He wants to break up with her and be with me but he's grown so fond of her children (they're not his)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - This guy I've liked for so many years and he wants to leave his current girlfriend due to many arguements which i know about. We have spoken and he wants to be with me and his son but the problem is that the woman has two children which he is very ...

I think I feel jealous as my girlfriend's had more 'experience' than I have.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she ...

Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again? I ask because i have a very pretty gf and she comes over all the time. I know she's attractive so im sure my husband must think so too. ...

My boyfriend told he he'd went out with another woman, I called him to talk about this and a WOMAN picked up! What do I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - On V-day my b/f and i didn't do anything because I had to work, but he called me in the morning and sent me flowers and a card. Then the next day I went to his apartment and he told me the worst news ever. He went out with another girl. He swears up ...

I let my guard down and BANG... it's all going pear shaped again, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years and it has always had its up and downs but at xmas took a turn for the worse and we broke up for a month.. we got back 2gether and everything was fine until his paranoia drove me crazy but i tried ...

I dialled a number I found on my boyfriend's phone and a woman answered... should I let this go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I saw a number in my b/f's phone that was dialed or received but was not in his contacts of the phone(he doesnt keep many--he knows numbers). I look up who it is..and its a woman. I called the number from restricted and a guy answered but he sounded ...

I am having big trust issues with my partner. What do you advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I am living with my partner and have been for about 8 months now and i am having real trust issues with him. When we first started seeing each other it was rather casual and i think we both messed each other around. I think that this is why i ...

Does he really like me or was he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - i really like this boy i know from my swimming club, he is really enjoyable to be around and has a great torso and is really good looking. we went out the weekend before last on both days and we did a few things on the sunday then he text me almost ...

What should I do for the best? Walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I fancied this boy for ages - *Luke, he has a gf and he said he loved me and he was in a sticky sittuation with his gf and couldn't dump her at the moment and said he would finish her for me soon, theres a boy in my class that really fanc...

Should I let him decide or try to persuade him to go against his parent's wishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I am feeling very lonely and depressed in a foreign country where I am in unhappy marriage to foreign national. Last year my childhood sweetheart contacted me wanting to know how things are with me. I have been in touch with him and I think I am ...

I think my wife is suffering from some sort of imbalance of late? Can anyone relate to this and give me some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - Ok folks heres a doozy, I am looking for women preferably who may have suffered an imbalance after pregnancy. but the story is; My wife is acting very erraticly of late, she throws things at me and the kids and she has started hitting, we are ...

What can I do to get my husband help for his allergies and panic attacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My husband is having axiety attacks or something. Hes been breaking out in hives from head to to on and off for over 6 months. The doctor gave him some allegra and said he was alergic to something but we cant figure out what it could be. He ha...

We had so much trust invested in one another... or so I thought?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up on Valentines Day after 15 months of dating because he told me he needed some time. After 3 days, we started dating again after having long discussions about what we would change in the relationship. Number one was ...

My husband of 23 years hasn't touched me for weeks and declined my advances yet I walk in and he is "servicing" himself!! I don't know what to do any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 688 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - hi been married for 23 years, ups and downs like many, but the other night he told me that his buddie fancies me like crazy so he told him he fancied his wife too, then got angry with me because it upset me. The thing is i would have laughed it ...

I feel we have some serious issues to work out but he's not letting me in and I'm at a stand still.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had the most wonderful relationship for 3 years. We recently just had our four year anniversary and for a while things have been rough. He seems depressed. Barely talks about it. Has no sex drive. And i'm suffering a great deal. I ...

Would you date a girl who told you she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn't want to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - I have an open question for everyone, Would you date a girl who had told you that she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn`t want to have sex with the guy? How would you know if it was the truth she is telling or if she did it ...

She's not ready to move in with me but wants me to move in with her and her parents... and they're German!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - My g/f and me were planning to move in together this september. I'm 27 she's 22 and she's German living in Germany. She's now turned round out of the blue and said she's not ready for us to move in together as she's scared the relationship wil...

I've been seeing him casually for about a year now and am scared to let him know my true feelings for him in case I scare him off. Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - When guys say things about their feelings- do they just say it to keep you quiet or do they mean it? I have fallen for this guy, ive been seeing him in a casual way for a year and am scared to tell him how I feel because I dont want to be rejec...

I may have kissed my friend's bf, but nobody clearly remembers! How can I make it up to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My parents went away at the weekend, so I had a party. I definately had too much to drink and did some stupid things. Most dont bother me, but I only found out today (3 days later) that I may have kissed my friend's boyfriend. I dont remember it nor ...

