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Why do men like anal sex so much?

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Question - (31 January 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010):

We like to play with you butt holes to see if you'er up for anal. We like anal because it is "dirty", forbidden, erotic, tight, warm (yes, the body heat can be felt!), can lead to thunderous orgasms for the woman, and is HOT (as in sexy). Cumming in a woman's ass is a different feeling that normal sex, and it's great if the woman is into it. If you're not, anal is not fun...

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A female reader, kerizz United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

kerizz agony auntits takes a lot of trust to allow access but personally i love it obviously hurt afew times but you perservere and it becomes totally enjoyable n my hubby loves it n loves to see me loving it too

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010):

Anal sex is something that all guys know girls dont want. Its "forbidden", which makes it something that we want! (some of us). I have had anal with my girlfriend before, and for me it was amazing. It was painful for her, (I was gentle and all) she obviously tried to give me the pleasure of what "I" wanted. She later said she didn't want to do it again, I accepted that and understood why she didn't want it. I havent forced her to do it ever since, but sometimes whilst were getting "busy" she asks for it and Im all for it.

Guys just need to respect the girls decision, and if it happens because she wants it then its a lot more satisfying.

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A male reader, shayynne United States +, writes (4 February 2010):

Personally. I like anal. It does have a certain forbidden quality about it. You can really only understand why a guy likes if buy asking though. You cant just assume why hes trying to do it. IT could be anything from insecurities to a fetish even. In my situation, i have a butt fetish. I cant help the fact. It just how i am. If you do or dont like it then you need to find someone who understands how you feel about It.

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A male reader, rukio2 United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2010):

rukio2 agony aunttroubledtoomuch.

Why not go all the way in if a guy is over 5 or 6 inches? im 7 and a half inches, and I go all the way in and its no problem.

but girls tend to get the anal satisfaction from the rim of the arse (so my girlfriend tells me), that she doesnt feel nothing which is nice inside of her, just around the rim, being stretched and fucked. etc.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

I have never tried it and never want to...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

I am a woman.I tried anal sex the other day for the very first time and I absolutely loved it.My guy on the other hand hated it.He was gentle and tender.But his fear of hurting me completely spoilt it for him.He noticed me walking differently the next day and I had to tell him that I was sore.He has refused to do it again with me.I find this endearing.So not all men like anal sex.The question here should be "Do you like it?".If you don't like it,you need to lay down the terms.The right guy would respect your wishes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

It doesn't matter if the guy has a large penis, average penis or a small penis, it is tighter there and feels good. I've done it a few times and it is sort of fun, but not really that great. It takes a lot of preparation so that it doesn't hurt for the woman and is messy, if only because of the amount of lube needed. You also have to take it much slower and more carefully than vaginal sex and be careful not to go in too far if you are over 5 or 6 inches long. All in all, it just isn't worth it, especially since it will likely be at least a little uncomfortable for most women.

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A male reader, rukio2 United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2010):

rukio2 agony auntI do like it.

I do not have a small penis what so ever.

But I love it cause its tight, and feels amazing.

It's also good cause if the guy is dominant, he's doing something to a girl which their uneasy about. (Taking control etc). Thats my experience anyway.

Luckily for me, my girlfriend hates starting to do it, but whilst were doing it, she fucking loves it and cums from anal sex multiple times. Getting her to let me do it, is the problem, but once I do, she loves it.

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A female reader, curious0hot United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

curious0hot agony auntOnly some men do. If you are curious, you should ask why the particular man/men you are referring to like it...

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

If you don't like it find a guy who dsnt like it either. I dnt like it myself. I also thnk some guys like due to homosexual tendencies.

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2010):

Sweet-thing agony auntNot all men do. And typically the ones who do,seem to always have a small penis so it may feel "tighter" to them. Anal sex is one of those things, you either love it or you hate it. If you don't enjoy it, you shouldn't be forced into it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2010):

Not every guy does. But mostly it's because it's 'forbidden', or seemingly 'naughty' or 'wrong'.

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