I'm worried that my husband is cheating! We've had trust issues recently, but am I just being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi this may sound as though i am worrying over nothing so here goes... I am worried that my husband is cheating. We have had problems with trust recently(not ref another woman)but i know he would be capable of hiding something from me. Most week...

She lied about talking with her ex, now I feel like it could happen again! How can I stop being so paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 677 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - Hi My current girlfriend and i have been going out officially now since October 13th 06 but we have been talking online since May 06. We get along so well and have 95% of things in common and we are both very much in love and cant bare to be...

I appreciate that she was honest about who she's kissed before, but now I feel jealous! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

My ex doesn't speak to his family, but I'd like our son to meet them. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My ex husband has not spoken to his father for over 20 years because of bitterness at his parent's divorce. His Dad has tried to get in touch but my ex still feels too much hatred. His father had a new family in Canada and I would like my son to ...

My gf has been ignoring me for days except for one text saying she'll love me forever! Should I keep trying to contact her or leave it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 682 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - Hello, I guess I need some advice. I met this great girl in November last year and everything between us was fantastic and we both fell in love very quickly. She had a lot of issues at home with a father who committed domestic violence and I kn...

My friend wants me to cancel my wedding! I'm having some problems but is there light at the end of the tunnel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I just feel so down all the time. My partner and i have two kids between us, not ours as such. We both work full time. Our girls are in their teens, hate each other. We are getting married in 6 months time and i should be as happy as could be - but ...

We are getting married next fall and I feel I don't even know him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I've got a doctors appointment today, something has shown up in my blood test, i am worried sick, but my bloke seems to of forgot that i am even going! Ålso - He works shifts and i am not sure just what he gets up to during the day. If i ask, he ...

We argue alot and we both hate admiting when we're wrong. Days go by without us speaking and we can't go on like this, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a few fall outs over the past few months - nearly once a month. Thing is we both think we're right and i won't apologise to him for something i believe he has done wrong and vice versa. So we spend days not speaking and ...

We had a big row and he left, I haven't heard from him since. How is it possible that he has 'switched off' his feelings for me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I were very happy together, we lived together and spent almost every day together, we were inseparable and had the same tastes and got on so well. We started bickering over little things and then eventually we had a big row, I told ...

He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...

My fiancee was caught kissing and cuddling another women!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi Dear, My fiancee was caught with another woman cuddling and kissing each other by my friend and her husband in a night club,she alerted me immediately and when i confronted him he denied and decided to stop communicating with me.He only called m...

Is he still nervous about underperforming??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I'd really appreciate anyone's feedback on this... my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. It's been great, but I've lost a tremendous amount of self-confidence as a result of his 'performance', if you know what i mean.... I know...

It went so well and now nothing!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - Hello My names Dan and i have been seeing this girl recently, shes 17 and im 18, she goes to college and i work for a courier company in the offices. I met the girl called Sarah at christmas time, we both met at a mates party, we was both complet...

How do I finally get over him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I was a huge jerk and broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years back in July. Literally 24hrs later I realized I made a huge mistake, but was stupid (again) and took my friends advice to let him come to me. At first in August he sort of did and ...

Should we start all over again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I had a bf who had an unresolved issue with his ex and feelings for his ex and really cant stand her life without him. I broke up with him for him to decide who he wants to be with in his life so i did give him an ultimatum wether to stay with his...

Should I take the safe option or follow my heart??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for over 4 years and although it hasn't been easy, i love him dearly. My best friend, who introduced us, has recently told me that my bf is going to propose soon. The thing is, I think my best friend, my soulmate, and I have ...

He calls his ex all the time!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 689 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Ok, I've been trying to relax and deal with this alone, but I think I need an outside perspective. When my fiance and I were still just friends, he used to talk all the time about his ex. He'd been with her for 3 years, and they had only broken u...

He's 18 but finds it hard to maintain an erection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend of six months is 18. we started off having great sex even though he was a virgin. However, now once hes got an erection, its a fight against time to penetrate me before he loses it. Once inside me it goes soft. i know this ...

Why can't I shake these feelings of doubt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - I'm an 18 year old high school student, and I know it seems semi-juvenile for me to be acting this way, but I can't shake it, and I've tried everything. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (one year exactly in May.) and although...

Is his moodiness a way of pushing me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I am glad this site is around and I appreciate any answers to my questions. I am in the beginning stages of a friendship which I hope may lead to more. The problems seem to be happening with the email part of the relationship. The man involved ...

Is he being totally honest with me or should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 688 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I met this guy 1.5 years ago, he was on a dating site and we wrote to each other. He is very well off and has his own buisness. We ended up living together after only 4 months of getting to know each other. (which is very unsual for me to do this) I ...